I really like a passage that Meng Fei said: "When a child is born, my feelings are very complicated. From that moment on, I knew that this child would eventually leave me, that she would grow up, work, marry... So I cherished my time with my daughter, and from that moment on, I always reminded myself to learn one thing – to let go. It's hard, but I have to. ”
Learning to let go is the best love for children! I know it's hard for most parents to really let go, and it's important to adjust your mindset in advance. Parents' letting go can give children the opportunity to try and experience, so that children can grow and exercise better!
Parents' 8 withdrawals can achieve the glory of their children's lives!
1. Exit the table at the age of three: Let the child consciously master the skills of eating independently
2. Exit the bedroom at the age of five: Let the child reduce dependence and enhance independence
3. Exit the bathroom at the age of six: Respecting the privacy of the child begins with the child bathing independently
4. Exit from private space at the age of eight: No matter how intimate the relationship, you must also leave a certain space for your child
5. Appropriate exit from the kitchen at the age of twelve: Let the child learn to cook and experience the hardships of parents
6. Appropriate withdrawal from housework at the age of thirteen: the more "lazy" the parents, the sooner the child becomes independent
7. Opt-out at the age of eighteen: Let the child follow his heart
8. Quit the child's family after marriage: The child has grown up and knows how to guard his own happiness.
Every withdrawal of parents is a growth of children!