Men are the pillars of the family, and women are the needles of the family.
For a family, the man is the beam that supports the whole family, and whether the family is stable depends on whether the man who is the pillar of the pillar plays a role; and the woman is the cohesion of a family, with her, the family will be full of laughter and firmly united.
As a pillar of the pillar, his importance can be imagined, if you meet an unreliable man, it is tantamount to a house that has lost its beams, and there is a risk of collapse at any time.
On April 15, a man in Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province, because he owed a lot of gambling debts, his wife filed for divorce in a huff, and after some unsuccessful attempts, the man actually wanted to jump off the building and take his life.
Outside one of the windows, a man stood on the narrow edge of the window, clutching the window with his hands, crying hysterically. The voice revealed pain, unwillingness, helplessness, anger, all kinds of emotions mixed together, it seemed that the idea of his wife divorcing him had caused him to fall into a breakdown.
Fortunately, the man's wife had been holding his hand deadly, and with the firefighters who arrived in time, the man was finally pulled back into the house.
Netizen views:
Although the man looks very miserable, netizens have one-sidedly said that they do not sympathize with this man.
Netizen Wuge said that this woman is really unlucky, her husband owes debts to drag himself down, wants to divorce and is also threatened by the death of the other party, moral kidnapping, it is really too unlucky.
Netizen Coral Sea said that I, a man, also feel that marrying the wrong person, not marrying yellow gambling poison is the bottom line. Gamblers are not worthy of pity, and I have seen many gamblers who can make up anything for any reason in order to borrow money.
Bo Jie's point of view:
For gamblers, their psychology is to win and want to win more, and if they lose and want to win back, they will fall deeper and deeper in this quagmire.
Gambling is ten gambles and nine losses, so people who are involved in gambling will not have a good end in the end, and even drag their wives and children down, so that the family is in trouble.
When a family meets such a man, it is equivalent to a house without beams, and it cannot withstand a little wind and rain, and a little bit of wind and grass will be precarious and collapse in an instant.
After causing so much trouble for the family, the man, faced with his wife's request for divorce, did not achieve extreme measures to morally kidnap the other party, which is undoubtedly immature for an adult.
As a man, things have reached this point, at least dare to be bold, take out their own courage, take on their own responsibilities, and use actions to prove their remorse is the best way to save their wives, rather than forcing them to die.
And as a woman, when you meet such a man, it is right to stop the loss in time, don't believe too much that they will change their ways,
In a word, the sins created by gambling are not worthy of sympathy, and if you want to live a sunny life, you must stay away from gambling.