I finally stayed up late to watch 10 episodes of Dear Little Ones.
Freshman, Hello, Libra, Crowding, Split, Gap, Out of Control, Bondage, Homecoming, Rebuilding, are the themes of each episode.
At that time, when the show was just launched, due to insufficient preparation, I could not watch it after only watching 2 episodes. Don't misunderstand, not because this drama is not good, but because this drama is too good, my empathy is too deep, the mood fluctuations are too big, and I really can't bear to continue watching it.
However, when I calmed down, adjusted my mood, stayed up late to chase the drama, and finally finished watching episode 10.
In the latest plot, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu divorced.
Although this is the ending that has long been known, from the moment Xiao Lu derailed, the ending of him and Fang Yinuo was already doomed, and the trivialities in life crushed them several times, and the derailment incident only gave a short pain to the relationship between the two people, and saw the rest in advance.
But even so, I couldn't accept it. Because, in my opinion, there is still room for relaxation between the two of them. Under the pressure of life, both people are first-time parents, and both people have made mistakes, quarreled, and had conflicts.
But it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage! The rift between them can be bridged, and their marriage can be saved!
Watching 10 episodes of "Dear Child" in a row, I felt it, did not spit unhappily, wrote this text, and shared it with everyone.
1: Freshman
Fang Yinuo, like many women who are mothers for the first time, has been taking care of her children since she was pregnant in October, all kinds of strategies, all kinds of popular science knowledge, and all her energy has been spent on her children.
For this reason, she has pregnancy spots on her face and is forced to bear the loss, and smiles in the mirror, not because she needs self-encouragement, but because sadness is not good for the child, which is the parenting knowledge she learned. It is said that every newborn mother is half a parenting master, which is not a lie.
Fang Yinuo prepares the things needed for childbirth every day, the child's small clothes, busy and happy. Before entering the delivery room, she could even play and joke with her husband. In her opinion, she was ready for everything, for the new life.
In class, the amniotic fluid broke.
Fang Yinuo is still calm and calm, and even arranged the students' self-study, she will give birth to a child first, and everyone should not make trouble.
But it's one thing to be prepared, it's another thing to go to war. Before entering the delivery room, she thought that nothing was wrong, and even took away her husband. However, when it was time to give birth to the child, her husband Xiao Lu disappeared again, and everything was in a hurry, and there was no room for relaxation.
He worked hard in the delivery room for one night, and the husband drank at home for one night. The next day, the husband arrived, and he did not solve all the problems. After giving birth, Fang Yinuo was very weak, and his spirit was also highly nervous and fluctuated greatly.
However, fortunately, the whole process is still relatively smooth, there is conflict, but it is not a big problem, I have asked many friends, when I gave birth to a child, the general situation is similar to the play. The first child of a small couple is basically like this, even if you are well prepared, there are busy things.
However, new life is the only theme of that moment, and when you see the child's appearance for the first time, parents will be relieved.
2: Confinement
The new birth of a child is a new life, and for mom and dad, it is also a "new life". Because, they are also the first time to be a father, a mother. At that time, everything was disrupted, the time was very scattered, and I couldn't sleep all night, and it was difficult to sleep and eat. Mom needs to take care of her body, and Dad needs to get rid of carelessness and learn to take care of people.
Not surprisingly, "Dear Child" made a fuss about the problems in Fang Yinuo's month. This is the most untouchable pain for many mothers, and any family, whether rich or poor, will always have all kinds of problems in the confinement, about the children, about the mother herself.
In addition to chicken feathers and garlic skin, it is still chicken feathers and garlic skin.
In the comment area of my last article, more than half of the feedback I saw was my mother's feelings, feeling that those days were hard to look back on. Even, some mothers who have just given birth are feeling the distress brought about by confinement.
