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Love is the willingness to put shackles on a person.
I had always thought that love was vigorous and courageous; it was only later that I understood that love was careful and afraid.
Perhaps, before meeting you, he was fearless and indestructible; until he met you later, he began to become trembling and cautious.
Feelings are sometimes like this, love to the extreme, will start to be afraid.
Afraid that you are angry, so always let you; afraid that you misunderstood, so reject all ambiguity for you; afraid that you are lonely, so always spend time with you.
Because he cares too much about you, he is always careful about everything about you, and only hopes that you can be happy.
In fact, these three "fears" of men are a sign of affection for you.
01 Afraid of you being angry, always letting you go
A particularly envious sentence:
"When you are angry, tell me, I will explain and apologize to you, don't tuck in your heart, hug the things that can be solved, don't have a cold war with me, don't be sad for a night." 」
Indeed, when a man has real feelings for you, he will be very afraid of you being angry, and when two people quarrel, he will take the initiative to bow his head to you and be soft, and will not let you spend the night with emotions.
He is not willing to make you sad and sad, nor is he willing to hurt the feelings of two people because of the quarrel, so he always makes you happy with everything.
Maybe many things are not his fault, but he will also take care of your emotions, make you happy, and teach you some truths later.
For him, you are more important than winning or losing.
Everyone has their own temper, he lets you in everything, cares about your feelings, in fact, he is really touching you.
02 Afraid that you will misunderstand, reject all ambiguity for you
I've heard a very secure quote:
"My tenderness is only for you, I do not love everything in this world, I only favor you alone."
Indeed, when a man has true feelings for you, he will be very afraid of your misunderstanding and take the initiative to reject all ambiguity for you.
Just like Gu Wei in "Please Teach More for the Rest of Your Life", when he moved his true feelings for Lin Zhi's school, he took the initiative to keep a distance from Gao Huan. Because he was afraid of Lin Zhixue's misunderstanding, he had been looking for opportunities to explain to Lin Zhixue, telling her that he and Gao Huan were just colleagues, not current girlfriends, nor ex-girlfriends.
Because I care, I am very afraid that you will misunderstand; because of love, I reject all ambiguity for you.
Even if you don't say anything, he will consciously do it and give you the security you want.
Everything has a response, every piece has a fall, he rejects all ambiguity for you, treats you as an exception, in fact, he is really touching your true feelings.
03 Afraid of your loneliness and always spending time with you
As Lin Qingxuan said:
"Romance is a waste of time to eat slowly, a waste of time to drink tea slowly, a waste of time to walk slowly, a waste of time to slowly grow old."
Empathy for this.
When a man has real feelings for you, even if he is busy, he will take time to accompany you to do what you want to do.
Maybe he doesn't usually like to deal with people, but he has left this initiative to you.
Because he is afraid that you are lonely, he will spend time and energy to accompany you and appear by your side in time when you need it.
As long as it is you, he is free; as long as it is you, he is willing.
Companionship is the longest confession of affection, he always spends time with you, leaving energy to you, in fact, it is true for you.
In feelings, the person who loves you is the most timid.
He is afraid that you will be angry, so he will admit defeat whenever he quarrels; he is afraid that you will misunderstand, so he takes the initiative to reject all ambiguity for you; he is afraid that you are lonely, so he will accompany you as soon as he has time.
Because he has you in his heart, he cares very much about your feelings, and everything about you is careful.
If you have also met a man who is so afraid of you, cherish it!
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