"I went the wrong way, but married the right person"

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What is it like to marry someone?

In a video I swiped this morning, I found the answer.

The picture shows a woman talking to her husband on the side of the road, and the car is parked not far in front of her.

The lady listened to the navigation drive on the wrong road, getting more and more wrong, so angry that she cried on the side of the road.

She sobbed and said to her husband on the other end of the phone:

"I don't want to drive."

"I keep going wrong, it keeps saying I'm going wrong."

My husband has been patiently listening to every word she says, and every sentence is carefully comforting.

"It's all right, you calm down first."

"It's not normal to not know the road and take the wrong way."

"Okay wife, let's not cry first, let's slowly say it's okay."

This video has more than 10W likes, and even the comments have 1.5W.

Everyone is envious of this lady having a gentle husband, praising her for being blessed and marrying the right person.

Some people also say, "Obviously it is a small thing, as for being so indisputable"?

I can understand this lady's mood.

Because I'm also a road fool.

Know how broken it is for road fools to find the way.

At this time, if the person she trusts the most also comes to blame, I am afraid that it will make people fall into despair.

So, it seems to you to be a small thing, but it is not for me.

And this gentle way of being gentle will definitely make me remember for the rest of my life.

This is the case with the so-called afflictions and true feelings!

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"In other words, I was scolded by him to the point that I was angry."

This comment, which ranks at the top of the review, inexplicably makes people feel a little sad.

This is probably the same idea as the brother who thought it was a trivial matter.

But swearing is more excessive than he is.

From the reply under this comment, it can be seen that when many people encounter such things, not all of them will be as lucky as this lady to get the tolerance and relief from her husband.

Not only will they not, but they will speak harshly because of their "stupid" behavior.

I've seen some people say, "Maybe the other person is in a hurry because they're worried, so they're on fire."

I admit that there is some truth to what they say.

It is understandable that there is a momentary rush, and there is indeed a kind of machismo that begins to appease after scolding.

But he will never blindly know only to scold people, or even leave his wife alone.

In that case, such an act was far more hurtful than losing oneself.

After all, no one wants to take the wrong road, drive the wrong car, and leave themselves in a place they don't know.

And I didn't call you to make you scold me.

It's to make you feel sorry for me and help me solve things.

As a husband, when things happen, you can't help but lose your temper first, you can't talk well, and your heart will be far away once or twice.

The so-called love is easy to keep together.

Although you can't have a sharp mind, at least I can know that you are cold and warm, and I can think of you as sad and happy.

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It is said that "women are trouble".

As everyone knows, it is troublesome to fall in love, and it is even more troublesome to get married and live a life.

I have a colleague who has a lot of rules and regulations when it comes to finding objects.

For example, the height should exceed 178, the weight should not exceed 130 pounds, the person should be white, the hands should be good-looking, and so on.

When it comes to finding a partner, she's always on a list.

We teased her and said, "You're not looking for a partner, it's a beauty pageant."

But last year she got married.

The man standing at the wedding was not tall, not thin, and dark.

From this man, I couldn't even see the slightest match for her requirements.

But she said, "He can listen to me and talk to me well." ”

To tell the truth, my colleague does have a bad temper, an only child, the family is used to it, but people are reasonable, just good to play a little temper.

So, those rules and regulations were the least practical for her.

People who can talk well, be patient and gentle, and she can last a long time.

Dealing with feelings, emotional female writer Su Qian once said:

"I don't get tired of being there for a long time, and I don't bother with small talk. Never perfunctory, never slack. ”

The enthusiasm and expectation of giving always hope that there will be a response.

Huo Siyan once asked Du Jiang:

"Am I the girlfriend you've talked to, the one who spends the most time shopping or the least?"

"It's both the most and the least." Du Jiang replied.

Even if it was a boring question, even if his reply was full of survival.

At least he didn't shy away from it, let alone perfunctory.

So people who really love you will always be willing to face all the questions you ask, even your little temper and some seemingly unreasonable questions, they will answer them seriously.

This is what everyone envies: "I will always surrender to tenderness, and you are like tenderness itself."

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In "Natsume's Friend's Account", Midorikawa Yuki said:

I want to be a gentle person, because I have been treated like that by gentle people, and I deeply understand the feeling of being treated gently.

That's right.

I thought, side by side by the road, he would have caught me on the side near the crosswalk;

What I casually said like to eat, he can always remember, and even straight men to take me to eat this for a long time;

I have a cold and can run out in the middle of the night to buy good medicine to take care of me all night;

Although these are very ordinary small things, they always make people feel warm.

After all, companionship is the longest confession of affection.

It is these so-called small things that can support each other through this long life.

There are very few people in the world who can understand your strangeness, and it is difficult to find people who accompany you to be cute and loved.

However, it should not be difficult to do it without perfunctory, right?

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