Many viewers admitted that "Dear Child" did not install a camera in my home, and the plot was exactly the same as their own life encounters, and even did not change. Children have been hospitalized because of jaundice, have quarrels because of the problem of sister-in-law, and have had fierce conflicts because of the different parenting concepts of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
At the same time, those fathers are basically irresponsible in the confinement, whirring and sleeping, and their heads are missing strings.
And Xiaobian also pressed the pause button after seeing Fang Yinuo's encounter in the moon. Life is very hard, watching a TV series is also so bitter, I can't bear to watch it, directly slept in the past. Looking back now, the emotions at that time are still turning upwards, heart-wrenching!
3: Parenting
Hehe was discharged from the hospital, and yueyi was also scolded by Fang Yinuo, and he could not find a suitable yueyi for a short time. The family could only find another way, xiao Lu had no choice but to let his mother come to help. This is a helpless move, and it is also the choice of many families.
As said in the play, even if his mother can't take care of people, she is still her own family, rest assured.
But can you really rest assured? Perhaps the man is relieved, but the woman is bound to be unable to rest assured. The newborn of a child is the heart of the mother, and the protection of the calf is instinctive. At that time, the mother who had just given birth to a child was the most sensitive and loved the child the most.
Ren Suxi plays Fang Yinuo, and his eyes are all daughters, and his eyes have never left his children. The mother-in-law took her daughter out to bask in the sun, and she even took a telescope to monitor remotely. The smell of smoke on her mother-in-law's body, she could smell it at once.
For the sake of the child, Fang Yinuo took notes and asked his mother-in-law to raise the child according to the above schedule. However, the elders of the older generation who obediently abide by these things often want to follow their own opinions. The mother-in-law is a relative, compared to the sister-in-law of the last month, although it will not harm the child, but it is also impossible to say, scold, the same trouble.
At this time, Fang Yinuo is sensitive, which is a reaction from the physical weakness to the body, and it is also the common sentiment of people. The mother with a large nerve is fine, and the mother with a slightly delicate mind is a big problem, quarrel, endless quarrel, "Dear Child" argues all the time.
Xiao Lu became a lazy father in Fang Yinuo's eyes, and his mother-in-law became a person who would only drag his feet all day in Fang Yinuo's eyes. Even Fang Yinuo's mother came to take care of it, but because of some negligence, she was yelled at and quarreled.
Xiao Lu returned home after work, and saw the two families arguing there, his mother and brother and his wife and husband, because of the problem of smoking at home, there was an argument, both sides said inappropriate words, Xiao Lu comforted which side is not, sitting next to him without saying a word.
After the two sides quarreled, they both wanted Xiao Lu to come over and judge and take sides for themselves.
Finally, Xiao Lu couldn't stand it and broke out.
"You're all right, you're all right, I'm not right, I shouldn't have put you together." Think about your own things, just that self-esteem, just that feeling, don't think about thinking about others?
Since I was born, have I had a safe day? I myself went to work for a day tired and half dead, back home, but also coax this, coax that, all have to coax, are all relatives, I don't coax, coax the big, coax the small, coax the old? Has anyone ever thought about me? Who doesn't want to be coaxed, I want to be coaxed."
"Whoever is unhappy, I have to be coaxed, any one of you is unhappy, I am worried to death, I have to be coaxed, because you are my family, I don't want you to be wronged, you are my family, I feel sorry for you." 」 But have you ever felt sorry for me?
After saying this, Xiao Lu cried for the first time in the play, crying very wrongly.
It's a long line, and the mood rises and falls. From the initial grievances, to the final emotional explosion. Qin Haoka's point was very accurate. There were several layers of brewing, first to clear the quarrel of a large family, and then to fall on themselves, from the inside out, and then from the outside to the inside, the emotions gushed out and expressed their opinions.
It is said that men are introverted, and Qin Hao accurately interprets the characteristics of this role in this play. No matter how trivial the family was, he endured alone, maintaining the harmony of a large family, he had faults and was careless, but he was also a father for the first time, and no one took this into account.
