Usually when the child reaches the age of 3 to 4 years old, he is sent to kindergarten by the parents, although it is not a formal education, but it also means that the child begins to adapt to the new identity: student.
Before going to primary school, each child will be sent to kindergarten by parents to receive basic education before enrollment, mainly in order to adapt children to life in school, adapt to the way they get along with teachers and classmates, in order to better adapt to the learning life of primary schools.
At the same time, kindergartens in the mainland are divided into many kinds, such as public kindergartens, bilingual kindergartens, international kindergartens, noble kindergartens, etc. These kindergartens have different educational directions and teaching concepts according to different school qualifications.
One of the most difficult to enter is the public kindergarten, not only the number of students enrolled every year is very small, students also have to meet a lot of recruitment conditions, before they have the opportunity to enter the public kindergarten, the rest is some private kindergartens, relatively better.
However, in most private kindergartens, there are some "unwritten" secrets, which are directly related to the learning life of children after kindergarten, and parents must do their homework in advance, otherwise children who are just starting out are likely to be isolated and affect the relationship with their classmates.
The "unwritten" secrets in kindergarten, parents need to know
Xiaoxiao is 4 years old this year, was sent to kindergarten by parents to take a small class, has been half a year, suddenly one day Xiaoxiao went home, her mother helped wash the process, found that Xiaoxiao had a small bruise on her arm, although it was very small, it was also found by the attentive mother.
At this time, when my mother remembered to pick up and smile, her eyes were a little red and swollen, obviously she had cried in kindergarten, and her mother inadvertently asked and smiled, was she happy in kindergarten today? Xiao Xiao told his mother about the day's experience and acted very aggrieved.
Laughing, he said, "I'm not happy today, because I had a conflict with a child in the class, but the teacher didn't say anything, so he blamed himself." "After listening to it, the mother added that she loved her daughter and called the kindergarten director directly, plus she had some friendship with the kindergarten director before.
The teacher of the laughing class was directly complained in front of the head of the kindergarten, and the next day, the head of the kindergarten gave the teacher another rebuke, but the mother did not know how much of an impact such a move had on the smile, and later the mother regretted and blamed herself after learning about it.
Since this incident, the teacher's attitude towards laughter has changed a lot, basically it is the attitude of disregard, although the smile is small, but you can also feel different emotions, one day suddenly asked my mother if I could change a kindergarten.
At the same time, a classmate mother who has a better relationship with Xiaoxiao's mother, in a more subtle way, tells Xiaoxiao's mother the reason, there is an unwritten secret in the kindergarten, the child has anything in the kindergarten, parents should communicate with the teacher first.
Sister Yanyan has something to say:
The relationship between parents and teachers is very delicate, and many times it is necessary to pay special attention to and carefully maintain the relationship between the two, but many parents do not know this truth, and habitually take a lofty attitude to accuse the teacher, which is really unnecessary.
As everyone knows, such measures will really affect the life of children in kindergartens, and serious may also have a certain impact on the physical and mental health of children, parents can be described as small losses, as parents must deal with things calmly.
How should parents maintain relationships with teachers?
1. Try to think differently and be considerate of the teacher
Parents should learn to think differently, a teacher's time and energy is limited, coupled with the need to take care of a class of more than a dozen, twenty children, it is impossible to take care of each student all the time, so parents should be considerate of the teacher's difficulties.
The most important thing is that the children in kindergarten, because of their young age, everything needs to be worried about by the teacher, and they can't even fully have the ability to take care of themselves, and they need the help of the teacher to eat, sleep, and go to the toilet, and they can roughly understand the work of the kindergarten teacher.
2. Maintain communication with the teacher
Parents want to know more about their children's situation in kindergarten, and they can communicate directly with the teacher, so that they can clearly know the child's performance in the kindergarten, and they can also discover the child's situation in the kindergarten in time and adjust it in time.
To know that the child's heart is very sensitive and fragile, many adults do not pay attention to the details, it will indeed have a great impact on the child, parents will send their children to kindergarten, you must give the teacher enough trust, can not blame the teacher.
summary:
Parents decide to start from sending their children to kindergarten, they must learn to let go of their children, first of all, to teach children the basic self-care ability of life, and then to let the child's heart gradually become independent, which is also the best protection that parents can give to their children.
Because it is now generally an only child, it is reasonable for parents to take care of their children, but as a parent, it is impossible to take care of their children for a lifetime, and the truly responsible parents are to teach their children the skills to survive, even if the parents are not around, they can live well.
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