There is true love in the world, and there is true love in the world.
Remember the gentle and intellectual female host Qiu Xiao in Hunan TV's "True Love"?
Qiu Xiao, who was the head of Hunan Tai back then, naturally has an affinity than Li Xiang, and is more tender and emotionally intelligent than Shu Gao.
She is a well-deserved popular flower of Hunan Tai.
Now Qiu Xiao is 55 years old.
A few days ago, Qiu Xiao wore a red T-shirt, a hat and sunglasses, and personally waited for his son to come out of the college entrance examination outside the examination room.
Qiu Xiao did not have any star shelves that day, but was the same as ordinary parents. Like ordinary mothers, she is full of excitement and anticipation.
After seeing his son come out, Qiu Xiao immediately sent flowers and asked his son very gently. The relationship between mother and son is very close, and they are like friends. Qiu Xiao gave his son enough respect and freedom.
Who wouldn't want to have such an open-minded, gentle and knowledgeable mother?
Seeing Qiu Xiao's appearance, he was really shocked. At the age of 55, she still does not have any old age, her face is still full of collagen, without any traces of aging and years, it can be seen that her married life is very happy.
Qiu Xiao's husband Wang Hui is a businessman, a very low-key, traditional and conservative person, not tall or handsome, but very strong, very respectful and considerate to Qiu Xiao.
In 2004, Qiu Xiao and Wang Hui announced their marriage. Soon, she gave birth to a son. Since then, Qiu Xiao has entered a semi-retired state, focusing all his attention on his family and occasionally attending some events.
Qiu Xiao is a wife and a mother, and Wang Han should be a mixed taste.
Back then, when Wang Han was just a field worker, Qiu Xiaohui recommended Wang Han with his vision. Qiu Xiao can be said to have changed the rest of Wang Han's life.
Wang Han and Qiu Xiao co-hosted "True Love". The two of them are very well matched.
Wang Han has his own filter for Qiu Xiao, and he once said that if you want to find a wife, you must find a woman like Qiu Xiao. For this fan brother, Qiu Xiao has always kept her distance, and she did not accept this little boy who is 6 years younger than herself.
For the benefactor and Bai Yueguang in this cause, Wang Han must be unforgettable in this life.
Later, Wang Han married Yang Lele, a host who was somewhat similar to Qiu Xiao, who was also gentle and intellectual.
Yang Lele and Qiu Xiao are also intellectually gentle, but they have very different attitudes towards life and parenting.
Qiu Xiao, who married into a wealthy family, did not let his son go to an international school, but let his son go to a public school and take the college entrance examination. Qiu Xiao's life is not anxious, but unhurried, leisurely walking.
This point is actually very similar to Wang Han, their core is the same.
Yang Lele is the complete opposite.
Yang Lele insisted on taking his 6-year-old son to Shanghai to study at an international school, and enrolled his son in 8 classes a day. Two teachers were invited to come to the house to give my son piano lessons.
Later, his son's rebellion, coupled with Shanghai's involution, made Yang Lele reflect on his anxiety and could not be passed on to his son. She fled back to Changsha from Shanghai in ashes.
Later, Yang Lele enrolled his son in an international school in Changsha.
As for Yang Lele's involution and anxiety, Wang Han is very Buddhist lying flat, not anxious at all, and directly does not interfere in his son's education.
For Wang Han, he believes that education should not be too involuted, he cares more about the moral upbringing of children, and there is a ruler at home, and meals must be eaten clean.
Seeing the 55-year-old Qiu Xiao's indifference and contentment, I understood why Wang Han missed her.
Comparing Yang Lele's anxiety and involution, and then looking at Qiu Xiao's indifference, it can be seen that Qiu Xiao's marriage is definitely happier than Yang Lele. Qiu Xiao is definitely a smart woman with great wisdom.
On the other hand, Yang Lele, a woman who is involuted and anxious all the time, and needs to rely on her son to prove herself, how can she be happy?
Qiu Xiao and Yang Lele are two completely different women.
Compared with the same good-looking skin, men will pay more attention to women's empathy, tolerance, thrift, principle and honesty.
What kind of woman you choose, what kind of marriage and life you choose.