I believe that the audience who watched the play must have hated the role of Xiao Lu before. In everyone's eyes, irresponsible fathers are like this, and thin mud, delicious and lazy, do not care about children. However, as soon as Xiao Lu's words came out, I think everyone should also have a new feeling, the family division of labor is not the same, it is not easy.
A big family lives a life, or they must be considerate of each other, in order to be harmonious, daily so, especially when encountering things.
4: Crack
The family spent 1 year in a noisy quarrel, and the daughter Hehe was 1 year old. The family prepared a first-birthday feast for Hehe, but because of the appearance of the third party, Zhu Zhu, the family was not happy and dispersed. The originally calm lake has made waves again.
This time, it was not the problem of the child, it became the problem of Xiao Lu's derailment, and it became the marriage crisis of Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu.
Zhu Zhu and Xiao Lu were known to her mother, and scolded her. She was discouraged and went directly to the scene of Hehe's 1-year-old banquet to stir up trouble and make the matter public. There was no promise to Fang Yi, nor did it give Xiao Lu any room for relaxation.
Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu's feelings were picking up, and the pause button was pressed in an instant, and the contradiction broke out in an instant, and it was out of control. Fang Yinuo recalled the various things during pregnancy and confinement, and was completely disappointed in the man who had been with him for many years.
A rift appeared, the levee collapsed in an instant, and the two people went to the step of divorce.
On the day of the divorce, after the two people arrived at the Civil Affairs Bureau, they did not go through the formalities for half a day. The staff let the two of them think about it, Xiao Lu felt that it was also too impulsive, suggested that the two people should not consider it, and ensured that they would not drink alcohol in the future and would not make mistakes.
Fang Yinuo hesitated, went out to answer a phone call, and his mother called. She said a word and finished it immediately.
After Xiao Lu in the room listened, he immediately shook his head, acquiesced to everything, and took the initiative to sign. After Fang Yinuo came in, she saw that Xiao Lu had signed it, and she was stunned, she did not hesitate any longer, and the two of them divorced in this way.
There is a rift in Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's marriage, which has long been foreshadowed.
However, in that situation, Zhu Zhu's move actually pushed 2 people to the edge of the cliff. Everyone knows that everything is irretrievable, and it is no problem to chew and swallow bitterly. However, when the problem is put on the table, it is really unbearable for anyone, and who wants to live under the strange eyes of others every day?
The fault lies in Xiao Lu, there is no doubt about this. But from the plot point of view, he is not completely without emotion on the other side. The marriage between the two of them can actually be saved. Moreover, both people have children, and in that situation, for the sake of children, two people also have room to save.
Again, it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage, and the two of them do not have to go to this step.
The marriage of Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu makes people sigh!
5: Say one more word
In recent years, the small editors of domestic dramas have also watched a lot. Without blowing or black, there are very few dramas that make me empathize with a TV series like "Dear Child". This drama is very thin, so fine that the clutter in life is infinitely magnified, enlarged to the point that everyone can see their own shadow.
After watching 10 episodes, I can responsibly say that "Dear Kids" is a good drama. It is a good drama that can be compared to "The World" at the beginning of the year. In particular, when I learned of the follow-up plot of the play, Hehe would also be hospitalized due to illness, the two families would be involved in boundless pain, and the real climax had not yet come, I was full of expectations for this drama, looking forward to "Dear Child" can be as popular as "In the World", successfully out of the circle, and become one of the "ceilings" of family dramas.
Domestic dramas really still have to watch CCTV, CCTV shot, sure enough, are the signboard of domestic dramas.
However, in the end, I would like to say one more word, watch the drama and empathize, and experience a variety of life. Drama is a play after all, there are realistic, there are also exaggerations, everyone should not go too deep into the play. Life is very bitter, some hurt, or forget the best. The rest of our lives are gone, and we still have to turn our hearts to the sun.
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