The Classics of Education Story Revelation

The Classics of Education Story Revelation

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One of the revelations of the classic story of education

When Mengzi---- was a child, his family lived next to a cemetery, and Mencius played games such as weeping and burying people. Mencius's mother, believing that this environment was not conducive to the growth of her children, moved her family to live in a market town, and Mencius played some games of trading. Mencius's mother was still not satisfied, and moved to a school, Mencius was well influenced, and gradually became a diligent and polite child, so Mencius's mother decided to settle down next to the school. This is the story of the "Three Migrations of MengMu" that almost everyone knows.

Inspiration: It is especially important to create a harmonious and upward learning, life and psychological environment for children, whether it is for a family, a class, or a school. Modern society, especially the creation of the psychological environment, is more important to the impact on children's growth. The cultivation of qualities such as tolerance, humor, and empathy needs role models, atmospheres, and such a strong psychological magnetic field! "Mengmu Three Migrations" made me feel that as an educator, I should strive for it.

The second revelation of the story of the classic of education

Pushkin's story as a child

Pushkin's childhood story ---- Pushkin's childhood poems are particularly spirited, but the mathematics is quite bad. After he found that the final result of the four arithmetic problems explained by the teacher was zero, no matter what mathematical problem he solved, he did not even look at the problem, and wrote zero after the equal sign. The teacher said to the hopeless child, "Go write your poem!" Math means zero to you. Pushkin finally chose poetry, and he succeeded.

Revelation: The ruler is short, the inch is long, dear colleagues, in any case, do not forget to give the child some expectations, some encouragement, some appreciation. You don't skimp on your passion, and the kids won't let you down. Believe me, you will find your value in your child's successful smile!

The third revelation of the story of the classic of education

Insidious and "clever" stepmother

The sinister and "clever" stepmother ---- the ex-wife of a king died of illness, leaving behind a beautiful daughter. He later married the king and bore him a daughter. As a stepmother, she hated her ex-wife's daughter very much in her heart, and always wanted to put her to death and then hurry. To this end, the sinister and "clever" stepmother allowed her ex-wife's daughter to enjoy the glory and wealth to the greatest extent possible, living a life of eating and opening her mouth and clothes to reach out. In this way, she not only won the king's favor, but also won the praise of the people.

The ex-wife's daughter ate and drank all day, was arrogant and rude, and often took out her half-sister. Whenever this happened, the stepmother always admired her. In this family, the daughter of the ex-wife is the supreme princess, while the stepmother's own daughter is driven to work in the fields, doing the servant's work, and going through all kinds of tribulations. More than ten years have passed, and both daughters have reached the age of marriage. A handsome prince came here and fell at once in love with his stepmother's dignified, industrious, intelligent and kind daughter, and rejected with great contempt the daughter of his stupid, lazy, arrogant and selfish ex-wife. The stepmother's daughter was thus happy, while the daughter of the ex-wife suffered a nervous breakdown and had no place for herself.

Revelation: From this story, it is not difficult to think that a comfortable life is easy to breed laziness, arrogance, and selfishness. Teach our students to enjoy setbacks and tribulations, and learning and life will be sunny.

The Fourth Revelation of the Classic of Education Story

The story of eggshell peeling

A young mother asked the former Soviet educator Sukhomlinsky, "How can I educate my children well?" Su Shi replied: First teach your children to peel the egg shell!

The classic story of education in the former Soviet Union found its prototype in China decades later: a fourth-grade child in a primary school in Beijing, every day when he went to school, his mother always gave him a peeled boiled egg in a lunch box in his bag to fill his child's hunger between classes. One day, the child saw a "strange phenomenon" ---- how can this egg have a hard shell and no seams at all? In desperation, the child had to take the eggs home and give them to his mother. Perhaps the mother regretted how she forgot to peel off the egg shell that day, but she did not know that she was not only depriving the child of the right to peel the egg, but also depriving the child of the right to live independently.

