Recently heard a female friend complain to me, saying that her new boyfriend, this time spent a lot of money on her, but her financial ability is limited, can give back less than one-tenth of the boyfriend to give, so feel very anxious and uneasy, do not want the boyfriend to continue to do this to her, feel a little uncomfortable, but do not know how to tell the boyfriend, worried that the other party thinks that they do not like him...
If the boyfriend always takes himself to a high-end restaurant, changes the method to send himself a valuable gift, it may be too late to be happy for other girls, but for some more independent girls, the boyfriend always spends too much money on himself, he always feels a little inappropriate, after all, whether it is emotional investment or material payment in love, it is better to be evenly matched.
Boyfriends feel uncomfortable when they spend money for themselves, and many netizens also feel this way:
Girls don't like their boyfriends to spend too much money on themselves, generally because they are afraid of the imbalance of this relationship, after all, eating people's mouths is short, taking people soft, afraid of being said by others to find a boyfriend in order to find a long-term meal ticket, or after the feelings are weak, the boyfriend feels a loss, take these things as a white-eyed wolf.
Some girls think that the boyfriend should spend money for himself, because since he promised to be your girlfriend, then you are obliged to spend money on her, and some girls feel that falling in love is not a transaction, love is originally equal to both sides, there is no reason who is obliged to raise whom, couples can invite dinner and travel, give gifts, etc., but also can not be borne by one party, the other party only asks, otherwise the relationship will be over sooner or later.
It is true that some men feel that spending money on their girlfriends will make them feel very satisfied and fulfilled, but if the girlfriend does not like it, use her more comfortable way to get along.