Children's desire for pocket money, as a passerby, I can understand it very well. Especially for elderly children, pocket money is not how much, and the meaning is different for children of different ages. It is necessary for parents to give pocket money, especially after school, so that they can have money at their disposal, can learn to share with classmates, and learn to use money is also part of growth.
Some parents do not have the awareness of giving their children pocket money, and feel that children do not know how to spend money, and there is no need to give them pocket money. Most such parents will have the experience of dropping money in their own wallets, at which time the child becomes the most suspicious object, and the reason why the child has this "stealing money" idea, the parents also have an unshirkable responsibility. In this case, parents should consider giving their children some pocket money as appropriate.
In fact, such a child does not have a "sneaky thought", but has not been correctly guided. When taking money for the first time, it will definitely be nervous and afraid, if the parents at this time do not "pull the child back on track" in time and educate the child with the correct concept, then the child will only become more and more bold and unscrupulous in the future, and if he is not careful, he will go astray.
For this ancient saying, everyone must have been familiar with it, "still steal needles, grow up to steal gold", many children who appear in this situation are mostly lack of education, especially if their parents are not around, taken by grandparents, their love for their children, not educated in time, it is easy to appear this situation.
Under normal circumstances, children's concept of money begins to be enriched around the age of 10, and the ability to shop is gradually developed, and the inner desire for money domination is gradually developed. And what my parents think to buy and I say, I can buy it if I agree. Basically, the general things that children want to buy will be refuted, so this evokes a strong desire for money in children.
So we should give the child a certain amount of change appropriately, but the amount should not be too much, which is lower than meeting the child. Otherwise, it is easy to subvert the child's money consumption and develop the wrong psychology that what you want is what you have to buy.
I give an example of my colleague's child, because the family conditions are relatively rich, so they will give more pocket money to the child, 1100 to give, and do not care much. Start with a hundred a week, to a hundred a hundred days a day, and slowly develop the habit of not spending money indiscriminately for your children. Thirty years east of the river, thirty years west of the river. The colleague's family went bankrupt, life became poor, and the children who were accustomed to superiority from childhood had a big gap, could not adapt, began to steal, robbed the idea, and finally went to a "road of no return".
Therefore, do not "spoil" children because they are rich, and it is recommended that every parent help their children establish a normal view of consumption and money from an early age. Let children experience the hard work of making money in order to know how to cherish money. Indulging children will only ruin children!
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