Revelation: Life needs to be experienced, perceived, and experienced setbacks and failures. The same is true for learning, and teachers should return to them the time, hands-on and thinking space that belongs to the children. This is tantamount to giving children the right to live independently. The main body that embodies children should be expressed in every time and space where they live and learn.

The Fifth Revelation of the Classic of Education Story

Why did Mark Twain steal money?

The famous writer Mark Twain once listened to a priest's speech at a church. Initially, he felt that the pastor spoke very well and was very moving, so he prepared to donate money and pay all his money. After another ten minutes, before the pastor had finished speaking, he became impatient and decided to donate only some change. After another ten minutes, before the pastor could finish speaking, he decided not to donate a penny. By the time the pastor finally finished his lengthy speech and began collecting donations, Mark Twain, out of anger, not only failed to donate money, but also stole two dollars from his plate.

Revelation: This phenomenon of excessive stimulation, too strong or too long-term action causes extreme psychological irritability or reverse psychology, which is called the "over-limit effect" in psychology.

When I was a child, I disliked the teacher's "dragging the hall" the most, especially when I encountered an urgent need to go to the toilet, after the bell rang, the teacher was still unsatisfied, and the taste was indescribable. "Design the classroom according to the plan and respect the free time and space of the students" has become a promise that I have always kept since I became a teacher. I think to do this is to respect the teacher himself, do you say?

The Sixth Revelation of the Classic of Education Story

The story of "biting the nipple"

There is a "nipple biting" scene in traditional Fujian opera. It is about a young prisoner who, before his execution, asked his mother to let him take one last sip of his mother's milk, and her mother agreed. The little prisoner bit down on his mother's nipples fiercely, and blood spilled all over the mother and son's body. The little prisoner complained to his mother with a bloody mouth: "When I stole the chickens and ducks of the neighbor's house when I was a child, you not only did not blame me but also praised me, it was you who connived at me as a thief from childhood, which made me end up in today's sad end, I hate you, so I bit off your nipples." The mother regretted it and bowed her head in shame.

Revelation: In the face of great right and wrong, we must strive to make a clear distinction between love and hate. Covering up and indulging, sometimes tantamount to psychological cues, can only make things worse. In today's world of appreciative education, we must not ignore this issue, or that the left or right is not good for anyone or anything. I feel that the burden on my shoulders as an educator is really not light!

The Seventh Revelation of the Classics of Education Story

Boy with pupae

A little boy picked up a pupa in the field, and he brought it home, and he wanted to see how the pupa hatched into a butterfly. After a few days, a small crack appeared in the pupae, and the butterfly inside struggled for hours, and its body seemed to be stuck and could not get out. The little boy was a little overwhelmed to see this, so he used scissors to cut the pupae open and help the butterfly to come out of the pupa. But the butterfly was bloated, its wings were dry, it couldn't fly at all, and it died in a short while. Obviously, the little boy did not know that the butterfly had to struggle painfully in the pupa until its wings were strong before it could break out of the pupae, and he did not understand the truth of ripening and falling. Butterflies are like this, and people are not like this!

Enlightenment: In the process of education and teaching, many of our practices, such as the boy in the text, are no different: emphasizing the result over the process, and it is not uncommon to rush to achieve results, and the result is really wrong! Most of the good intentions do bad things because of ignorance and failure to grasp certain laws. Peers, do you say yes?

The Story of the Classic of Education Revelation VIII

Zengzi killed pigs

Confucius had a student named Zengzi. Once, when Zengzi's wife wanted to go to the street, her son cried and had to follow, so the wife coaxed her son to say, "You wait at home, and when you come back, I will kill pork stew for you to eat." The son believed it and stopped crying.

When his wife returned, she saw that Zengzi was sharpening his knife and killing the pig, so he hurriedly stopped him and said, "Why do you really want to kill the pig for him to eat?" I was talking to him about playing. Zeng Zi said seriously, "How can you deceive a child?" Our words and deeds have an impact on the child, and if we say it does not count, the child will no longer listen to us. "He did kill the pig.

