The road to educating children has always been a never-ending process, and different eras have different needs and requirements for children's educational concept requirements.
Too many parents love their children, and too many times they will not love their children, there may be no problem with the starting point, and there is always a problem in the way they love their children.
When it comes to toys, in the era of material abundance, children's needs can basically be satisfied, whether they like it or are given by others, the adequacy of toys can be much more sufficient than the childhood of parents.
In the face of a dazzling toy, what is your child's favorite toy?
For this problem, in-depth observation found that in the eyes of children, how exquisite and valuable toys, fresh, will feel very boring.
From the child's point of view, the best toy is actually the mother's face.
Most of the swaddled children will recognize the mother, but where others hold it, the child stares at the face out of curiosity for a while, and finds that it is not a familiar mother's face, and many of them will cry. Visible mother's face is the child's biggest reassurance pill.
As the child grows older, the hearing, vision, and touch slowly develop and improve, and in this process, the same is the mother's face, which can give a strong sense of security. You can also feel the mood of joy and sorrow from your mother's face, and change with your mother's emotions at will.
Many parents must have experienced the crying of their children when they first went to kindergarten, sent to the school to the teacher before leaving, the child cried a lot, even if the mother was there, the child could see it and did not cry.
The younger the child, the greater the insecurity that is deeply insecure from the depths of the parents, and before that, it is necessary to learn to properly separate the child from himself.
Modern society, are advocating that parents accompany their children more, and this companionship is also a requirement, not simply with the child to play casually, parents play their own mobile phones, in this process, the expression on the parents' faces is consistent, how to infect the child, talk about how to pass on emotions to the child.
With children, it is no longer simply to feed and wear warm for children, more is the pursuit of healthy growth of children, whether it is physical or psychological, we must grow up comprehensively, missing one aspect, in later life, there will always be some problems.
The reason why the mother's face is the best toy for the child, there is joy and sorrow on the mother's face, seeing the child's performance, the emotional changes on the mother's face, directly and powerfully infecting and inspiring the child.
On the bright side, happy and affirmative emotions, the child will work harder; sad emotions, the child will reflect on their own problems; serious emotions, the child will pay attention to the problems that arise.
The mother's face is a changeable toy box, through the mother's face, the child can truly feel the pain and pleasure in growth, and gradually promote the healthy growth of the child's psychology.
The happiness brought by all material things to the child is short-lived, and the companionship and emotions from the parents alone will accompany the growth of the child throughout his life. And parents pay more attention, with the growth of their children, they can also slowly stand out.
"I don't want you to have good grades, I don't want you to excel, I just want you to grow up healthy and healthy, and be an upright person." This is the simple wish of too many parents, but it is also the best requirement for the growth of children, and parents need to carefully irrigate the physical and psychological growth of children and establish a correct outlook on life, values and worldview.
Nowadays, the cultivation of children is the focus of too many families' "work", but educating children is not effective by spending a lot of time and money, the key is still intentional?