What is fate?
Two people meet unexpectedly, but they can see each other very happily, and then establish a connection.
The feelings established in this way are like being doomed in the dark, so that people cannot avoid or escape, and can only obey the call of the heart and strive to complete this relationship.
Perhaps, this is what we often call fate.
One thought arises, one thought falls.
At the age of love, a good fate makes people look forward to it.
However, whether or not you can grasp the fate varies from person to person. If everyone lacks the idea of cherishing fate, even if there are more encounters, they will be alone after all.
Friends who know how to cherish fate can hold hands with the other half of the other half as soon as possible in the journey of life.
Two people only need one chance to meet to spark love. Once you become a couple, you can write a happy love story under the witness of time.
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Love, relying on fate alone is not enough.
They had the opportunity to meet each other and had the idea of pity for each other.
In the next time, what should the two parties do to smoothly hold hands and get along as lovers from now on?
In fact, from the perspective of love psychology, it is necessary for a party to take the initiative to confess.
In this way, let both parties understand each other's intentions and bring the relationship between the two people closer. Mutual feelings will also get more opportunities to heat up in the back-and-forth interaction.
If two people, the heating of feelings, pinned on fate.
Next, both sides are likely to be waiting, losing patience day by day. In the end, they both believe that the two people are doomed to be inseparable, but in fact, neither of them has made any substantive actions for love.
Friends should understand the fact that loving someone needs to be expressed.
Even if you have a deep desire to love in your heart, if you can't express it, the other party can't know it after all. After all, we are not "roundworms" in each other's hearts, and it is difficult to know what others really think.
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If a man is moved, what kind of performance will he have?
Compared with girls, men are rational and decisive. But after encountering love, they are also prone to becoming emotional.
The more deeply a person loves, the easier it is for him to become cowardly and passive in the face of love.
Even men will behave in this way. For example, after falling in love with a girl, men are afraid of their own confessions, encounter the rejection of the other party, and they will also be afraid that their momentary impulses will usher in the end of the fate of two people.
In this case, men try to remain rational, yet yet are tormented by feelings.
Obviously admired for a long time, many men do not dare to launch an offensive of pursuit.
From the perspective of girls, if you meet such a boy, what kind of way should you understand the true psychology of men, so as to grasp the love of men in a targeted manner?
In fact, the psychology of love believes that:
A person's true intentions are conveyed through his subconscious. We only need to grasp the details of the interaction, and we can find the signal of admiration for you from the words and deeds of the other party.
Men fall in love with you, or have you in their hearts, the subconscious will confess like this, can not hide.
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In the temptation, try to understand.
If you don't love, you can just do it.
If men are emotional, they will rack their brains to understand girls.
After falling in love with a girl, men often behave, usually trying to find ways to understand the girl they like. For example: a man will learn about a girl's interests and hobbies through her circle of friends.
Through the understanding of girls, men can make behaviors that they like in a targeted manner.
And when facing girls, men will also use the way of side knocking.
From the girl, I know what her criteria for choosing a mate are and what her impression of herself is.
After knowing enough about girls, men will try to become the person that girls like. In this way, men try to squeeze into each other's world.
Over time, girls are often able to understand what men really think.
If it is not for the vivid heart of the woman, how can a man spend a lot of time and energy to understand her? Even if men don't say the three words "I love you" bluntly, their subconscious will not deceive people.
04
Try, go and invite each other.
How to get along, representing the sublimation of feelings?
From the perspective of love psychology, two people frequently date alone, which means that the relationship between lovers has been established.
Under normal circumstances, in the face of men's invitations, girls will refuse.
Because they don't love each other, girls will maintain a good bottom line.
They are afraid of being misunderstood by others, and they are afraid of getting into trouble. However, if the boy is the object of his liking, the woman will have a completely different performance and will gladly agree to the man's dating request.
As a girl, how to judge what a man really thinks?
In fact, everyone can also see through the matter of dating to see through whether men are interesting to you.
If a boy frequently invites girls, even if he is rejected, he will still have perseverance. The depths of this behavior are actually a manifestation of admiration.
Falling in love with a girl, men will pluck up the courage and constantly try to show each other their willingness to communicate.
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In getting along, use your heart to be perfect.
In love, girls are in need.
Where fate begins, they want love to be romantic and beautiful.
As a boy, even if the personality is big, it will become romantic and affectionate after the heartbeat.
Smart men will seize the opportunity to get along and meet the needs of girls for romance.
For example, on special days, men will send a beautiful gift for girls to find a sense of ceremony. Prepare surprises from time to time to make girls feel valued.
And when two people, the relationship goes further.
Men will also think about the long term, become active and hardworking, and hope to give the woman they love, a happy present, and a better future.
Because of deep love, men will try to change themselves and revolve around girls.
He will see the happiness of girls as his direction and responsibility. Can't let go of a girl, men will go all out to complete each other, only hope that under the witness of time, the other party can understand their own intentions.
Love will make people brave.
In the same way, caring too much about a person will lead to a lot of caution.
Even if a man is very rational, he will become a person who shrinks his hands and feet after his heart is moved.
Even so, the subconscious of a man will still release a signal of admiration. For example, after falling in love with a girl, the man will continue to understand her, invite her, and fulfill her.
Does a man love you? Girls may wish to start from these angles, see through the real thoughts of men, so as to grasp the direction of the emotions of the two people.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.