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Last night, the drama "Heart Residence" ushered in the finale, some people were happy and some were worried, some people felt that such an open ending was actually quite good, no ending was the best ending, some people were difficult to calm, and felt that they did not clearly explain the feelings of Feng Xiaoqin, Gu Qingyu, Zhan Xiang and Shi Yuan.
In terms of the protagonist's feelings, there is indeed a lot of suspense, but the two big heroines have ushered in the century of reconciliation, Gu Qingyu decided to go to Singapore, and lent money to Feng Xiaoqin to buy a house.
In fact, she originally meant to buy it directly for her, which is her reward for the Gu family's efforts over the years, but the tough Feng Xiaoqin refused her help, although she did not say it, she still cared very much, she felt that she could only get the respect of others by relying on her own ability, so that she would not be looked down upon.
When Gu Qingyu told her father that she was going to Singapore, the bullet screen was scolding her, thinking that this woman was too selfish and selfish, so she left her father alone, saying that she did not care about her family affection and only cared about her own happiness.
When she told Zhan Xiang that she was going to Singapore for three years of study, there were audience members in the barrage scolding her, calling her too selfish, looking for him when she needed Zhan Xiang, and kicking him away when she didn't need to.
In fact, the role of Gu Qingyu was scolded a lot at the beginning, because she was too high-minded, too impersonal, and always calculated the gains and losses of interests. However, in this drama, Gu Qingyu, who was scolded the most, was the most happy to live.
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The role of Gu Qingyu, people who like it will like it very much, and people who don't like it will be very annoying.
Gu Qingyu's appearance is very perfect, she is like a child kissed by God, she was born with the script of the heroine of the cool drama, she has a super high IQ, and has a beautiful appearance. Just having these two things has made countless people envious.
She lived like a lot of people, working in a five-hundred-strong company, with a good annual salary, living a very petty life, living alone, with her own fixed assets, house, car, and nanny to do housework for her.
Her daily routine is to go to work, work out with her girlfriends after work, drink afternoon tea, and occasionally go back to her father's house to reunite with her family, although there are two elderly people, but they do not need her care, because there is a sister-in-law Feng Xiaoqin.
But she also has some things that are more annoying, such as she is very egotistical and does not care about other people's feelings.
When she married Shi Yuan, no one knew, she tricked her father into taking the hukou and went to get the certificate, and did not know that her father would, so she directly took him to a big family party and introduced him to everyone, which made her father very embarrassed. Later, the divorce was also, and I told my father when I left.
From the perspective of parents, she is a child who makes people very worried, and feels that this child does not discuss with himself about any major life events, which will inevitably make people feel a little chilly.
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Emotionally, she is also selfish.
Zhan Xiang liked her for so many years, pursued her for so many years, and treated her well for so many years, she did not refuse on her lips, but she has been accepting his kindness, giving him a piece of candy from time to time, making him feel that he still has hope.
Later, Shi Yuan appeared, she married the other party without saying a word, and for Zhan Xiang, she only had a fluttering sorry and did not tell you in advance. She knew that she was married, and Zhan Xiang must be the saddest one, but she completely ignored the feelings of the other party.
Later, she divorced Shi Yuan, very sad, this time Zhan Xiang posted again, continue to pursue her, she actually knows very well in her heart that there is no love for him, but she chooses to be with him.
Not loving someone, just because he is good to himself, is a very selfish act to be honest, because it is very unfair to him, he has done nothing wrong, although he got her, but he can't get her people, talk about happiness.
Even when she chose to go to Singapore, she also arranged everything, and finally told Zhan Xiang that although she did not say that she had broken up, this was actually equivalent to breaking up.
Obviously, there is a better way to deal with it, but it chooses the most selfish way, such as consulting with him in advance and listening to his ideas, rather than unilaterally announcing. It would make him feel better, at least he would feel like she cared about him.
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In this analysis, Gu Qingyu is indeed a very selfish and selfish person.
What she wants to do has always been decided by herself, and everything she does is based on her own interests, only considering herself, not considering the feelings of the people around her. Selfish enough, enough to be egotistical.
What everyone hates is her selfishness and ego, but she is also the coolest person in this drama.
You see her, no matter what she does, she is self-interested, and she does not lend money to her brother to buy a house. Marry Shi Yuan, self-interest. With Zhan Xiang, self-interest. Go to Singapore, Lee has been.
It can be said that in addition to the failure of the marriage, she has almost no loss in other aspects, she lives freely, no one will become her condition, no one will hinder her.
On the contrary, people who are not so selfish, they live less cool, her negative example is Feng Xiaoqin, she will think more about the people around her, but at the same time, she is also one who lives more wronged. It wasn't until after moving away from Gu's home that I really lived a little happier.
In contrast, I still hope that everyone can live a little selfish, of course, not to hurt others specifically, but under the premise of not hurting others, you can be selfish and selfish, so that you can live happier.
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Article illustration | Stills from "Heart Dwelling"