Recently, a quarrel scene in the popular drama "Heart Residence" has attracted countless netizens to like, some people said:
"I was completely conquered by Haiqing's acting skills."
"HaiQing's performance is particularly real and resonant, just like the people around him."
Indeed, the middle-aged woman Feng Xiaoqin (Hai Qing), who has anger in her eyes, tightly closed teeth, and the corners of her mouth is trembling because of convulsions, makes people look at the hair upright.
The other party to the dispute with her is her husband's sister Gu Qingyu (Tong Yao).
The two women are similar in age, but the situation in the play is diametrically opposite, and some netizens joked:
"I originally wanted to live as Gu Qingyu, but I ended up living as Feng Xiaoqin."
After confronting life on all sides, we have to sigh that life is really a difficult situation.
Some people try their best to live the life of ordinary people, and some people are surrounded by halos but can only glimpse their loneliness.
Obsessed with the house, lacking is the heart.
Nanny Housewife:
To live "selfishly" is to have a home
Feng Xiaoqin, played by Haiqing, is a housewife.
Her day begins with busyness.
Early in the morning, she runs to the market to pick fresh and affordable vegetables.
This side is simply bargaining with small traders and vendors, and there is not forgetting to put a bundle of shallots on the belt.
When she got home, she went into the kitchen again, preparing breakfast while urging a large family to get up and wash and eat.
Looking back, she had taken the time to squeeze the bitter melon juice for her grandmother, who had a toothache, prepared the medicine, and fixed the reading glasses for her father-in-law.
Five generations of the family are in the same house, and her sister who came from her hometown to join her also lives together, Feng Xiaoqin has become a full-time nanny for a large family.
Every day, I live a life of serving the family, young and old, and my feet are not on the ground, but I want to gain a sense of belonging.
However, her selfishness attracted only suspicion.
Seeing that her son was in the first grade, in order to find a good school district house for her children, and in order to have her own real home, Feng Xiaoqin moved her mind and decided to buy a house.
Together, this thought could no longer be extinguished.
The high house price, for her full-time wife, and her less motivated husband, it is impossible to make up enough money.
She had to encourage her husband to borrow money from her sister Zhangkou, who worked in an investment bank.
In order to please this rich and valuable sister, Feng Xiaoqin knitted a scarf for her as a birthday gift, and spent 3 yuan in a small shop on the street to buy a luxury logo sewn on the corner of the scarf.
On Gu Qingyu's birthday, Feng Xiaoqin wrote down the reason for borrowing money on the paper early and let her husband memorize it in advance.
Unexpectedly, during the banquet, the younger brother did not say a few words, and the wise sister saw through Feng Xiaoqin's intentions at a glance, saying that she also wanted to buy a house, and this money was afraid that she could not borrow it.
Spend your time, work in vain.
After the birthday party, in the face of a large number of dishes to be washed in the kitchen, Feng Xiaoqin couldn't help but complain to her sister:
"I serve my father-in-law, and I will serve my father-in-law's old wife."
365 days a year, like a convenience store on the road. In the final analysis, people are a family of concubines, just to prevent me, an outsider. ”
Even if she becomes a family, Feng Xiaoqin is still an unpopular daughter-in-law from abroad.
Feng Xiaoqin did have selfish intentions.
At the beginning, she came to Shanghai without a background and tried everything to find a home for herself.
Although her husband Gu Lei looks ordinary, has a weak personality, and has no enterprising spirit, he has a three-bedroom house in Shanghai, which is an eye-catching chip.
No need to be chased by the landlord, no need to wander around, in Feng Xiaoqin's heart, there is a home when there is a place to live, which also makes her obsessed with the house at the beginning.
A small house of 60 square meters has become feng Xiaoqin's lifelong hope and her unattainable dream.
The obstacle on her way to buy a house is not only borrowing money.
The tearing of marriage and the suspicion of others have made her want to have a home, and her selfishness has become an ambition that everyone is wary of.
Executives:
No matter how big the house is, it can't settle the soul
From the moment he appeared, Gu Qingyu's exquisite fan was unmistakable.
With the first rays of the morning sun, Gu Qingyu began practicing yoga in front of the floor-to-ceiling window.
After eating a low-fat nutritious breakfast, carefully skin care, makeup, driving a private car out to work, and talking about work on the phone on the road.
In the company, colleagues have already prepared flowers and gifts and are waiting to celebrate her birthday.
In the small talk in the bathroom, you can also hear someone talking about her good business ability, and she can earn millions of dollars on the project that others can't take.
Gu Qingyu, who has never lacked money in his career, is the object of envy in everyone's heart.
Although the 36-year-old is still unmarried, but as a fierce workplace woman, in the face of love still has the courage to "break up when it is not appropriate", the day of the breakup, the ex-boyfriend's things can not be left until the next day.
She has never lacked this fast-food love, nor has she lacked people who can be sent by her at any time.
The male girlfriend who has followed her for many years is willing to pack a Japanese food store for her to celebrate her birthday, accompany her to exercise in the morning whenever she has time, relieve her boredom and relax, and from time to time use earthy love words to coax the goddess in his heart.
Gu Qingyu's pride is like a gorgeous net, which looks bright from a distance, but the life under the net is just as real, rough, and even with a hint of vulnerability.
After the death of his mother, as the eldest sister, Gu Qingyu was the backbone of a family.
As long as there was something going on at home, Dad was the first to call her for advice.
