No one in the world can truly empathize with the pain and suffering of another person.
The needle was stuck in his body, and he knew how much it hurt.
On the one hand, we need to be considerate, respectful, and helpful.
On the other hand, learn to support your own life and strive for light and warmth.
Only after I have suffered from my own pain do I understand the pain of others
The stimulation of human kindness is not based on reason, but on experience. Only the suffering experienced by personal experience can be truly carved into the bones.
In ancient times, it was difficult for students to enter Beijing to catch up with the examination, and it was difficult to title the gold list. Candidates from poor families borrowed money to go to Beijing, and after returning to their hometowns, they also had to suffer the blank eyes of their fathers and fellow villagers.
Zuo Zongtang participated in the examination three times and said that he had "suffered a lot and was poor and vulgar." This experience in his youth is an important reason why he still sympathizes with the weak after he is in a high position of power. When his son Zuo Xiaowei rushed to take the exam, Zuo Zongtang took out a few thousand taels of silver to help poor candidates in his hometown free of charge.
Only by experiencing similar sufferings can we experience the unspeakable pain of others, arouse compassion, and give the most direct help to others.
Suffering is a force that teaches us goodness
Whether a person has compassion and whether he can put himself in the shoes of others depends largely on whether he has suffered hardships and experienced the hardships of life.
The Book of Jin and the Chronicle of Emperor Hui record that the Jin Dynasty was in constant war and the people were displaced. Because there is no food to eat, many people are starved to death. When the news reached the palace, the emperor was shocked when he heard it. After some hard thinking, he asked the minister, "The people have no food to eat, so why don't they eat porridge?" ”
Some people are born to live in high-rise buildings, and some people are born to roll mud ditches. Standing clean on a tall building, you will never know how cold and smelly the water in the mud ditch is.
Emperor Hui of Jin asked such a ridiculous question because he was born emperor. On weekdays, all I hear is singing praises and praising virtue and the peace of the world. Only when the suffering of reality comes to him can he awaken his sleeping compassion.
Life is like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge
Lu Xun once wrote in "The Collected Works": "There is a man downstairs who is sick to death, the family in the wall is singing a phonograph, the opposite is playing children, there are two people on the wall laughing wildly, and there are cards, and there are women on the boat in the river crying about her dead mother... Human sorrows and joys are not the same, I just think they are noisy. ”
There are good times and bad times in life, good and bad, can only bear alone, learn to live their own lives. After half a lifetime, I realized that it is best to live well. No one is truly worthy of envy, and no one can accompany you for the rest of your life.
Some sweetness is destined to be unsharable, and some bitterness is destined to taste itself. When you are alone, you have words to hide in your heart and something to carry yourself. As we walk, we grow, we learn compassion, we learn to be strong. Like a cactus, it can grow savagely with thirst and the hot sun.
There is no real empathy in the world, some are just cold and warm self-knowledge. We have compassion for others because we have experienced similar pain and suffering. With a pair of strong hands, support your life. With a kind heart, understand the pain of others.