Some children jump from buildings in order to learn to jump into rivers and look for life, which is really frightening! Parents in the world should really reflect seriously, reflect on whether they are educational concepts, and there is a problem with educational methods.
Talent always crushes effort. Acknowledge the huge differences between children. Recognize what someone else's child can do, your child may not be able to do. Dare to admit that your children are mediocre!
Talent forever crushes effort! Sometimes it's not that your child isn't working hard enough and that the child isn't talented in some way. Don't compare your own children to other people's children. People are more angry than people. There is a gap between adults, and even more between children! Parents should face up to the differences between their children! Don't use children as tools for adults to compete with each other. In particular, don't compare your child's shortcomings with the strengths of other people's children?
The ruler is shorter, and the inch is longer. Parents should be good at discovering the hidden talents in their children, their strengths, and their strengths. Let the child play to the strengths and avoid the weaknesses, give full play to the advantages; when the child encounters setbacks, we must tolerate failure, allow failure, and encourage the child to be more frustrated and more courageous, repeated defeats, and try again!
Parents should be senior counselors on their children's growth path, not dictators! Parents are only the most important counselors on the road of children's lives, focusing on guiding the direction, positive guidance, encouraging and encouraging, helping to make suggestions, and helping children make the best choices at the crossroads of life! Parents should not be dictators on the road of their children's growth, and should not be condescending to force orders, and they should not speak harshly to each other, and add fists and feet to each other. If parents force their children to do something they are not good at, it is that parents should be ignorant. If you force your child to be excellent, it is a big mistake made by parents.
Do your best and obey your destiny. Both hope that children will become talented, but also allow children to be mediocre! Everything has to be done according to your ability! After hard work, everything will go with the flow!
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