It is often said that "what kind of people raise what kind of dolls." This means that the child grows gradually, and the physical and mental aspects will become closer and closer to the parents, which shows how much the parents have an impact on the child's growth.
But about the formation of children's spleen, it is not just the acquired influence!
In the general understanding, the formation of a child's spleen is mainly affected by these factors!
1. Acquired environment
The original family has always been considered to be the main influencing factor of the formation of the child's spleen, because the living environment in which the child is located often lays the foundation for the child's personality composition, how the environment is, and the development trend of the spleen will develop in the corresponding direction.
2. Genetic determination
If considered from a genetic point of view, the genetic aspect will also have a certain impact on the child's future spleen.
If the child's parents are extroverted and generous, then the child's genes will have corresponding components and be reflected in later life.
If the parents are more introverted and extroverted, the child will be relatively lively in growth, but sometimes he will be more shy.
Not only these factors, but also the development of the spleen before the baby is born is affected by the mother!
1. The pregnant mother is emotionally stable, and the baby's spleen characteristics are relatively balanced
Changes in women's emotions during pregnancy will have a certain impact on the fetus, if the pregnant mother pays attention to controlling emotions, often maintains a stable state of mind, is not impatient, and calmly faces.
The baby will feel that the mother's mood is very good in the abdomen, the development of personality will be relatively stable, and after birth, it is naturally more smiling, and optimistic and positive.
2. Pregnant mothers are often unhappy, and babies are easy to be shy and introverted
Women are more prone to fluctuations in their emotions after pregnancy, and sometimes when they encounter a little thing, they will be worried, unhappy, and even shed tears.
If the pregnant mother often maintains this emotional state, then the baby will feel that the pregnant mother is not very active, coupled with the pregnant mother's bad mood does not want to do anything, the baby's environment will be relatively quiet, and the baby who is accustomed to quiet is naturally more introverted.
3. Pregnant mothers are relatively grumpy, and the baby loves to cry and have a bad temper
The baby is in the pregnant mother's womb, and the pregnant mother knows any changes the baby first, including sudden emotional outbursts.
Some women have relatively poor ability to control their emotions and their minds are particularly sensitive, resulting in their easy outbreaks when they encounter things.
When the pregnant mother's emotions erupt, the hormones in the body will rise rapidly, so that the baby feels a little uncomfortable, if the baby is in such an atmosphere for a long time, it will inevitably be more noisy after birth, which will greatly increase the difficulty of the mothers with their babies.
It is not difficult to see that the baby's personality formation is not only related to genes and the acquired environment, but also the emotions of pregnant mothers before childbirth.
If you want to properly improve your child's personality and temper, do these well!
1. Maintain a good mood during pregnancy
The emotional fluctuations during pregnancy in women will affect the child's personality and temper, in order to avoid problems in the development of the baby's personality after birth.
Pregnant mothers should control their emotions, as far as possible to keep themselves in a comfortable mood during pregnancy, and solve problems in time to alleviate them, so as to give the baby a good development space and have a positive impact on the baby's personality formation.
2. Attach importance to self-change
Some children have a poor temper and imperfect character development, which is caused by problems with their parents' temper and personality.
Therefore, if parents want to improve their children's temper, they must first examine whether they have problems, and only by correcting themselves can they improve their children's problems.
3. Environmental impacts
After the child is born, the cognition of the outside world is insufficient, and what kind of environment it is exposed to is susceptible to what kind of influence.
If parents want their children's physical and mental health to grow healthily and their spleen to develop in a positive way, they must pay attention to the child's living environment and create a suitable environment as much as possible.