Zhang Xiaoxian said: Love is also an invention and needs to be continuously improved. However, this invention is different from other inventions, it has no patent rights and can be robbed at any time.
Gu Wei was worried that Lin Zhi's school would be snatched away by Shao Jiang.
Love is not throwing weights on the scale
Love is not throwing weights on the scale, calculating who pays more, but you love me, and the biggest gain is actually a spiritual fit.
In the world of Noda, there is a person who just fits so well with your soul, it is too rare.
In the TV series "Please Give More Advice for the Rest of Your Life", Gu Wei (played by Xiao Zhan) and Lin Zhixiao (played by Yang Zi) are people from two different worlds.
One is a mature, independent, and excellent surgeon in her thirties, and the other is a girl who is really messy in her third year, and the age difference between the two is 10 years.
Why would Gu Wei like Lin Zhixue and not like his equally excellent colleague Gao Hun?
The reason is simple, he doesn't want to find a peer, he doesn't want to be at work after work. His life was already boring.
Just imagine, if Gu Wei and Gao Huan are together, there is a high probability that they will discuss the content of work after work, and the two stereotypical people will naturally not be happy together, although their family situation, age, experience, occupation, and appearance are very matched.
On the other hand, Lin Zhi School is different. Lin Zhixue has the courage that Gu Wei can not hope to achieve, and there is also a positive and optimistic attitude.
In the case of his father's sudden serious illness and academic setbacks, Lin Zhixue did not sigh every day, but still maintained a daily optimism.
She is like a little sun that can make the people around her happy. That's the light in her.
Gu Wei successfully confessed and made Lin Zhixue a girlfriend. Many people will say that Gu Wei is backwards compatible, and Lin Zhixue is not worthy of him.
This is not the case. First of all, Lin Zhixue is a self-motivated girl who practices very hard and has a unique view and pursuit of her music career. Lin Zhixue has also participated in the orchestra's performances many times. In terms of cello, she is shining.
Second, Lin Zhi's filial piety to his parents, friendliness to friends, and the pursuit of dreams are all points that attract Gu Wei.
In terms of friendship, Lin Zhixue is too easy to be led by the nose by his girlfriend. Girlfriend Sansan is very moralistic, but friends are only suggesters, not decision makers.
To say that the only drawback of Lin Zhi School is that it is too easy to be affected. In her career, the first time she performed, because her parents were not there, she played a smash. Because she wanted to be approved by her parents too much.
Parents who love their children have far-reaching plans
Gu Wei's parents are both doctors, and they are not only Kochi elements, but also very reasonable.
Gao Huan was their favorite daughter-in-law. No matter in terms of appearance, education and work, she is enough to match her son Gu Wei.
Unexpectedly, his son Gu Wei did not like Gao Huan. After calling Gao Huan, Gu Mu was also dead hearted. She no longer matched her son with Gao Huan. Instead, they began to make moves.
On the pretext of seeing a doctor, she asked her son Gu Wei to go on a blind date. In this way, Gu Mu is also an activist.
Being able to raise such an excellent son as Gu Wei, the parents will certainly not be bad.
Knowing that their son Gu Wei was in love with a college student, his parents were opposed in their hearts, worried that they would have contradictions after marriage to consume love. However, they did not firmly oppose it when they heard that the gap was too large, but expressed their concerns.
Gu Wei's parents' love for their son is moderate.
Parents who love their children have far-reaching plans. This sentence means that parents love their children and must think about them in the long run.
Marriage is meant to fall into reality, not just love.
Parents made an analysis from the gap between age and identity. They don't have a patriarchal push, but they ask questions.
Parents' worries mainly have three points, first, Gu Wei is a mature doctor who is busy with work, he is serious and responsible for his work, and most of his time is divided into work. Parents are well aware of the nature of their son's work and have very little time to spend with their girlfriends.
Under such circumstances, can Lin Zhixue accept the nature of his work? Can it be inclusive?
