During this time, the temperature rises, and the mothers with young children have embarked on the "journey" of quitting diapers for the baby. As Wen Wen's father, when it comes to this process, he has to sigh: it is really not easy!
When the daughter was more than 1 year old, the old man in the family urged to quit diapers, because he was worried about the growth and development of the poor; as a result, he began to break the diapers at the age of 1, and he could control the defecation for a period of time.
Later, when she was more than 2 years old, she began to quit diapers, at the beginning, it was fine during the day, and she wet the bed every day at night, and Wen Wen's father did not dare to criticize her, afraid that she would have any psychological burden, for this reason, he also went to see a pediatrician.
After the pediatrician learned of the child's situation, he reminded Wen Wen Dad: Children of this age can sometimes not control the excretory function stably, and when they encounter cold weather, illness, drink more water before going to bed or too much activity during the day, they may wet the bed.
Finally, the doctor suggested that Wen Wen's father, and then give his daughter a period of diapers, on the one hand, can reduce the child's frustration; on the other hand, can also ensure the child's night sleep, while maintaining less water before going to bed.
In this way, the daughter began to quit diapers from the age of 1, almost until more than 3 years old, before completely quitting diapers, the process is still very annoying. Regarding the child's withdrawal of diapers, Wen Wen Dad wants to share these questions with everyone.
01, do not quit diapers too early, hurt and sad
Star mother Yi Nengjing once called on the child not to quit diapers too early, otherwise it will affect the growth and development of the child, bluntly: the child will sooner or later do things, do not rush to force the baby. Otherwise, it will cause harm to the child's body and mind.
Injured
Generally speaking, when the child reaches the age of 2 or even 3 years old, the bladder slowly matures, and before that, it is useless for parents to train to go to the toilet.
Some parents will also give their children "urine", when they urinate, they will make a "shhh" sound, parents think that the child has learned to control defecation, in fact, he just formed a conditioned reflex to the "shhh" sound.
Over time, the child will form a reflex to urinate, the bladder will not be fully developed, the capacity will become smaller, it is easy to urinate frequently when it grows up, the sphincter is not exercised, and it is difficult to control the stool.
sad
A friend's 2-and-a-half-year-old child, often constipated, very reluctant to go to the toilet, and later went to the hospital to check, found that the child was normal in all aspects, but quit diapers at the age of 1 and a half.
The child can't control herself at all, and she wets her pants regularly, and her mother will accuse her every time. It has caused serious psychological pressure to the child, and the personality has gradually become timid and unconfident.
Delayed development
There was a classmate in the daughter's class, almost 4 years old, and often wore diapers into the kindergarten, and then talked to her mother, found that the child had quit diapers at the age of 1, and then frequently peed his pants, and had to wear them again.
Some children do not mature until the age of 3, and the sphincter and neurodevelopment can be pulled freely without any regularity.
Before this, the child is not able to control the defecation, if the parents forcibly intervene, it will only make the child have a psychological shadow, not to mention, but also resist the toilet, prolong the time to quit diapers.
02. How old is the child who needs to quit diapers?
In response to this problem, in general, it depends on the age and performance of the child:
In terms of age, it is recommended after 2 years of age
After the age of 2, the development of the bladder gradually matures, and they already have the ability to control their own bowel movements.
The American Academy of Pediatrics also clearly pointed out that when the child reaches 18-24 months, the muscles that control excretion are basically mature, so when the child is about 2 years old, he can carry out independent toilet training and quit diapers.
Look at your child's performance and try to quit diapers
It is not enough to know the age at which the child roughly quits diapers, after all, each child's physical development is different, and it depends on the signals given by the child's body to determine whether it is possible to quit diapers.
If your child has the following signals, he or she needs to put "quitting diapers" on the agenda:
Children can clearly understand the parents' instructions;
Wearing diapers that can keep dry for more than 2 hours;
The child's bowel and bowel movements become gradually regular;
When the diapers are wet, the child will take the initiative to express discomfort to the mother;
Willing to imitate the appearance of adults going to the toilet;
Ability to sit on a small toilet by yourself;
Ability to lift and take off pants by yourself;
In general, if the child reaches the age of 2 or so and the body gives the above "signals", parents can start to prepare to quit diapers. It is worth noting that each child's ability is different, and it is necessary to have enough patience in the matter of quitting diapers for children.
03, do these 3 points well, help the child to quit diapers smoothly
In order to smoothly help children quit diapers, WenWen Dad has sorted out some practical and beneficial methods for children's physical and mental health:
Prepare toilet supplies for your child and let your child psychologically accept the withdrawal of diapers
Before you are ready to quit your child's diapers, you can take your child to the supermarket first, and it is necessary to get a suitable children's toilet.
It is worth noting that the toilet for the child to choose, do not choose the legs apart or cute shape, for young babies, it is not easy to sit with the legs apart.
In addition, you can also get some urine pads and small panties that children like, just quit diapers for a period of time, children wet the bed, pants are common things.
In addition, you can also get into some picture books related to and pee farts, so that children can psychologically accept the matter of quitting diapers.
Pick a good time and quit diapers with less effort
Give children to quit diapers, as far as possible to choose summer, high temperatures, thin clothing, it is easy to wear and take off, even if you pee pants, it is not easy to get cold.
In addition, the child's state should be stable, and as far as possible to avoid the kindergarten opening and illness stage. If you want to quit diapers, it is best to stay at home during this time, otherwise it is easy to lose everything.
Training skills are in place
During the time when the child is given to quit diapers, accompany the child to read more relevant picture books, so that the child has the consciousness of taking off the diaper and going to the toilet independently.
At the same time, after buying the toilet back, put it in the toilet, adults should guide the child to sit more; when parents go to the toilet, they should also let the baby observe more and help hand over toilet paper.
Parents should also observe their children more, once they find that the child is stunned, his eyes are straight, and his face is red, the mother will guide the child to the toilet.
In addition, to quit diapers for children, you should first quit daytime, and then quit night. Put on your child's favorite little panties during the day and don't wear diapers. Then tell the child that when you want to pee and pull the rice, you should first tell the mother, and then go to the toilet, after the success of the toilet, the mother should encourage in time.
All in all, in the matter of quitting diapers for children, parents should have enough patience, choose the right time, pay attention to training skills, and will be successful.
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