On the Internet, it is often seen that people are drying luxury houses, brand-name clothes, brand-name bags, sports cars, gold and other luxury items, for which the public is deeply disgusted, but a mother on the Internet to shoot her junior high school daughter to show off her wealth, the public does not contradict at all, but praises for it, such a daughter is envied.
Recently, a mother in Yulin, Shaanxi Province, posted a video of her daughter's photo on the Internet, the daughter is eating on the side of the mother secretly photographed, itself is a very common thing, in this network era this kind of behavior is not strange, however, the TV background wall at home has attracted the attention of the public, the entire TV background wall at home is basically all the daughter's school awards, there is no spare place.
This wave of operations let the public parents express envy, secretly lament their children from school to college graduation, during the award certificate is not more than a slap, this is a big gap, parents also want to have such a bully daughter, and the video girl knows that the mother is secretly filming herself, the performance is also very generous and natural, you can see that the girl is very cheerful, such a bully-level figure, the future is a bright future.
In real life, many parents for the child's award certificate handling is very simple, fresh for a period of time directly buried the award certificate, to the end are a piece of waste paper, some parents are even more excessive, directly the child's award as waste paper to sell, no matter which kind of behavior is disrespectful to the child, the award represents a child's honor, may be in the eyes of the parents unremarkable, but in the eyes of the child is not such a recognition, in the eyes of the child this is an honor, they hope to get the parents' recognition and praise, This way they are more motivated to learn later.
If parents are very bland to treat the child's award, the child will think that the award is not important, slowly will lose the heart of contention, which is very unfavorable to the child's learning, will hit the child's confidence in learning, such a stupid thing parents do not do, family education has a great impact on the child, the parents' words and deeds will directly affect the student's learning, must grasp the scale, the child should praise to praise, the punishment should be punished, just like the child gets the award, parents must give affirmation and encouragement, Let the child continue to work hard and do not be proud, so that the child cultivated is not destined to be bad.
Nowadays, many parents think that sending their children to school is finished, how children learn depends on the teacher and the child's own IQ, they just provide children's life security, which is extremely irresponsible cognition, the child's education parents are actually the top priority, after all, parents and children get along the longest time, the impact on children is also the greatest, a good family environment and learning atmosphere, the child's learning is also of great help, on the contrary, many people may refute that their own culture is low to tutor children, I don't know how to educate children, as the saying goes, "if you don't understand, you have to ask, if you don't, you have to learn", this is not about students and teachers, but also about parents.
Parents do not know how to educate children, low culture can not help children's homework, the knowledge of the lower grades can be learned, their own tutoring can not, there are other ways, now the network teaching is so developed and mature, how can not teach children? Even if you can't learn it yourself, you can also guide your children from other aspects, create a good learning environment for your children, read books and learn on the side, children will naturally follow suit, if they go home to play mobile phones, how to educate children not to play mobile phones? The most important thing is to teach by example, and parents should be clear about this.
Parents will affect the child's life from all aspects, therefore, parents should always pay attention to their own words and deeds, at the same time, set a good example for the child, so that the child who grows up in this environment will not be bad, and finally advise all parents to do some extreme things when educating their children, such as corporal punishment, stick education, verbal threats, etc., which will only backfire.
Today's topic: How many awards has your child received from childhood to adulthood?