Love has become an eternal topic in human history, men and women in love performance is not the same, women in love more silly white sweet appear, but it seems to be a lot of love in the initiative of the party, the man seems to be more shrewd, but in love is often passive.
To take a simple example, such as men and women in love to eat together, many boys are in a passive state because they are "afraid" of girls, often boys ask girls, what to eat? The girl decides.
Girls ask boys the same question, boys will also answer girls with what you like to eat, to show love and respect for girls, do not know, do not know, do this many girls will feel that boys have no opinion, so it is difficult to maintain love for a long time. But this is also a more special phenomenon, that is, high emotional intelligence boys often hold the initiative in love, see what they say!
Today to share the experience with you is a small editor of an old iron Xiao Wang classmate, Xiao Wang in the circle of friends is a well-known love male expert, many small editor around the male friends have love problems, are looking for Xiao Wang classmates to solve, his most enviable is in every love relationship Xiao Wang classmates can grasp the initiative, see what he says as a person who has come over:
First of all, he said to maintain a good external image, boys do not need to go out like girls to make up, do hairstyles, etc., but must maintain a clean and refreshing image, daily is also the same, let clean and refreshing become their habits, rather than what special days in picking themselves up, when meeting with girls they like, they should carefully groom themselves to make girls feel that they attach importance to this relationship and respect the woman.
Boys are the most basic to wash their faces, clean hands, wash their clothes before dating, don't have any strange fragrance on the body, keep the faint aroma of soap, pay attention to shaving, if you are not a fashionista, it is recommended that you do not grow a beard, if you have the habit of growing a beard, it is best to repair it regularly to a professional place, keep it neat and stylish.
Pay attention to details teeth, tone, nails, etc., are the focus of girls judging you. In addition to the appearance of clean is to maintain a suitable figure, boys do not need to be too thin, not too fat, if you are not a bodybuilder, the muscles are mainly strong on the line, you can properly exercise their due strength, so as not to be needed from time to time. The outside is only a basis for grasping the initiative, and the important thing is some daily ways of getting along.
Second, he said that boys can keep themselves, but do not interfere too much with each other, and have an inclusive heart, so that they can be in love, relaxed and grasp the initiative. He said that boys must show the most patience and inclusiveness when facing the girls they like, and do not give each other too many negative evaluations.
Even if you feel that the other party is inappropriate in some places, you should also euphemistically express the sub-occasion, such as you and your girlfriend go to the banquet, you yourself suit and leather shoes, but the other party seems to be dressed very casually, obviously not suitable for such occasions, after you enter, your girlfriend feels that there is something wrong with her dress, and she is very sad and uneasy.
At this time is the time to play the boyfriend's high emotional intelligence, as a man, you should first perceive the change in the woman's emotions, give it support, rather than just hi, regardless of the other party, this time is actually to enhance the trust and integration of men and women's feelings, you can first comfort her, and then say to the woman, if you feel that this place makes you uncomfortable, we can go out to breathe.
Then quietly take the girlfriend to the clothing store, in a lightning-fast way, help the girlfriend buy a suitable costume, take the girlfriend to quickly appear at the banquet, so that the girlfriend will not only be impressed by you, but also she will gain the envious eyes of others at the banquet, to meet their own little vanity, so that if you do more, you will definitely have the initiative in love.
In fact, it is very simple to be with a girl, when she dresses herself beautifully, you can give her appreciation in time, when she does not pick herself up, you are not disgusted, still praise, from time to time to give them a little surprise and so on! In this way, the initiative must be on the man's side.