There was a saying circulating on the Internet before: love her to spend money on her, men who do not spend money on women are not good men. This sentence has been recognized by many women, who think that men who love you should spend money on you, otherwise they will not love you.
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Most couples in love, girls will not take the initiative to ask boys to buy her beautiful bags and cosmetics, and even buy their boyfriends some things he likes, the two people in this relationship to pay each other. However, some girls have impure purposes, often asking boys to invite guests to dinner and buy expensive bags, clothes and cosmetics.
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Most girls are at ease and enjoy spending money for boys, and think that boyfriends should do, thinking that getting along with girls is what boys spend money on. But the boys can't sit still, hearing this statement, one by one jumped out to say that it is not easy to make money, if it is some normal range of consumption, it is still acceptable, but those more excessive requirements, so that many boys can not stand, and even quarrel over this, affecting each other's feelings. This is indeed a difficult thing to solve.
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The reporter learned that there is a young man named Xiao Huang, 26 years old this year, is an ordinary employee of a company, with a monthly salary of 7,000 yuan, and every month he has to send 2,000 yuan to his parents to supplement the family. Some time ago, I talked about a girlfriend, the girl and Xiaohuang are in the same company but not in the same department. Like other couples, the two ate together after work and went shopping. At first, the girl was still more intimate, reminding Xiaohuang not to order too many dishes when eating together, and it was a waste of food and money to eat. Xiao Huang felt that he had found an incomparably intimate girlfriend.
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But the good times are not long, Xiao Huang said that after getting along for a while, she found that every time the girl ate or went shopping to watch a movie, she never took the initiative to pay, as long as the two people went out together, the girl never took the initiative to pay. It is also often said that they want cosmetics. The two of them ate together at a time, and when it came time to check out, Xiao Huang found that he had spent a lot and had exceeded his budget. While thinking about what to do at the bar, the girl came over and threw a bank card at Xiao Huang: "The old lady has opened her eyes today, and she wants me to pay for dinner with men!" ”
Xiao Huang is very distressed, he himself understands that when boys and girls are in love, it is true that boys have to pay more, but this does not mean that girls do not need to pay, love is a two-way payment, only one person to pay this relationship will not last long, there will always be a person who feels tired, overwhelmed. Not to mention that girls also know their own salary level.
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Xiao Huang plans to talk to his girlfriend about this problem and see if he can negotiate a way to get the best of both worlds. Xiao Huang said that two people can open an account, and every month the two people can save a little money in it, and they can use this money to travel and eat together. However, the girl expressed her reluctance, and the two quarreled over it, and the matter was finally closed.
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Girls' dress is very delicate, and cosmetics are not cheap. The girl said that when it comes to falling in love, shouldn't boys pay? The love I've been in before is a boy who never mentioned money to me.
But Xiao Huang told his friend about this matter, and the friend said that this kind of girl should stay away as soon as possible and it is not worth nostalgia. In the relationship, only one party is paying, completely disregarding the feelings of the other person will not last long, stop the loss in time! After much deliberation, Xiao Huang finally proposed a breakup to the girl.
In fact, no matter in what era, any kind of relationship needs both parties to pay each other, only one party is constantly paying, the other sits back and enjoys its success, this feeling is a kind of consumption for both sides, so no matter what kind of relationship, we must learn to pay in both directions.