Revelation: Words must be done, deeds must be fruitful. Honesty is the foundation of being a person, and honesty is the foundation of a strong nation. Today, with the "integrity crisis", we should pay more attention to starting from the doll.

The Ninth Revelation of the Classic of Education Story

Octopus mentality

The octopus is one of the most feared creatures in the ocean, and its soft body is a characteristic of it, but it is also its weakness. Fishermen string small bottles together with ropes and sink them to the bottom of the sea, and when octopuses see small bottles, they scramble to drill into them, no matter how small or narrow the bottles are. The result is that the invincible octopus in the ocean has become a prisoner in a bottle and a good meal on people's tables.

What banned octopus? Is it a bottle? No, it's the octopus itself. They go farther and farther toward the narrowest road, no matter how dark it is, even if it is a dead end, they stubbornly drill in and will not learn their lesson. We often see fishermen catching octopuses with just a small, milky white stone with a rough surface. Because octopuses stubbornly use their powerful suction cups to suck tightly on the stones until they are caught by fishermen.

Revelation: If our minds are like octopuses, drilling the horns of the bull, then the result of stubbornness is only like an octopus - a dead end. If we also do not learn to give up like octopuses, then failure will be inevitable, and even like octopuses, we will turn our strong adsorption advantages or specialties into fatal defects to death.

Learning to give up is the only way to a new life. This is particularly difficult to do, it requires courage, a strong spirit of innovation, but also flexible thinking support, teachers to help our students grasp the degree of "abandonment". It's regrettable to be left or right. Please!

The Ten Revelations of the Classics of Education Story

Caterpillar experiments

In France, the scientist Farber did a very famous "caterpillar experiment". He placed caterpillars on the edges of a pot, forming them in a circle from end to end, while at the same time spreading some pine needles they liked 150 mm around the pot. Because these bugs have a natural habit of "following others", they follow one by one, circling the edge of the pot in a circle. Time passes slowly, a minute, an hour, a day... The caterpillar stubbornly circled around in circles and went all the way to the end. After 7 consecutive days and 7 nights, they were hungry and exhausted, and they all died.

Summarizing the experiment, Farber's notebook contained a sentence: "If one of the caterpillars is different, they can immediately change their fate and say goodbye to death." ”

Enlightenment: "Learn to think, learn to seek differences, learn to innovate, dare to question" This quality can be the most surprisingly new. Always following the crowd and following the crowd will never make a big difference.

The rejuvenation and prosperity of a nation requires a strong spirit of innovation, and it is necessary for us to make great efforts to contribute more to this.

The Eleventh Revelation of the Classics of Education Story

Flies and bees

At Cornell University in the United States, the famous Professor Wick did an interesting experiment. First, he laid a bottle flat on the table, the bottom of the bottle facing the side with the light, the mouth of the bottle open, and then put in a few bees. I saw the bees flying inside the bottle towards the shiny place, and of course they could only crash into the wall of the bottle. After several flights, the bees finally found themselves never able to fly out of the bottom of the bottle, and they had to stop at the bottom of the bottle with light. Professor Wick then poured out the bees, still laying out the bottle as it was, and put in a few more flies. It didn't take long for the flies to fly out of the bottle without a single one. Why can flies find a way out? It turned out that they insisted on trying in many ways, flying up, or down, or backlit, or toward the light, once they hit the wall and found that the road was not passable, they immediately changed direction, and finally found the bottle mouth and flew out.

Revelation: What kind of attitude there is, what kind of state of existence will be. True wealth is not the amount of money and the level of status, but the way of thinking. It is crucial to cultivate students' positive and upward attitude towards life and flexible way of thinking.

The Twelve Revelations of the Classics of Education Story

Monkey experiments

Scientists put five monkeys in a cage with a bunch of bananas on top of it, and the experimenters installed an automatic device, and if the monkeys went to get bananas, they would immediately spray cold water on the cage, and all five monkeys would be wet. First a monkey tried to get a banana, and the water jet immediately squirted out, and every monkey was drenched, and all the monkeys tried it and found it all. So the monkeys learned a lesson: Don't go get bananas, because there will be a jet of water spewing out.

