Crying is the nature of children, especially in the face of some grievances, children will cry non-stop, coaxing children has become a technical job, children crying is really painful!
The video that follows is also about a crying child, but this child is very well-behaved when he cries!
In the video, a cute boy swings to the table, carefully draws the paper towel on the table, and sees that here the editor is still wondering what the little boy wants to do.
After that, the little boy walked to the other side of the camera, and at this time you can see him frowning and looking aggrieved, as if he had just cried, which can't help but be a little painful.
The next little boy's action lit up, it turned out that he smoked a paper towel not to wipe his face, but to spread the paper towel on the shoulder of the female teacher in the past, which could not help but make people wonder about the little boy's next move.
After spreading the paper towel over the teacher's shoulder, the little boy began to throw himself into the arms of the teacher, he leaned on the teacher's shoulder and wept softly, it turned out that the paper towel was laid in order not to stain the teacher's shoulder, this action can be said to be very intimate!
Many parents and teachers may find it a particularly annoying thing for children to cry, but in fact, children's crying is also an experience that must be experienced in the process of growing up.
It is also very important to allow children to cry, what is the reason for this?
1. Crying is conducive to the health of children. Many parents will feel that it is not good for the child to cry too much, but in fact, the child's occasional crying is conducive to good health.
Medical studies have shown that proper crying has certain benefits for children's physical development, lung function, and stress relief.
2, crying is conducive to catharsis. Don't think that the child has no emotions at a young age, crying is to vent some negative emotions, let the child cry to a certain extent to alleviate negative emotions, which is more conducive to the formation of children's good character.
3. Crying is conducive to alleviating parent-child relationship. Many parents will feel that the child's love to cry is a manifestation of not taking the child well, and will make the child stop crying, thinking that crying will hinder communication with the child.
Parents should actually allow their children to cry, and communication with their children after crying is more effective, which is also conducive to the harmonious coexistence of parents and children.
Children crying is not necessarily a bad thing, but letting children cry is not the same as ignoring children, when children cry, parents also need to give children care and comfort.