What is solitude (autism)
Most of the people on Lonely Planet are kids, each of whom has significant strengths of their own, preferring to focus on their own business over making friends.
But the people of The Earth don't quite understand them, and always think that most of them have bad tempers. When the earthlings are in groups of three or five, bustling, pushing cups and changing cups, the lonely star people will always stand quietly on the side, silently ignoring all this.
Lonely planet they do not communicate with people since childhood, hobbies and hobbies are very limited, there are some very repetitive stereotyped behavior patterns, they often have some emotional problems, in our eyes they are depressed / bipolar disorder patients, mainly manifested as not interested in anything, so as to isolate themselves at home, some of them will be like severe psychopaths, especially paranoia patients, always feel that the people around them are harming him, so they shut themselves at home.
They're not aliens, they're autistic (autistic), a vulnerable group that has always been ignored around us.
Their developmental disorders due to neurological disorders are mainly manifested by lack of social skills, stereotyped behavior and narrow interests, but they are all legendary geniuses.
Many children have a rich imagination and special talents, such as drawing, mathematics, music, are their favorite things.
They live alone in their own world, but they are all good little angels, with bright eyes but refusing to look at you, with normal hearing but not paying attention to your calls, with a healthy voice but unable to communicate normally with the outside world.
When the little lone star people slowly grow up, their isolation problem will become more and more serious, autism is difficult to cure, but through certain treatment, training, you can gradually improve the child's situation, so that the child can integrate into society as soon as possible.
Autism has become a worldwide problem, evolving from a rare disease to a common disease. According to the latest statistics, the incidence of autistic children has risen from 1/88 in 2009 to 1/45 now, that is, one in every 45 children is diagnosed with autism. At present, the incidence of autism in the mainland is 0.7%, and there are about 10 million people with autism spectrum disorders, of which more than 2 million children are under 12 years old.
At present, many parents feel that their children have autistic tendencies, which is a very humiliating thing, and even some misunderstandings and prejudices affect the child's life, he is like a congenital heart disease is a developmental disease, only the correct understanding of objective treatment is the best choice for children.
Several common misconceptions:
1. Autism is not a mental illness
2, there is no shame in having autism
3. Children with autism are not all geniuses
4. Autism cannot be cured
5, 2-4 years old is the golden age of treatment
6, autism is congenital, not because of the reason for not bringing a good child, do not discriminate against children with autism, because your idol may be autistic.
An inner monologue from lonely star
I'm from a lonely planet, I'm autistic, I can draw beautiful pictures, but I can't read the love story of Romeo and Juliet.
I'm sensitive to numbers, but I don't understand the rich emotions of humans because no one gave me enough care in infancy, no one found out that I was a lone star. My parents would often get angry at some of my actions, and I didn't understand them, so I wouldn't communicate with them either.
When I was a teenager, I didn't understand why strange adults often pointed at me, some classmates took a detour and looked at me with strange eyes, no one played with me, my mother often washed her face with tears, and my father always stared at me with a frown lock.
When I grew up, I understood a little bit, I am different from them, because I am an autistic child, I come from a lonely planet, I am different from others, so I am despised, but I think all differences should be understood, all existence is reasonable, are you not excluded and despised? I don't want much, I just need some kind attention from the people around me, a little bit of love from my relatives, please don't discriminate against me, leave me okay?