Sooner or later, you should know that women who are really emotionally intelligent never care about men

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Some people say that if a man really loves a woman, he doesn't need a woman to manage it, because he prefers to manage a woman.

Every marriage, every relationship, has its own pattern.

Women manage a man, more often from the sense of family responsibility, from the woman's inner maturity.

When men are out to earn money to support their families, women keep their homes in order, that is, women are making their own contributions and making their own sacrifices for the whole family.

However, a woman with really high emotional intelligence never cares about men, because she knows that the man who loves you does not need you to manage, and the man who needs to manage must not be retained.

Women can't control a man, probably for several reasons.

1. Women have no financial status

If in a family, people who feel that making money have the courage and qualifications to speak, and women do not make money, women probably feel that they are not qualified to manage a man, or even a man.

In fact, whether a woman runs the family at home or makes money outside, in fact, the husband and wife are making different contributions to the family.

There is no such thing as who is high and who is low, this is the family division of labor of two people, and it is also the support and support of two people to each other.

Men don't feel that they are making money outside, they are harder than women, they pay more than women, and when they face women, they have always been arrogant and feel like a hand-shaking treasurer.

The economic status of the family is not determined by who makes money, and when a woman is willing to be your big rear, you should appreciate his hard work.

2. Men have no sense of responsibility

Women can't control a man, probably because of this man, no sense of responsibility.

A man who is truly responsible, a man who really cares for his family, he knows the responsibilities and obligations he carries on his shoulders, he does not need to be urged by women at all, he will automatically work hard, he will automatically provide a good life for the family, because he knows what it means to be a man, what it means to be the head of the family.

Even if he does not have much education, even if he does not have much ability, he will do his best, work diligently, work diligently, and work hard for his family.

He will not spend a penny indiscriminately, will not secretly enjoy life alone, and will not make money alone to spend it himself, regardless of the rest of the family.

Such a man is what a woman can really rely on in life.

A man without a sense of responsibility, he always thinks of himself, he only has exquisite egoism, and he does not care about other people's ideas.

He has neither the self-consciousness of being a husband, nor the consciousness of being a father, even if he only earns 1,000 yuan, his money will be spent on himself, and he never thought of paying a little more for his family.

A man without a sense of responsibility, more advantages may be sweet talk, he will coax women to pay for themselves, he will coax women to do more things for the family, single-mindedly.

When being a man in marriage, when a woman can't count on it, being a man in a marriage, when a woman feels unreliable, don't always look for reasons from yourself.

Because many times, the reason is not on you, but in the other person's body, you can't change the other person, maybe leaving is the best way.

3. Men don't love you at all

When a man loves a woman, his attitude is obvious.

A man will have very different attitudes towards a woman he loves and a woman he doesn't love.

From the attitude of men, women should be able to feel their own position in men's hearts.

Don't believe what men say, but you should look with your heart what men have done for you, what they have paid for you, what they have worked hard for you.

The actions that men carry out on you are the love that you have stepped on, not the so-called promises, the so-called sweet words of nothingness.

When a man does not love a woman, he naturally does not put the woman in his heart; when a man does not love a woman, he naturally does not care about the woman's feelings.

Whether men love or not, it's obvious; women love or don't love, it's also obvious.

In the long married life, a man's love for a woman can resist the loneliness and boredom of life, and can resist the triviality of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea.

Even in the life of a chicken feather, you can find a trace of warmth and sunshine.

This is the love of a man for a woman, bringing vitality and vitality.

When a woman is around a man and does not receive the nourishment and nourishment of love, she withers like a decaying flower, with no vitality and no vitality.

Don't think it's okay to make money, marry a man, live well, and create together after marriage.

Marriages without love are really terrible, and marriages are longer and more tortuous than you think.

If a man has maintained a long marriage with you, but does not love you at all, then you should not put your mind on the man.

You have to learn to put time and love into yourself, when you do a good job of yourself, when you live out of yourself, you will naturally encounter new happiness and meet a new life.

Don't always be depressed in a, unhappy marriage, maintaining the status quo.

A person's unhappiness for a period of time, there is nothing to be afraid of, the terrible thing is that a woman, a lifetime of marriage is not happy, a lifetime with the same man, together, this is the most terrible.

It doesn't matter if you face the status quo, it's important to have the courage to change, when you face it, when you find a way to solve it, your life will be better.

A woman can't control a man, nothing more than these three reasons: women have no economic status, can't speak at home; men have no sense of responsibility, they can't be relied on at all, women can't rely on them at all; men really don't love you, so they don't want to be disciplined by you.

Women with high emotional intelligence will understand sooner or later: the man who loves you does not need you to manage; the man who does not love you does not need you to manage at all.

Women have time to manage men, it is better to read books, enjoy the time alone, make themselves strong, and improve themselves, which is the real reliable way to live.

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