"The rest of your life, please give more advice" as an idol-type small sweet drama, it can achieve more than 2 billion on-demand results in such a short period of time, all this is not accidental.
One could argue that there are many bugs in the plot of The Rest of Your Life, and many of the plots are old-fashioned and have nothing special to see.
The reason why its popularity and playback volume are high is because there are two top streams in the play, Xiao Zhan and Yang Zi, and the plot is really not much to do with whether the plot is good or not.
Is this really the case? Not really!
To be honest, if you look at "The Rest of Your Life" like a serious reality drama, it does have some bugs, and it does have some clichés.
But if you have a prejudice against "The Rest of Your Life" because of this, thinking that it is an idol drama with no merit and completely driven by traffic, it is a bit of a obstacle.
Remember that the ancients had a saying: "Take its essence and remove its dross", this sentence can not only be applied to books, but also to TV dramas.
A TV series, because you found some bugs when it first aired, before you fully understood the ideas it expressed, you concluded that it was a TV series that was not worth watching, then it was a little less inclusive than the ancients!
Back to the topic, is there anything advisable about "The Rest of Your Life", and is its popularity really only dependent on traffic?
My opinion is that it is visible, and its heat is indeed brought up by traffic, but it can continue to be maintained and simply traffic alone.
The reason for this view, of course, is not just based on empty mouths and white teeth, but there is a very strong basis for standing.
Take off the colored glasses of the traffic star, ignore the small bugs of the plot, and watch "The Rest of Your Life" with a peaceful attitude, I found that its biggest attraction and desirable point is to provide an almost textbook-level love model for young people and single dogs.
So some people may not understand, then we will use the specific plot to analyze it, the love process of Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei in the play is revisited, and those who do not understand it will naturally understand.
If you feel it, take the initiative to take two more steps first
Between Lin Zhi School and Gu Wei, it was Gu Wei who first had feelings for Lin Zhi School, and when Gu Wei understood his heart, he took the initiative to care about Lin Zhi School on weekdays, and later used the trouble lin school to find a house for him to have more communication with Lin Zhi.
During the period of searching for a room for Gu Wei, Lin Zhixue observed and reminded his girlfriend Sansan, and also found that he seemed to have feelings for Dr. Gu Wei. In this way, they both know each other's intentions, and only when one of them opens his mouth, he can formally confirm the relationship.
If you have feelings for a person, you should take the initiative to take a few more steps, if the other party does not respond, you should stop immediately; if the other party has a response, you should seize the opportunity not to leave regrets for each other's lives.
Feelings are not forced, nor are they easily missed, Gu Wei in this period, the way of expression and processing of emotions, grasped very well.
If you know you have love for each other, please speak up boldly
After Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue knew each other's intentions, the two sides did not immediately express them, which also caused a crisis in their relationship afterwards.
After Lin Zhixue's brother returned to China, he became a competitor with Gu Wei, and Shi Brother often made some too intimate moves with Lin Zhixiao.
These actions were seen by Gu Wei, and Lin Zhixue inadvertently said something like he was very happy practicing with his brother at the side of Gu Wei.
This made Gu Wei even more misunderstood, he thought that Lin Zhixue was not happy with himself, and being with his brother could make her truly happy.
Gu Wei thought that Lin Zhi School could be happy and happy, and now he was not sure whether he could give Lin Zhi School this happiness, so he began to become entangled, became unsure of how to be good, and began to avoid Lin Zhi School.
Lin Zhixue felt the change in Gu Wei, and Gu Wei's behavior made her wonder whether Gu Wei was interested in herself or not, and her mood was very low.
Fortunately, the two of them said their thoughts about each other because of a small quarrel, and I completely resolved the crisis.
Obviously know that each other has each other in their hearts, but they do not take the initiative to express it, almost missing each other because of misunderstandings, regretting lifelong.
Lin Zhixue and Gu Wei's feelings at this stage were not handled very well, and we must learn from them to avoid making such mistakes in the future.
Knowing that we have me in each other's hearts, don't think about it too much, because the sooner you say it, the sooner you can get happiness and happiness for each other.
Don't be like Gu Wei, unilaterally thinking that you can't make the other party happy and shrinking away, causing each other's hearts to suffer.
Express your intentions, if the other party feels inappropriate and does not want to continue, he/she can refuse, so that it will not have much impact on him/her.
But if you don't even say it, and eventually miss each other because of a misunderstanding, it may be a regret for each other for a lifetime.
During this period, Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue both behaved badly, one of them misunderstood each other's ideas, one was too close to his brother, that is, he did not speak out the thoughts in his heart to the other party, but he was still lucky, and in the end they still opened the words and successfully crossed the crisis.
In love, we must give each other space and respect
After Lin Zhixue and Gu Wei established a relationship, there was a quarrel over the issue of respect, which caused contradictions due to respect, which is very common in real couples.
After listening to Yin Xi and her boyfriend, Lin Zhixue expressed her opinion like Gu Wei, she believes that the woman's love is entangled and controlled by the man, is it not because she loves the other party too much? The man should understand.
After Gu Wei listened to her words, he put forward different opinions, he said that even if people who love each other again, they also need to respect each other's hobbies and give each other a certain amount of personal space, pressing too tightly will inevitably make people disgusted, and it is only a matter of time before they cause contradictions.