Later, the experimenter took out one of the monkeys and replaced it with a new one. The monkey saw that the banana wanted to get it, but was immediately stopped by the other four monkeys, because the other four monkeys thought that the new monkey would cause them to be drenched in water, and the new monkey tried several times and was beaten and injured.

Then the experimenter replaced an old monkey with a new monkey, and this monkey saw that the banana was naturally going to get it immediately, and the result was that he was beaten by other monkeys, and the monkey who came last time hit the hardest. The new monkey tried several times and was always beaten badly and had to give up. Later, all the old monkeys were replaced by new monkeys, but everyone did not dare to touch the bunch of bananas, they did not know why, only that they would be beaten if they went to take the bananas.

The results of the experiment tell us that habits can lead to many mistakes, and make people think that those mistakes are justified, resulting in a sad mentality that "even mistakes are made by predecessors".

Revelation: Good habits must be practiced by repeated teachings and practices. While cultivating good habits, we must try to avoid the breeding of bad habits, knowing that bad habits will affect a person's form of thinking, and even affect a person's living conditions.

Teach students to learn to adjust their thinking angle, constantly update their thinking foothold, and successfully bring the water to fruition!

The Thirteenth Revelation of the Classics of Education

Funny monkeys

There is an interesting case: once upon a time, there was a man who sold straw hats, and every day, he tried very hard to sell straw hats. One day, he was very tired of selling, and just when there was a big tree on the side of the road, he put down his straw hat and sat under the tree and took a nap. When he woke up, he found that the straw hat next to him was gone. Looking up, there are many monkeys in the trees, and each monkey has a straw hat on its head. He thought that monkeys liked to imitate human movements, so he quickly took off the straw hat on his head and threw it on the ground. The monkeys also learned from him, throwing straw hats on the ground. Selling straw hats happily picked up the draft hat and went home. When he returned home, he told his son and grandson about the strange thing.

Many years later, his grandson inherited the family business. One day, while he was selling straw hats, he fell asleep under a tree like his grandfather, and the straw hats were also taken away by monkeys. The grandson remembered the method that his grandfather had told him, and he took off his straw hat and threw it on the ground, but strangely, the monkey did not follow him, and stared at him without stopping. Soon after, the Monkey King appeared, picked up the straw hat on the ground, and said, "What a joke, do you think you're the only one who has Grandpa?" ”

Revelation: Fixed trend thinking is the most difficult to break through, dare to think backwards, dare to break the convention, often have a sense of "willow dark flowers", do not believe, you will try to see!

The Essence of Education Story Revelation XIV

A revelation of antelope and wolf

When examining animals living on both sides of the Orancha River in Africa, a zoologist noticed that antelopes on the east bank of the river and the west bank of the river were very different, the former was more capable of breeding than the latter, and the running speed was 13 meters faster per minute. He wondered why the difference was so great when the environment and food were the same.

To solve the mystery, zoologists and the local animal protection society conducted an experiment in which 10 antelopes were caught on each side of the river and sent to live on the other side. As a result, 14 antelopes were sent to the west bank, while only 3 were sent to the east coast, and the other 7 were eaten by wolves. The mystery was finally revealed, and it turned out that the antelope on the east coast were physically strong because they lived nearby by a herd of wolves, which made the antelope in a "competitive atmosphere" every day. In order to survive, they become more and more effective. The antelope on the West Coast are weak and can't help the wind, precisely because of the lack of natural enemies and no pressure to survive.

