preface:
Although it is not difficult to be a nanny, it is very difficult to persevere, not that the nanny does not want to serve the elderly, but that the elderly are too excessive, too difficult to serve, so the nanny has to resign, even if the employer gives a high salary, the nanny does not want to do it, why is this? Let's take a look at Mr. Zhang's experience!
Mr. Zhang's statement:
When I was young, I was working as a farmer at home, and I was older, I couldn't do farm work, and my son didn't argue, he knew to ask me for money, they were almost in their 20s, they didn't know how to make money, there was no way behind me, I could only go to the nanny, because my friend told me that now many people in the city like to find male nannies, and the salary for male nannies is also very high, much better than farming, farming, two or three thousand yuan a year, when the weather is not good, there may be no harvest, being a nanny is different, Nanny receives a fixed salary every month, and there are seven or eight thousand yuan a month, you can save seventy or eighty thousand a year, I am this age, I want to save a little more money, in case one day my son wants to get married, I always have to give a bride price or the like, now the bride price is more than 100,000, it is really not easy to be a parent, everything must be for the sake of their children, even if they are tired, they have to endure.
I have been a nanny for three years, and I know more about this industry, because I have a good attitude, the employer is also very good to me, I also like the job of the nanny, at the beginning of this year, I changed an employer, the employer is a 70-year-old lady, the old lady is very rich, but her relationship with her children is very bad, her children basically do not interact with her, she has no way, so I can only ask the nanny to take care of herself, I am her nanny, at the beginning, I think it is not difficult to take care of an old lady, As long as I do my job well, but when I became her nanny, I found that the old lady was too difficult to serve, she always felt that she spent money, and then I had to serve her unconditionally, she would never think about me, and even said that she did not respect me at all, she often scolded me when there were many people, and the scolding words were particularly ugly, all with insulting scolding, if I met her in a bad mood, she would still beat me, I had been beaten by her several times, I was very unhappy, but I did not dare to resist, after all, she is an old man, And it's my employer again, and if I resist, the consequences will be severe.
After that I couldn't stand it, and then I told the employer that I couldn't do this job, I really felt very tired, I was a man, I also had my dignity, but the employer told me that she wanted to give me a salary increase, she said to give me ten thousand a month, hoping that I would continue to serve her, she said that my temper was very good, not like other nannies, but I was really afraid, although the salary of ten thousand yuan was very high, but this money was too difficult to ask for, I didn't want to be wronged like that.
Later, I still resigned, and after I resigned, I changed my employer, the new employer is an uncle, his temper is very good, he respects me, and I am very happy to be a nanny with him.
Author's Point of View:
Nanny and employer must live in harmony, mutual respect, especially the employer must not feel that they have spent money should let the nanny do everything, this is obviously not right, nanny is also a normal job, need our normal treatment, more need to respect, do not be difficult for the nanny, not to mention too much demand, otherwise any nanny can not take care of themselves.