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In an interview, Yang Lele tearfully talked about her life with her husband Wang Han, and she cried and recalled a sentence that Wang Han had said to herself: You are a particularly good mother, but not a good wife!
Yang Lele frankly, in his own heart, Wang Han is the last in the row, needless to say, Yang Lele and many married and fertile women, children and the elderly ranked first, Yang Lele frankly because sometimes very tired, really not enough energy, here mainly refers to the time and energy spent on Wang Han
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Seeing that there may be small partners here who can't understand, obviously big stars like them are very rich and can afford to hire a nanny, why are they still tired? In fact, stars and many ordinary people, life is also chai rice oil and salt, especially after having children, the balance of marriage and career, as well as the care for children, will really affect the relationship between husband and wife to a certain extent
Yang Lele's Wang Han's marriage is also quite romantic, 2 people because of a blind date show "Rose Covenant" acquaintance, after the understanding is getting deeper and deeper, 2 people before the good, Wang Han has had a marriage, the first marriage is a failure, Yang Lele is 10 years younger than Wang Han, at that time Yang Lele although not very famous, but Wang Han is already doing "Every Day Upward"
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So for their union, with money and a career, how many people think that such a love should be happy in the way of Snow White's Prince Charming? However, a few years later, it was found that their feelings were also changed a lot by the arrival of the child, and Yang Lele was pregnant after marriage, but unfortunately miscarried
So when pregnant with Xiao Mumu, they are extra cautious, Yang Lele is very brave, when giving birth, he did not choose caesarean section but a smooth delivery, but also insisted on breastfeeding, there is a saying, the artist's work life is not a girl, insisting on breastfeeding is more challenging than ordinary office workers
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Yang Lele recalled that when she gave birth to a child for 2 months, she went out to work, but in order not to delay the child's breastfeeding, she often sat in the car and seized the time to squeeze milk for the child. Although fathers and mothers are as close to their children, in the matter of raising children, active mothers have to bear more responsibility and pressure
For example, pregnant in October, this kind of lying can not lie down on the day is absolutely not experienced by the father, the pain of childbirth has nothing to do with the father, that is, after the birth of the child, do not eat breast milk is fine, if you eat breast milk, the mother has to wake up several times a night, feed the child coconut milk, because the child is very small, eat a lot of meals at night
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This process dad wake up do not know, but the mother must wake up, see here think of Medina spit on her husband Jiang Chao that point, at that time because of the birth of a child to feed night milk, Jiang Chao is often woken up by the sound, after a few days told Medina, said that she was suddenly disturbed by the sound to the heart is not good. Asked to sleep in separate rooms, so taking the child became medina's business, a lot of times a lot of things. Dads have a choice, but moms don't have a choice
It is not difficult to imagine that Yang Lele continues his hosting work while taking care of his children, he is indeed very tired, and he will inevitably care less about his husband, if he is a husband who knows Dali, he will understand his husband, but there are many men like Wang Han who feel that his wife is good to his children and is not good to himself
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This is the reason why Yang Lele is very helpless, really, the arrival of the child is another run-in of the relationship between husband and wife, but this is not the most let Yang Lele collapse, the most collapsed is that once she worked outside, suddenly the nanny told herself that the baby was bleeding, as a mother Yang Lele was very anxious, I would like to fly to the child's side, but in the workplace, really many things are not decided by themselves
She really couldn't get to the scene, she felt thick in her heart, but reason told her that she had to contact the hospital and the doctor, and then called the nanny to hold her, needless to say, the process was very painful for Yang Lele
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Speaking of this, she remembered a sentence from the people around her: "Born, you are born, I will not help you bring it!" Many small partners have been said by people around them, right? As a person who has come over, Yang Lele knows that although some people say this, in the most difficult time, it is still only himself!
Because everyone can say, but the responsibility of raising children, parents are the first, the rest are not necessary guardians, pay tribute to mothers, engage in careers and take care of the baby's mother is not easy, if the husband at this time can not share something for his wife, then not complaining and not abandoning is also a kind of tolerance. What do you think about that?