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01. Preface
Crush, it's like light in a corner. It feels warm, but it's easy to forget.
There is a sentence in the "Song of the Yue People": "The mountain has wood and trees and branches, and the heart is happy and the king does not know." ”
A crush on someone is an incomparably lonely taste.
Obviously like a person, but can not bravely express it, can not accept the other party's rejection, rather silently accompany the other party, to be a transparent person.
Crush, it tortures people's hearts, makes people sleepless at night, makes people tasteless.
Crush on a person, the other person is perfect in their own heart, whether it is inside or outside. I always feel that the other party is a brilliant star, and I am just an inconspicuous grain of dust in the world.
Like each other, but don't believe that there will be a possibility of two people being together. Willing to follow the other side, but never dare to get too close. If you can look at each other from a distance, you are very content.
A person who genuinely has a crush on your performance is often "indifferent".
02, there is a kind of following, called indifferent waiting
After falling in love with someone from the bottom of your heart, you feel that she is the best person in the world, and no one can replace her.
"Yulou Chun Chun Hate" wrote: "Ruthless is not like amorous bitterness, and there are thousands of strands of one inch." When there is poverty at the end of the world, there is only the endless place of acacia. ”
A crush on a person will allow acacia to torment him, and then hide this pain from anyone.
He would pretend to be light and breezy, live and work normally, be polite to anyone, and not make any gesture of love.
When you have a crush on someone silently, you will silently follow her and wait for her. Support her unconditionally when she needs help and trust her.
If you can make her happy, it doesn't matter if you wait.
The person who has a crush will put himself in the most humble position. Even if you know that the other party will not give him any response, you will still wait silently and will not give up.
It doesn't matter if the two people will be together, as long as they can follow her, they feel happy in their hearts.
A crush on someone, can't help but wait silently, with a sincere love has been guarding her.
03, there is a kind of affection, called the fulfillment of indifference
A crush on someone will wish her happiness from the bottom of your heart. Even if the person who brought her happiness was not him.
True love for a person, even if love can not be silently sad and painful, will silently fulfill her happiness. Hope she can be happy, hope she can be happy.
Love someone deeply from the bottom of your heart, although the crush is very bitter, but when she gets happiness, she will still silently learn to let go.
Although it was very painful and sad, as long as she could be happy, it was as if everything didn't matter. Even if you can't spend the rest of your life with her.
If she has already harvested her true love, he is willing to accept the arrangement of fate, no longer struggle, and use an attitude of indifference to fulfill her.
Because of the deep love, she will open her heart to fulfill the happiness she wants.
04, there is a kind of care, called indifferent to pay
A crush on a person, always can't help but take care of her, regardless of the cost of paying, just to make her happy.
He Han in the TV series "The First Half of My Life" knows that Luo Zijun is trapped on the highway, and he is in a hurry, in bad weather, driving on the highway to pick her up.
After seeing her, he first reprimanded her, then comforted her. He was worried and willing to exchange his own practical actions for the safety of the other party.
He Han's original job was to meet customers and talk about a very important business, and after knowing that Zijun wanted to accompany his son Pingping's birthday, he pushed off his job and brought Pingping to Zijun.
After he was moved by Zijun, he did not have any positive confession, but he put Zijun in the most important position in action, and this deep affection was already in the bone.
A crush on a person, will not help but give, know that they are irrational, but will not restrain.
The crush is very bitter and reluctant to say it, but it is still very gratifying to see the smile on her face. It doesn't matter what you give, and it doesn't matter how much the other person can learn.
I only hope to do all my best to care for her, to protect her, to make her feel happy and joyful.
05. Summary
A person who has a real crush on you from the bottom of his heart will often act as "it doesn't matter".
There is such a sentence in the book "Xue Xian": "The vast earth is broken by a sword, and where the prosperity is sung." Reclining in the clouds, a thousand pots could not hide the loneliness, even if others laughed at me. ”
Crush is a manifestation of inferiority, longing for love, and feeling that this feeling is too good. Secretly in love with a person, afraid of not being able to catch her, and worried that his expectations are too high, can only constantly lower his posture to care for her.
Crush is not like a hot love, no return, no warmth given by lovers, is a love that does not seek an ending. As if, everything didn't matter, and I loved her with all my heart.
Sometimes the heart is full of bitterness, but when you see that the other party is happy and happy, you will also feel that everything you have paid is worth it, and it doesn't matter if you are lonely and lonely.
A crush is very bitter, if there are people around you who really love you, please learn to cherish.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.