Buying expensive health care products and medicines for the elders, arranging jobs for the younger brother who is not self-motivated, and even subsidizing the life of the younger brother's family every three to five minutes, Gu Qingyu, who has money and ability, has completely subdued the heart of a large family.
Although it is a dragon and phoenix fetus, Gu Qingyu was born in the front and his brother was born in the back, but the family will only prepare a birthday feast for her sister in a lively way, buy large crabs and birthday cakes, and celebrate her birthday.
Even if the younger brother is left out, no one ever feels inappropriate.
The family's gesture of currying favor with Gu Qingyu made Feng Xiaoqin feel angry and aggrieved.
The scarf she painstakingly knitted was given to the aunt at home by Gu Qingyu; the large school bag she bought for her children in the market was no better than the brand-name bag that Gu Qingyu sent to her children.
Not to mention the luxury goods she bought every time she went home, Ming Dangling stung Feng Xiaoqin's heart.
The life of a rich man and the inadvertent sense of superiority made Feng Xiaoqin's heart and self-esteem spill out on the ground.
Different from the "old and broken" that Feng Xiaoqin bought, Gu Qingyu wants to buy more than 20 million houses, located in a prime location, taking in the bustling scenery of the city and also lining her elite taste.
The property manager saddled up to serve her and specially selected the best floors and apartment types for her.
When he learned that she was not yet married, he also set up a "fake marriage" business for her.
The domination and control of life by a successful person is unmistakable.
But compared to the material abundance, Gu Qingyu's emotions always have a hole.
She asked every boyfriend to wear a "white shirt", and she has been thinking about the "white moonlight" in her heart in this way.
She can't forget her first love, and the road to love is also very smooth, and no one can really enter her heart.
What makes people obsessed is not the house, but a stable life
The family is not optimistic about Feng Xiaoqin, and Gu Qingyu has always been wary of this woman who writes "want to change her destiny" on her face.
Gu Qingyu had concerns about his sister-in-law in his heart, but the two sides did not tear their faces, and on the surface they were harmonious.
It wasn't until they bought a house that their relationship began to take a sharp turn.
After the request to buy a house was rejected, Feng Xiaoqin could not help but vent her resentment:
"There are two old people in the family, one child has to serve, and you have to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to hire a nanny in eight years, but in your eyes I am not even as good as a nanny."
This heartfelt word made her father-in-law decide to lend her pension money to buy a house, which also suspended the war.
But not long after, Gu Qingyu had a good idea at the family meeting, persuading her brother to add his name to the real estate deed, and not to let Feng Xiaoqin swallow the property alone, worried that she would bring her brother from her hometown to support her.
Gu Qingyu's analysis of the head was Dao, which completely angered Feng Xiaoqin outside the door, and she did not say a word, pulling the box and leaving home.
The husband was busy chasing, but he did not expect to fall down the stairs, hit the glass, and was sent to the hospital without rescuing him.
The war in the house made Feng Xiaoqin lose her husband and Gu Qingyu lose her brother, and the contradictions between the two women were completely stimulated.
Feng Xiaoqin became the enemy of the whole family, but in her heart, the one who really killed her husband was her sister Gu Qingyu.
Feng Xiaoqin roared hysterically:
"You have been taller than you since you were in the womb, he is weaker than you in everything, you have to suppress him in everything, and take away his blessings!" You are his killer! ”
Gu Qingyu's chest was like being hit hard by a stone, and it collapsed violently.
She thought that she was sober-minded and could completely crush Feng Xiaoqin's obsession with the house.
As everyone knows, she is the person who has the greatest obsession with the house, and also the person who has the most "obsession" with Feng Xiaoqin.
In her heart, Feng Xiaoqin, who was deliberately planning to marry her brother, was not worthy to own a house.
A woman who uses the house as a marriage chip and uses the relationship to buy a house, no matter how much she pays for it, cannot change the calculation and shrewdness in her nature.
Unfortunately, the sister's strength brought not a sense of security to the younger brother, but endless disputes and injuries.
We are sad about Feng Xiaoqin's sacrifice, and we also understand Gu Qingyu's concerns, but the contradiction between the two women is, in the final analysis, a contradiction between two identities and mentalities.
As a nanny wife, Feng Xiaoqin envies the high income of the elite in the workplace, and often worries about money in life, and her identity and family status do not allow her to make out-of-line moves.
As an elite woman, Gu Qingyu does not lack money or career, but her rational and rigorous thinking has allowed her to build a line of defense for her heart.
What makes my sister-in-law tear up is not a house, but two extreme states of life and thinking.
They can't understand each other, and they can't bridge the gap.
The contrast of life creates a difference in cognition and is destined to lay the root of contradiction.
Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Qingyu's hearts both have a gap, one wants to use the house to make up for the material shortcomings, and the other wants to use the house to fill the expectation of love.
Everything attached to the house is just to have a sense of security in this real world.
The British writer Woolf said: "Women's independence begins with having a room of their own. ”
The sense of stability and belonging that the house brings dilutes the anxiety and stress of life, and also stimulates a sense of happiness.
But a life full of security should not be attached to the house alone.
What makes people more full and more ironed comes from the tenacity of the heart.
The house cannot eliminate all its troubles, nor can it satisfy the gradually expanding desires.
The troubles that cannot be dealt with and the problems that cannot be solved are still real obstacles in the life of the pestle.
Strive to find a "spiritual dwelling place" for yourself, so that you can regain courage and hope when you are crushed by life again and again, get up, and go down.
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