If you don't see it with your own eyes, it's hard to imagine that this is Sun Yang's live broadcast room.
I saw him wearing sunglasses, a serious expression, holding a sign.
"The number of people to 3W people to pick up sunglasses."
When the number of people arrived, Sun Yang took off his sunglasses and calmly suffered from another piece of paper.
"The number of people to 5W laughs."
In the face of the comments of "good low" and "ugly to eat" floating on the bullet screen, he was indifferent and changed another brand.
"The number of people to 10W speaks."
All this has made the onlookers have a bad impression.
What about the proud poplar?
How did it become the anchor with goods that is full of low to burst in this routine?
01 Sun Yang - Genius VS Mixer
In 1991, Sun Yang was born into a sports family in Zhejiang.
His father is a men's volleyball player of the Anhui Provincial Sports Team, and his mother is the main player of the Zhejiang women's volleyball team.
Sun Yang, who inherited his parents' athletic talent, has shown outstanding talents early on.
At the age of 13, he was caught by coach Zhu Zhigen and entered the Zhejiang Provincial Swimming Team.
When he was less than 15 years old, he won three gold medals in the men's 400-meter medley, the men's 200-meter freestyle and the men's 1500-meter freestyle at the Zhejiang Provincial Games.
After growing up, Sun Yang became a legendary genius in the world swimming world.
He is the world's first Grand Slam player to win gold in the 200, 400, 800 and 1500 meters in the mid-long distance.
China has 18 world gold medals in men's swimming, and Sun Yang has won 14.
He is the number one men's gold medalist in active swimming and the only male athlete since Phelps to win the MVP of the World Championships.
However, whether it is the training period before becoming famous or becoming a national hero after becoming famous, Sun Yang has repeatedly spread indecent rumors of disobedience to organizational discipline and blatant violations of law and discipline.
In 2013, 23-year-old Sun Yang drove with his girlfriend without a license and was administratively separated by 7 days.
At that time, the attitude of the Zhejiang Sports Academy was that Sun Yang repeatedly violated discipline, did not return to the team on time, did not report his whereabouts, and traveled to Thailand without permission.
I've wanted to deal with him for a long time.
Sun Yang also had many conflicts with coach Zhu Zhigen, and even had physical conflicts.
In 2010, during a training camp in Australia, Sun Yang openly changed his swimming trunks by the pool without covering, and was complained about by foreign female athletes.
Coach Zhu Zhigen asked Sun Yang about this matter, and he refused to admit that "there was no such thing" and was slapped by Zhu Zhigen.
In 2014, Sun Yang tested positive for Chinese medicine at the National Swimming Championships, insisting that he was taking myocarditis drugs and was sentenced to three months of suspension.
In July 2019, Sun Yang won the men's 200m and 400m freestyle titles at the Swimming World Championships in South Korea.
On the podium, first because of the British player Scott, who won the bronze medal, he ridiculed him on social networks, and Sun Yang yelled at him.
Then, because Scott and Australia's Horton refused to take a picture with him at the awards ceremony.
Sun Yang shouted at Scott, "You loser, I win!"
The most serious is Sun Yang's violent anti-inspection incident.
One day in 2019, FINA authorized a doping company to conduct a routine drug test at Sun Yang's residence.
Although Sun Yang cooperated in providing urine and blood samples, he questioned the qualifications of the three staff members throughout the whole process and did not let the other party take away the samples.
In the end, in front of everyone, the sample bottle was smashed.
In the end, the FINA Anti-Doping Committee found that because the sample was invalid, it could not determine Sun Yang's doping violation.
However, the facts of the violent resistance to the procuratorate are clear, and Sun Yang was sentenced to an 8-year ban.
Later, Sun Yang appealed, and after two hearings, Sun Yang was finally sentenced to a 4-year and 3-month ban.
This means that Sun Yang will not be able to participate in the Tokyo Olympic Games, nor will he be able to participate in the 2022 Hangzhou Asian Games.
By the end of the ban, the 33-year-old Sun Yang's sports career had basically ended ahead of schedule.
It is reported that during the sampling process, the urine inspector was originally a fan of Sun Yang and was willing to testify on his behalf, but asked Sun Yang to protect their privacy.
But later, in the handwritten letter sent by Sun Yang, the names, dates of birth and ID numbers of the three staff members were exposed, and they did not code.
Sun Yang's selfish behavior not only depleted the public's trust in him, but also introduced innocent workers into online violence.
Chen Yunpeng, the former head coach of the national swimming team, once commented on Sun Yang that "among Chinese athletes, there is not one in 50 years." ”
Then he said, "Among Chinese athletes with such a personality, I have not met one in 50 years." “
02 A genius ruined by his mother
Why did Sun Yang develop such a character?
Looking back at what Sun Yang did in his career, the shadow of his mother Yang Ming was shrouded everywhere.
From the time Sun Yang was young, Yang Ming made a big package, from swimming training to eating and living, and she did everything for Sun Yang.
Sun Yang, a sixth-grader, also needs her to help tie her shoelaces.
"You just have to swim well, you don't have to worry about anything else."
Every time he competed and trained, Yang Ming guarded Sun Yang inseparably.
