In the relationship, the communication between men and women is particularly important, and the development and upgrading of the relationship is almost inseparable from daily contact.
However, some relationships have developed to a certain stage, and there may be situations that lead to stagnation in the relationship.
Especially when a man faces a beloved woman and suddenly does not reply to his message, he becomes even more anxious, uneasy, and even begins to doubt their relationship.
However, smart men know that in the face of this situation, the most important thing is to deal with it calmly and rationally, rather than guessing blindly and acting impulsively.
So, you have to know that when a woman doesn't reply to messages, smart men don't entangle, but "fight back" in these 4 ways
01
Greet her with warmth and affection
Women always have too many small emotions, and it is possible that when you send her a message, it happens that she is in a bad mood, so you glance at it and ignore it.
But it is also at this time that she is in a very vulnerable state, if you can give her more care, don't care too much about your own face and choose to make the scene embarrassing, but take the initiative to attack and shush her for warmth, even if she is in a bad mood, she will feel warm.
What women value most is that men give themselves small heart-warming things, and if you shush her and ask for warmth, you can already make her happy for a while, how can you bear to ignore you?
Women are easily moved, some are just small things to you, but she will infinitely magnify your strengths, and when she sees your so considerate side, maybe your chance will come!
02
Go directly to the place where the woman is looking for her
If you send a lot of messages to a woman and wait for hours and she doesn't reply to you, then you may want to think about whether you have made her angry.
Sometimes, if the woman doesn't reply to the message, it may be that she is cold-fighting with you and sulking with you, and the best solution at this time is to go directly to the place where the woman is to find her.
You must know that two people who love each other, after meeting, they can't say a lot of ugly words, as long as you are willing to pull down to find her, the woman will naturally give you a step down.
Therefore, when a woman does not reply to your messages, it is useless to be anxious, you have to take practical actions to be useful, and the best solution at this time is to go directly to the woman to take the blame.
03
Find out why the woman doesn't reply to messages and solve it
Many times, men will feel that women are inexplicably angry, can't find the reason, and don't reply to WeChat, at this time you must not be in a hurry, calm down, slowly analyze why she doesn't reply to you, find the reason, and prescribe the right medicine.
You have to do everything you can to coax her and show her that you care about her.
At this time, even if you don't know what you did wrong, even if it's not your fault, you have to take all the fault on yourself and let her see your determination to reconcile.
When everything is calm, you can find another opportunity to joke and find out to her.
04
"Cold" woman for a while
In fact, the meaning of "cold" does not mean that she does not love, it is precisely because of deep love that she wants to see how much she cares about herself in this way.
When she doesn't reply to your messages, you can try not to message her for a week and see how she reacts.
If she is completely indifferent, it means that she really doesn't like you, so you don't have to dwell on it anymore, and letting go in this situation is the best option.
When you don't take the initiative to find her, she may find your importance and feel that she can't do without you, but will take the initiative to contact you, and she will cherish you more in the future, and will not deliberately not reply to your WeChat!
05
Emotional message
Many times, problems in a relationship need to be communicated and exchanged by both parties. If every time you face a woman's disconnection, you are losing your temper and getting angry endlessly, and you avoid solving the real problems, then the emotional obstacles will be like a "snowball", more and more, bigger and bigger.
In a relationship, men should not be too persistent, especially when women ignore you, you should be sober and rational, rather than continue to entangle each other.
Men need to be able to understand women's emotions and give comfort and care. Just because you are facing the person you love, you might as well change your smart way, which may be able to make the relationship between two people more stable.
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