"Cinderella and the prince meet love" and "the princess falls in love with the commoner" are the usual routines of love fairy tales, and the broken love stories shown are often brave, beautiful and romantic.
The recent hit urban emotional drama "Heart Residence" single-handedly broke this cross-class love fairy tale, and several pairs of CP who did not have the right door in the play were in difficult situation after marriage, and they were tired to watch.
Although the three pairs of CPs in the play are all choices after free love, none of them can be regarded as happy. In the end, the root cause is that the door is not right, making it difficult for them to break through:
Dilemma one: can not integrate into each other's family
Love may be a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, and only parents approve and accept it can be considered complete.
But cross-class marriage, whether it is a strong man or a weak woman or a strong woman and a weak man, the parents are sad.
Feng Xiaoqin, a foreigner married To Gu Lei, a Shanghainese, even if Gu Lei has no ability and is not motivated, the family relies on Feng Xiaoqin to do something, Gu Lei's whole family still looks down on Feng Xiaoqin, always avoids Feng Xiaoqin to open a family meeting, and the first reaction when there is a bad thing is her, and everything is against her. I think she is a foreigner, and looking for Gu Lei is itself a purpose that is not pure.
The original family of Gu Xin and Ge Yue was originally a strong woman and a weak man, and Ge Yue's family not only had a rich family foundation, but her father was an official, which also helped Gu Xin's career. Gu Xin also really took a fancy to the conditions of her family, abandoned his ex-girlfriend and chose to marry Ge Yue, and mainly stayed at his mother-in-law's house after marriage. But the powerful mother-in-law did not think much of him, and always made him do this and that, and there was no respect between words. Gu Xin's situation is not to enter the excess, but to enter the excess.
Gu Xin always went elsewhere to find compensation every time he got angry, so even if Ge Yue tried to maintain this marriage, Gu Xin either wanted to cheat or was on the way to cheat, and finally really cheated.
Of course, Gu Xin's mothers' acceptance of Ge Yue is not high, after Ge Yue's father had an accident, her mother-in-law was not very polite to Ge Yue, all kinds of pickiness, disgust, and the posture of the mother-in-law coming over, so that Ge Yue also had to eat her suffering.
Even gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, a husband and wife who live on their own, only need to occasionally go to each other's parents' homes to visit the house, Shi Yuan's mother still has to play the score. Even if Gu Qingyu's economic strength is far better than Shi Yuan's, Shi Yuan's mother still dislikes her bad birth. Talking is always yin and yang weird, giving people unpleasantness, making people unable to get off the stage.
Anyway, your own children are treasures, especially if you are not born well, the economic conditions are not as good as your own children, it is a high climb, always have to give some color to see.
Dilemma two: the three views caused by different growth environments do not coincide
When you are in love, the differences of the other party are new to yourself, and after entering the marriage, those differences need to be tolerated and compromised by one party in order to live in harmony, if you do not give in, it is suffering.
For example, Feng Xiaoqin, who came out of the countryside to work hard in the big city, has a tenacity and is very strong. Partial husband Gu Lei, as a family group favorite, enjoyed the habit, he has no ambition, nothing matters, it is a pool of mud that cannot be supported by the wall. So the two will argue endlessly over buying a house and studying the examination.
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, a successful career with a smooth wind and smooth water, have a sense of superiority. A man who has lost control of his life since the failure of the college entrance examination began to lose control and began to become inferior, but he inherited a strong sense of self-esteem from his mother. Gu Qingyu was accustomed to a lofty posture, but Shi Yuan was not used to being a soft rice man.
Therefore, the contradictions and conflicts between the two people are also continuous, and what is more infuriating is that Shi Yuan does not accept Gu Qingyu's help on the one hand, and on the other hand, he accepts the "help" of the people who want to pit Gu Qingyu, does not accept Gu Qingyu to help him pay off his debts, and turns around to make Gu Qingyu unemployed in order to ask for money from others.
After watching this drama, I can roughly understand why the elders "forced" the door to be right.
Of course, the three male characters in the play themselves are also the best, the most in life may be Gu Lei's type of not seeking progress, followed by Gu Xin's forces and Qin Twilight Chu, like Shi Yuan, who resolutely does not eat soft rice or less, at most soft rice hard to eat.
Which pair of CP situations in the play is the most unacceptable to you?