My aunt is a person who has hurt me since I was a child, so when she saw that I was almost thirty years old and had not yet married, she was very anxious, and for my marriage, it became the most important thing for my parents, always thinking of marrying me out before the age of thirty, saying that if she reached this age, women would become worthless.
But since I missed him, my later life has become a general, and I even have the idea of not wanting to get married in the future. I didn't tell my mother about this, otherwise she would have scolded me again, but I complained to my aunt, and she was a little worried about me after listening to it, which gave me a lot of comfort and enlightenment.
A few years ago, I had a relationship, it can be said that the love is still very deep, he is my college classmate, then we fell in love, when the two were together, he was very good to me, each other also identified each other, and later is the other half of the rest of his life, but when I graduated, take him home to show his mother, my mother resolutely disagreed with us together, she said that his family is too poor, the family burden is also heavy, I married, will definitely suffer.
In the end, she forced us to break up, but I really didn't want to, and he missed it, because he was very good, and he was good to me, but the family conditions were a little worse, but I believe that he would definitely have a chance to come out in the future and bring me happiness.
So later I secretly met and interacted with him, but finally my mother knew, that time she asked her ex-boyfriend out, scolded him fiercely, probably hurt his self-esteem, so our feelings really went to the end, and there was no contact since, now I know that he is married, those once good past, it has become a memory, no longer possible, so that I can not invest in the future feelings. In addition, the mother still continued to interfere, so the subsequent relationship, did not last long, it was divided again.
Once, when I was chatting with my aunt, she asked me what kind of boy I liked, I said to be mature and stable, responsible, age, it doesn't matter if you are older, but it is mainly suitable, so my aunt took on the responsibility of introducing me to the marriage partner, after having a candidate, she talked to my mother, saying that she was not allowed to participate in it again, if I talked to him, I felt suitable, and then brought it to her, otherwise I was yellowed by my mother, then I would really be lonely and old in the future.
After the mother understood the man's conditions, she agreed to the request made by her aunt, saying that she promised not to intervene this time, but the mother did not do it, and on the day when the aunt took me to a blind date, the mother quietly followed me because she was not at ease.
The man arrived first, with his child by his side. Before my aunt has told me, said that he was married, has a daughter, but his personality is very good, the family conditions are also good, in line with the criteria for me to find a marriage partner, after a while, I also have some understanding of him, really as my aunt said, is a good man, personality is also compatible with me, so I plan in my heart, get along with him to see.
When we were talking vigorously, my mother saw the other party, and she came to our side in anger, pointed at her aunt and scolded her, saying to her: "What do you mean, my daughter can't get married?" Actually introduced her to a divorced man, but also with children, we are relatives, but you hurt my daughter so much, then our two families do not need to come back and forth again", after saying that, my mother directly pulled me away, this time my love affair has not yet begun, it is in vain again, maybe I am destined to be lonely in this life.
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