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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Women want to get the affection of men, not by the refinement of appearance, but by the abundance of the inside.
A woman who knows how to maintain a posture in her relationship will be favored by men at any time and have more dignity.
In fact, women who can make men cherish for a lifetime are capitalized. Such a woman, who knows how to get along with men, can always adhere to her own principles, which seems to be very patterned.
They will not become blind because they fall in love with a man, and they will not lose themselves, but they will be able to have the best self-esteem and confidence while giving their feelings.
This kind of woman, naturally, will not become humble, but stand shoulder to shoulder with men and be more cherished by men.
In the final analysis, a woman's posture in her feelings often determines the degree of being cherished by men.
First, have a posture of economic independence
"Not Easy to Live" wrote: "Who will take care of who for a lifetime, that is a heavy burden." So you have to be self-reliant. ”
Indeed, a woman's best posture is financial independence, and when you are not attached to men, you can have more confidence.
At this time, you will have a lot of right to speak, live a more dignified life, and men will naturally pay more attention to you.
An independent woman will never live on a man because she has enough ability to live and does not need to look at a man's face.
Such women are often deeply loved by men and will be doubly cherished.
How deep a man loves you, many times it is not his decision, but the woman's own decision, when you have the capital to stand shoulder to shoulder with men, he will naturally pity you.
Therefore, women in the relationship, must maintain financial independence, often the posture of people, it determines the degree to which men love you.
You are strong enough, he will not despise you, you have your own dignity, he will give you more status.
On the contrary, a woman has to rely on men for everything, he will certainly not cherish you, men are also very realistic, he feels that you have no value, will not be cherished.
Any feeling, is so realistic, women do not have the ability to be financially independent, and the man who loves you again may also leave.
How many men in this world can really love you consistently? A lifetime of inseparability is actually determined by strength.
Women have absolute strength, I believe that no man will leave you, he hurt you too late, this is the bottom line.
Second, maintain a posture of trust
In a relationship, trust is the foundation that sustains a relationship.
Women want men to cherish you, you must know how to trust men, do not see him with the opposite sex, just think wildly, sensitive and suspicious.
A lot of times, it's normal for men to socialize with women.
If you are always suspicious of a man, do not give him a little freedom, and restrain him at all times, it is likely that you will not be cherished in the end.
In fact, a man's patience is also limited, he may tolerate you for a while, but he must not tolerate you for a lifetime.
If you are questioned for a long time, it is easy to hit his self-confidence, and those who originally loved you will become disappointed.
Because, he can't see trust in you, can't feel warmth, and over time he loses patience, and once he is disappointed in you, he probably won't love.
On the contrary, women maintain a posture of trust in their feelings, which often makes men feel very respected and naturally cares more about you.
Sometimes, a man's intuition about feelings is to be able to get trust and respect, and when he has your trust, he will see your good and become more caring for you.
Moreover, a woman's trust in men, that is, trust in feelings, you strengthen your determination to love, he will also take responsibility and create a better life for you.
If you are often suspicious, the man will have a lot of pressure invisibly, and once the feelings become a heavy burden, he may want to leave you.
Any man does not want to be bound by feelings, and he does not want to bear great pressure, if he is always under your care, he will be hurt physically and mentally.
Therefore, a woman can restrain a man, but cannot easily doubt a man, and a little more trust, he will cherish you more.
Third, learn to understand the posture
If a woman wants to get the affection of a man, she must learn to understand and tolerate, know how to understand the man, become the spiritual pillar behind him, and he will love you more.
A man, always encountering setbacks, this is when the woman's attitude has the greatest impact on him.
Know how to understand a man's hardships, forgive his failures, support him spiritually, and believe that he will double his pity for you.
As long as a man does not give up on himself, he must want to work hard and be willing to work hard for happiness.
However, everyone's strength is different, it is impossible for all people to succeed, and when a man encounters failure, what he most desires is to get the understanding and support of women.
At this time, you understand him, understand him, give him more encouragement, support him behind his back, he will become strong in an instant, it is easy to turn failure into motivation, so as to make achievements, naturally more cherish you.
In reality, some women do not do this, whenever they see that men have no achievements, they like to count down, suspect that men are incompetent, not motivated enough, so it is easy to hit men's self-confidence.
If he does not understand you, he is likely to be disappointed in you, and he will love you very much, but he will gradually become cold.
Many times, a woman's words of concern and comfort can make men feel warm.
On the contrary, women always count down and hit men, and eventually they will make men physically and mentally ready, but they will be cold to you.
Therefore, in women's feelings, we must learn to understand that you use this inclusive posture to love men, believing that he will be reluctant to leave you.
Because, in his heart, you are his spiritual support, and he will certainly cherish you for the rest of his life.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
To sum up, in the relationship, women maintain these three postures, generally will get the affection of men.
Having a posture of economic independence and not becoming a dependency of men will lead a more dignified life and make men look up to them.
Maintain a posture of trust, in the time of getting along with the advance and retreat, in order to maintain the relationship to maintain harmony, men will care more about you.
Learn to understand the posture, more care and consideration for the man, become his spiritual pillar, he will naturally be inseparable from you.
Therefore, a woman's posture in the relationship often determines the degree of being cherished by men, and if you treat a man with your heart, he will also give you more love.
In short, take the right posture, believe that the feelings will be better, and harvest the happiness you really want.
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