Revelation: Hold hands with "opponents" and spend a good life together. Having an opponent in learning, or secretly finding an opponent as your motivation, is the best way to improve your competitiveness. We must regard our opponents as our own competitive partners, not as enemies, envy rather than jealousy, and exercise ourselves to surpass others through fair competition. In fact, what really forces operators to reach the other side of success is often not friends or favorable circumstances, but opponents who may kill people. Learn to "respect your opponent, cherish your opponent, and even love your opponent." ”

The Fifteenth Revelation of the Classic of Education Story

Columbus erects eggs

At a court banquet, some nobles said to Columbus, rather disapprovingly: "There is nothing remarkable about discovering the New World, but you are lucky and happen to meet!" Columbus was not angry, but humbly replied, "Yes, this is really not enough to worry about, a small matter!" ”

At this time, Columbus picked up a raw egg on the table and asked the people present, who can put the egg up so that it will not fall again? At first, everyone thought that this should not be too difficult, so everyone took turns trying to put the egg up, but they tried everything they could, and the egg lay on the table.

Just when everyone was helpless, Columbus gently broke the shell of one end of the egg and effortlessly erected the egg.

In an uproar, Columbus told those who laughed at him: "This method of erecting eggs is even for children, but you have not thought of it: in fact, I found that the New World is the same truth, although it is a simple and ordinary thing, but the focus is on who can first find out and put it into action." Columbus's encounter has almost become a "must-go" for many scientists. For new inventions and discoveries, pretentious authorities often show resistance, disdain, and ridicule.

Enlightenment: Learning to appreciate and recognize people, learning to share the joy of success with others, is the charm of a person, tolerance and generosity, tolerance and humility, compatibility and goodness and other good qualities, all come from appreciating and recognizing people. Appreciating your students for teachers and educating children to appreciate others is the starting point of successful education, and its significance is far-reaching.

The Essence of Education Story Revelation No. 16

Ten minus one equals a few stories

A company recruits employees, after layer by layer of screening, there are still three interviewers left, their business level is comparable, and it is really difficult to choose one out of three people. In the end, the general manager decided to do another interview, which he personally selected.

The interview question was unexpected, had nothing to do with business, and was a very simple arithmetic problem.

"Please answer me a question: How much does ten minus one equal?"

The first test taker thought for a moment and finally said with a smile on his face: "You say it is equal to several, it is equal to several; if you want it to be equal to several, it is equal to several." ”

The second saw the first answer so shrewdly, not to be outdone: "Ten minus one equals nine, that is consumption; ten minus one equals twelve, that is business; ten minus one equals fifteen, that is trade." ”

The general manager listened, smiled and nodded and shook his head, he turned his eyes to the third candidate: "Tell me your answer?" ”

"Ten minus one is equal to nine!"

afterward. This honest man was hired.

Revelation: In real life, there are people who do see "honesty" as "stupidity." People's favorite mistakes are to be clever, and the result is always smart but clever, why not be honest with what is originally right? This represents a realistic attitude towards the world. No one likes to be fooled by others, and even those who like compliments care and believe in honest people deep down.

Honesty gives a person the character to behave fairly in the world, and honesty is the most frank and humble way to prove that a wise person is. The child who cried out again and again, "Here comes the wolf," and finally no one believed him. Because dishonest people are too "naïve", they are not "cute", let alone likable.

The Seventeenth Revelation of the Classics of Education Story

Let happiness pop

There was a psychologist who did an experiment on annoyances. A group of experimenters followed his request to write down the troubles that would arise in the next 7 days and then put them into a large "trouble box". After 7 days, the experimenter took out his "trouble strip" from the box and checked them one by one. They find that 90% of their fears don't happen at all.

What about the remaining 10% of the annoyances? A week later, the experimenters opened the box. Comparing those 10% of the troubles with reality, they found that some problems had been solved by themselves, and other problems were confident and capable of dealing with them.

It can be seen that the troubles are found by oneself. According to statistics, 40% of the average person's worries belong to the past. 50% belong to the future, only 10% belong to the present, and 92% of the worries never happen. The remaining 8% is easily handled.

Some of the troubles are like diseases, and most of them can be cured without medicine, because most of them will be reduced or disappeared the next day. Thinking of it this way, developing a detached mindset can overcome many worries.

