Stal said: "Love is the history of a woman's life, but only an episode in a man's life." ”
We often feel that for love, it is generally women who have more influence than men. What men care about is career, ideals, and the future, while most women care about marriage and their future life, which naturally has a lot to do with the other half.
No matter how big the impact of love on men is, in short, the impact of love on women cannot be ignored, and even affects a woman's life.
When meeting a man she likes, although the woman's heart will be very enthusiastic, she will want to have this relationship. But as long as the woman recovers her sanity slightly, she can clearly realize that if she is too active and too enthusiastic, it is easy for men to feel that they are a very casual woman, even if the two are together, men may not cherish themselves.
After various trade-offs, women tend to restrain their inner situation and not let themselves be too active and enthusiastic. However, once love lives in our hearts, it will disturb our thoughts, and even if we want to restrain, there is no way to completely control our behavior.
Stevenson once said: "Because love enters the heart of a person, it is scolded and cannot go away." Since it has come to you, it will possess everything from you. Now that you're in love, that's the only way to do it, and the only way to do it is to think of the cheapest way to get it. ”
Generally speaking, when a woman has love in her heart, she will have a corresponding way of expression. It's just that smart women will behave very euphemistically and know how to control their emotional performance. If men want to know women's minds, they need to observe women's performance in these details and observe where women are different from the past.
When the opposite sex gets along, after a woman is emotional to a man, even if she will try to restrain her emotions, she will inadvertently show these three looks, and men should not easily ignore it.
01 When dealing with other people of the opposite sex, they will behave very normally and calmly, but when they get along with people they like, they will be very shy and reserved.
Maugham said: "Love needs to have a feeling of weakness, a requirement to be considerate and loving, to have a passion to help others and please others— if not selfless, at least cleverly concealed selfishness; love contains a certain degree of shyness and cowardice." ”
Love seems to be weak and powerless, but it often changes our personality and habits in many inadvertent moments. Just like in the movie "The Little Thing About First Love", Xiao Shui was an ordinary girl in junior high school, and she didn't think about changing herself.
But after she had a crush on a boy, although she did not take the initiative to confess, in her own life, she has been working hard to change herself, and hopes to attract the eyes of the other party.
In fact, every woman is like this, although she will not have a clear performance in the men she likes, nor will she reveal her thoughts quickly. But when it comes to getting along with each other, women's performance will be very different.
When I am with ordinary friends of the opposite sex, I don't think too much about it at all, and I act very calmly. However, in front of the man she likes, the woman will involuntarily show a very shy, very reserved look.
02 When she encounters something that concerns you, she will pay special attention to it and want to find out all the details of it.
Zhu Yaoxie said: "In terms of love, women may be very strong, but also may be very cowardly. Either she loves others or accepts the love of others, and once she is in love, she will be willing to obey if she is ordered to drill into the fire. ”
When a woman has love in her heart, she can no longer only care about her own heart as before. Falling in love with a person is involuntari, and caring for a person is often in many inadvertent moments, and it is also impossible to fully control it.
It's like when women hear about someone who doesn't matter, they don't care too much or think about learning more. But if this person is the person in the woman's heart, then things are completely different.
When she hears the news of the other party, the woman can't help but listen, to understand, and even curiously take the initiative to ask for the details, wanting to know all the things related to the other party. These performances of women are often easy for men to ignore, but they are the most common manifestations of women after falling in love with a man.
03 With someone she likes, even if she does something boring, women will feel particularly happy and happy.
When the opposite sex gets along, although women will hide their hearts and not let their thoughts appear in some language, women's behavior cannot be completely covered up.
Just like when women get along with ordinary friends of the opposite sex, they will not have too much thought and will not spend too much time with such a person of the opposite sex. If you encounter something very boring, women often just want to escape from such a situation as soon as possible and seek something they like.
And when a woman is with a man she likes, even if she doesn't do anything and says nothing, as long as she can look at each other quietly, women will feel that this is a particularly happy and happy thing.
As Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Lovers will always say a lot of boring things and do some boring things, happiness is to have someone to accompany you bored, it is rare that neither of you are bored." ”
For this, as long as men understand women's behavior, they can also understand women's minds. If men ignore these behaviors of women, it is naturally easy to miss a relationship.