Lin Zhixue was upset about Yinxi, the star was already preconceived, she listened to Gu Wei's words, where would she agree, and then she and Gu Wei had a small conflict.
Gu Wei finally asked lin zhixue's girlfriend for help, tricking Lin zhixue into going to see the stars and see the sunrise, so that after some tossing and turning, the contradiction was completely resolved.
There are many girls like Yinxi in life, and they always interfere too much in each other's lives in love, pestering each other without a little private space, which is very undesirable.
To love someone, first of all, we must respect each other, respect ourselves, believe in each other, improve ourselves, and give each other a certain amount of space, so that we can make each other's relationship sweet and missful.
If you stick together every day, you have to grasp the dynamics of the other party at all times, which will only make the other party feel tired and disgusted, and when the other party is overwhelmed by these feelings, it will produce adverse reactions like Yinxi and her boyfriend.
At this stage of Lin Zhixue and Gu Wei, Gu Wei behaved better, and Lin Zhixue's classmates were slightly worse, but she finally agreed with Gu Wei's views and continued to cheer!
Love is not giving up self-love and indulging at will
Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei went out on an outing, which allowed the two to spend time alone in the same room, but even so, they still grasped themselves and did not do anything out of the ordinary.
For this plot, perhaps some male compatriots will say that Gu Wei is not like a man, and he will not hurry to take down Lin Zhixue when he has this opportunity.
And some female compatriots will say that Gu Wei is really a big fool, girls are willing to share a room with him, that is, they are willing to be with "that", he will make girls feel that they are not attractive.
Now in the 21st century, society is open and inclusive, and everyone thinks differently, so those who hold the same ideas above can also be understood and not commented on.
However, shouldn't people with these ideas also respect and understand the ideas of others?
Gu Wei and Lin Zhi school alone in the room did not have "that", it was not that they did not love each other and did not want to "that" with each other, but they were more serious about their feelings and more precious.
To love a person, first of all, self-love, self-love, will make others feel that you are worthy of love; self-love people, will make the other party feel at ease, and worthy of trust.
Having a relationship does not mean that this is necessarily love, maybe some are, but more often than not, it may be just because of curiosity, or one party wants to indulge, in the end, it is more harmful than beneficial.
At this stage of love, Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue, the love outlook and outlook on life shown by both of them are very good, worthy of being praised, and being seen and learned by more people.
The love of being blessed by one's parents will make one more secure
After Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei returned from watching the sunrise, they were bumped into by Lin Dad's mother when they hugged downstairs, which made Lin Dad suspicious.
Next, Lin Zhixue deliberately evaded Gu Wei and sprained his foot, and when Gu Wei went to the hospital to treat his injuries, he was bumped into by Lin Dad and Lin Ma.
Lin Dad then taught Lin Zhixue to be a little more self-loving, and if he was sprained, he could call a nurse to help himself with the potion, why did he have to use his hands and feet on a man.
Gu Wei was afraid that Lin Dad would misunderstand, and went back to continue teaching Lin Zhixue, so he simply took the opportunity to show Lin Pa and Lin Mama about his interaction with Lin Zhixue.
At first, Lin Dad still had some views and uneasiness about Gu Wei, but Gu Wei used sincerity and sincerity to make Lin Dad put aside his prejudices and agreed to his interaction with Lin Zhi school.
After getting the consent and blessing of their parents, Lin Zhixue and Gu Wei's hearts were also completely solid, they finally did not have to secretly communicate, seeing such a plot, I think the audience's heart also felt extremely comfortable!
In love, if you want to make both parties feel at ease and steadfast, it is necessary to obtain the consent and blessing of your parents, on the one hand, this can make both parties happy during love, on the other hand, because the other party is willing to see his parents, it shows that he is serious about this feeling, which will make each other feel more solid and more reliable about this feeling (but here is a premise, that is, you and the other party must be adults).
Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei performed very well at this stage, they let the elders see that their love was serious, and they got their consent and blessings, and the relationship went further.
The best way to keep love going is to grow together
Lin Zhixue's previous sprain was because Gu Wei told her about going abroad, and on the one hand, she was worried that her long-distance relationship with Gu Wei would fade, and on the other hand, she was worried that Gu Wei would become too good to keep up.
Later, through her own hard work, Lin Zhixue also got the opportunity to go abroad, and only then did she completely breathe a sigh of relief and show a bright smile that she had not seen for many days.
Before they went abroad, Lin Dad said something to them: "When they go abroad, work with Xiao Gu, the two people can only go long if they are in step with each other and make progress together."
This sentence can be called the best guide to how to love and marriage how to be long and happy, and those who are fortunate enough to see this passage must take a good taste of this passage.
Love is not the same as giving up on self, two people only make progress together, understand each other, support each other, in order to make love blossom brilliant flowers.
Lin Zhixue and Gu Wei's love affair has been noisy and noisy all the way, stumbling all the way, and it is not easy to get to this point, their story continues...
For their future, we don't have to worry about it now, because they now have the best treasure book of love.
In the future, as long as they can rely on each other in life and share the burden of wind and rain, their love will surely become indestructible and bear delicious fruits.
But some of the "single dogs" in front of the screen, after watching "The Rest of Your Life", have you learned some skills from it?
This may be the more concerned problem of "The Rest of My Life"? It is also it that gives a little care and care to the world!