Revelation: I suggest that we all "make happiness popular" together. Humans seem to be born with a need for happiness. When there is a happy scene or a pleasant sound, people's vision will be improved, hearing will become sensitive, and even the heart, stomach, spleen and other internal organs will work more efficiently. If you're happy, you'll also have the most obvious feeling that people around you like you more. When you meet a happy person, people will subconsciously like him and want to associate themselves with him. With your happy smile as a sweet signboard, people will flock to you and become your friends.

The Essence of Education Story Revelation XVIII

Baby

A girl, no matter where she goes, will always have a lot of friends, old friends will often miss her, call her a lot, and the new friends around her are always steady, even strangers who meet on the side of the road seem to have a good feeling for her. The good friend she spent with day and night realized this and asked her curiously why.

"I'm not pretty, so people like me not because of my exterior, if I'm attractive enough on the inside, I think it's because I cherish the fate of the people around me!" 」

The girl continued: "When I was studying, I thought how difficult it would be to study with these strangers. With such a thought, it is impossible for you to have a conflict with them, and it is impossible not to care about them. When I stepped into society, I felt that working with colleagues and bosses was also a kind of fate. Maybe after two or three years everyone is separated again, and thinking about it, I feel like everyone is like a baby. ”

The person who treats everyone as a baby, no wonder others treat her as a baby!

Revelation: If you truly cherish your fate with the people around you, you will be like the girl in the story, treating everyone as a baby. With the mentality of "cherishing", you will deeply understand the meaning of "the tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, and the son wants to raise and the relatives are not there". There will be more understanding and care between you and your parents, because "cherishing", you will naturally not fight with colleagues. You won't go head-to-head with your boss, and you'll be grateful to your boss for giving you a job. "Ten years of repair to cross the boat, a hundred years to repair the bed together!" You will be kind to your skin-to-skin lovers, etc.

Think about it! So many people all over the world, why do we just meet online? How rare is that!

The Essence of Education Story Revelation No. 19

Trust me, yes!

The young Pareto was valued by others wherever he went, and he changed several jobs, almost all of which were at the top of the list and excelled in the industry. Every time he wanted to resign, the boss would always try to keep it.

"How can you be so good?" A friend asked him.

Pareto replied: "Many people succeed by hard work, some people by luck, and some people by intelligence, and I think I rely on gaining the trust of others." Because others trust me, they will give me positions and businesses with room for development! ”

"But what can you do if a man thinks you can't be trusted?" Anyway, I don't think there's anything I can do about it. The friend shrugged his shoulders helplessly and spread his hands.

"No, you yourself can tell him, 'You can trust me,' or, 'I can be trusted,' and it's up to you to decide what others think of you!"

Revelation: It is true that the main factors of success are different for everyone, but if a person learns the method of gaining the trust of others, then he will have more development opportunities and more room for development than others. Only when someone else has established a sense of trust in you will he be happy to be close to you, and will not guard you at all times, everywhere, and everything. People will have a common feeling, that is, a person who can make you feel happy, can make you feel a sense of trust, even if what he does is slightly inconsistent with your wishes, you can easily forgive and accept.

Gaining the trust of others is not always up to others. You yourself can tell him, "You can trust me!" I can be trusted! ”

The Twenty Revelations of the Classics of Education Story

Dylan's story

Dylan is a person who knows how to use praise to interact with people. Once, at a meeting of the company, a colleague presented a report, his report was unusual, and there was no applause at the scene, and after the meeting, Dylan and the colleague met, and he said to the colleague: "Your report just now is very good, simple and concise, I appreciate it!"

The colleague hadn't expected anyone's attention to be paid attention to by his report, but Daeron's few words made him feel happy for a day.

Everyone who knew Daeron would quickly build a friendship with him. Similarly, everyone in Dylan's company got along very well, and this good popularity also brought him a lot of convenience

Revelation: Praise praise, praise for beauty, praise for beauty. Don't let the praise be difficult to open, you should say it boldly, and you will gain more friendship and popularity. Words of praise should be said well and with heart.

Pay more attention to others, with your observation and creativity. Say the praise that goes deep into the other person's heart.