Sun Yang is the only athlete in the Zhejiang Aquatics Center who takes his mother to the competition every time, which has caused dissatisfaction among the leaders of the swimming center.
They still go their own way.
After Sun Yang grew up, Yang Ming controlled his social media accounts, and even threatened Sun Yang to retire from the competition and asked to stay in the athletes' hotel.
After Sun Yang entered the national team, she also asked Sun Yang to call her every day to report on her life situation.
After learning that Sun Yang was slapped by the coach for lying, he immediately called the coach and accused him of hurting Sun Yang's self-esteem.
Sun Yang associates with the five-year-old flight attendant's girlfriend and makes her pregnant, she forces them to break up, and exchanges the villa and maintenance for her girlfriend to raise the child alone...
Seeing that the Brazilian reporter wanted to interview Sun Yang, Yang Ming directly rushed up, "What is the benefit of your TV in Brazil?" ”
Someone brought the matter to light.
Yang Ming disagreed, and also asked to punish the exposer, "We Sun Yang, but the athletes who want to achieve results, you don't stink him!" ”
Worst of all, her face was thrown internationally.
At a hearing, Sun Yang's mother, as a witness, could hardly provide any useful information, but together with Sun Yang, ignored the judge the whole time and cried that it was not easy for Sun Yang.
Later, he even interrupted the translation and called a person who did not know anyone to come in.
The move shook the judge's jaw.
I had to raise my hand and ask, "Excuse me, who is this person?" ”
The whole trial process completely exposed the ignorance and quality of Sun Yang's mother and son.
Sun Yang's rise from a talented athlete who has repeatedly won glory for the country to today is really worthy of our deep consideration.
03 Behind the genius - the death of Chinese-style family education
One. Behind an ignorant child, there must be a doting and indulgent parent.
The child is a small sapling, not only needs to be carefully cared for, watered and sunbathed every day; it also needs to subtract the discordant branches and forks.
In this way, small saplings can grow into towering trees.
Children react to what their parents do.
If it were not for his mother's connivance and obedience to him from childhood, Sun Yang would not have gained inches and developed a lawless character.
It is precisely because of the lack of good examples and insurmountable bottom lines from childhood.
Sun Yang does not know how to behave and do things.
So in his mind, none of this is a big deal.
As long as the grades are good, you can do whatever you want.
Two. Grades are not the only measure of children, sound personality is the ultimate goal of education
Like Sun Yang's mother, many parents only pay attention to their children's achievements, but ignore their children's ideological and moral education.
The latter is the foundation of a person's ability to stand on society when he grows up.
It should be known that the ultimate purpose of education is to cultivate a qualified social citizen who is independent, free, happy, self-responsible and caring for others.
A child who is not good enough to study, but has a kind heart and sunshine, respects the teacher and unites his classmates, will not be worse when he grows up.
On the contrary, he takes care of everything for the child and deprives the child of the right to grow up on his own, so that he grows up to become a giant baby who is incompatible with society and cannot survive independently.
Children will complain about you after they understand things.
"I didn't understand it at the time, you know."
Three. Be cautious to be the "big mother god" in the family and control your strong desire to control.
The famous psychologist Wu Zhihong analyzed the phenomenon of the "Big Mother God" in the mainland family in "The Giant Baby Country".
Many traditional Chinese mothers, who do not receive love and nourishment from their husbands, throw themselves wholeheartedly into their children, especially boys.
Because of excessive worry and strong self-control, they often demand that children listen to them and take care of everything about their children.
Therefore, there are more and more "ma bao men" in Chinese society, who are weak and immature and cannot bear the responsibilities of the family well.
Obey the mother in everything, and there is no sense of boundary between the small family and the original family.
Allow your mother to invade and possess yourself, forming a tug-of-war with your wife.
This has also caused more and more tragedies in society, contributing to the birth of a new generation of "Great Mother Goddess".
Therefore, there are more and more girls who are reluctant to enter the family and marriage, preferring to be single and independent.
Moms, stop parasitizing the ego entirely on others.
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Fourth, children are the shadow of their parents, and only by doing a good job can they set an example for their children
Sun Yang's family once went to "Lu Yu has a date".
On the show, Lu Yu asked a question: "Is Sun Yang more like his mother or his father?"
Before Sun Yang could reply, Yang Ming snatched up the conversation, his voice was loud, and he triumphantly said, "It's good to take advantage of us, my part is a little more." ”
After laughing, Lu Yu asked Sun Yang again.
This time, I got a shy answer from the boy, "Like my mother..."
Looking back at everything now, the gray line of the grass snake of fate has long been buried.
Yang Ming was rude to reporters many times, clapping his hands on the camera, "Don't shoot, annoyed to death, hate to die!" ”
Obviously, Sun Yang also completely copied this kind of ignorance, arrogance and arrogance.
Ask the reporter to delete the photo, directly scolding "TMD don't make me angry, believe it or not I smashed your camera?" ”
Every child starts out with a blank sheet of paper.
Their first example of a long life was their parents.
Especially in the absence of an external reference system, it is always unconscious to imitate the behavior of parents.
If you want to raise a child who knows things well.
You must first manage yourself, learn more about parenting knowledge, and correct your character defects.
Like and forward, may you and I both become mothers in the new era and no longer ruin children.