Second, Lin Zhixue is still just an indeterminate college student, and there are too many factors of instability in her future. Her work is not carried out, and there will be many uncertain choices in life, or she will go to work in other provinces, which is her freedom.
Third, parents worry that their son and Lin Zhixue are only grateful feelings between doctors and patients' families, and that such feelings are not stable enough.
Parents' considerations are comprehensive, and they have foreseen their married life. They want their son to think clearly before marriage.
Instead of hitting the Mandarin duck with a stick, they asked the question openly.
The love of parents for Gu Wei is very implicit.
So far, Gu Wei has not taken Lin Zhixue home to see his parents. He has his own considerations.
Quality love
The reason why I didn't take Lin Zhixue home to see my parents was not because I didn't love them enough.
Gu Wei also needs time to confirm his love to his parents, and he also needs time to get along with Lin Zhixiao.
What his parents were worried about, he had already considered. He chose to convince his parents seriously and patiently, rather than picking and choosing with them.
Overcome problems if you have problems, rather than break up if you have problems. This is Gu Wei's view of love.
There are contradictions in the family, all of which are effective communication, no shouting, no rebellion. These are all the ways Gu Wei, an adult, deal with it.
Whether the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law can get along well has a lot to do with the son. Marrying a man like Gu Wei, there is no need to worry about the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Marriage is a prerequisite
Gu Wei did not take his girlfriend home to see his parents, not because he did not love, but because he really wanted to get married as the premise of the relationship. He wanted to marry Lin Zhixue.
This can be seen from the confession of the paper.
Gu Wei is a very secure man, who is methodical, planned, meticulous and thoughtful.
This big straight man actually wrote his girlfriend's name into the thesis's acknowledgment column.
The thesis-style confession raises the level to another level, not only single-minded and affectionate but also grand and grand.
Academic papers have strict rules for "signed authors" and those who appear in their acknowledgments. Gu Wei also needs to discuss with other collaborators in his research team in advance, and obtain their consent before he can write his girlfriend's name into the thank-you speech.
The most crucial thing is that this paper was jointly discussed by Gu Wei and Gao Huan, and the name was signed by Gu Wei and Gao Huan. Here the heartache of Dr. Gao Hun for a minute.
In any case, Gu Wei's unique way of showing love was too careful, and this move was enough to prove how much he loved Lin Zhijie.
Unfortunately, the Lin Zhi School of the fourth grade of English obviously did not understand Dr. Gu's good intentions and romance. People who understand know how happy Lin Zhi school is.
If sending a circle of friends to post pictures is the happiness of the show, then Gu Wei's circle of friends is the world of medicine.
After the successful publication of this paper, it is necessary to ensure that the person is the only one, otherwise it will be particularly embarrassing to change people later.
This detail shows that Gu Wei did not marry in the school of Lin for the rest of his life. He was on his way to get married. Compared with late-night porridge, these sweet little details, thesis-style confession is too advanced.
This is the top romance of medical students. This is the rhythm of the world.
Gu Wei's love for Lin Zhi School was too sweet, and he did not let Lin Zhi School and Shi Brother eat alone, and directly took the bag home. This practice is very much in mind to take wei's style.
In the two details of Patrick and kissing at the door, Yang Zi and Xiao Zhan's performance has no performance trace, which can be called the textbook version of the life kiss scene.
Gu Wei and Lin Zhi's school also began to slowly run in.
For the sake of Lin Zhi's school, Gu Wei ate the coriander that he did not like to eat, and also wore the couple's clothes that he despised.
Lin Zhixue waited silently for her boyfriend for 3 hours in the movie theater, without any complaints.
They are all embracing and understanding each other and becoming better people.
Lin Zhi School is also slowly becoming mature, of course, it still takes a certain amount of time.
She has always been excellent.
This is a love that is evenly matched and travels in both directions.
Chernyshevsky said: The meaning of love is to help the other party improve, but also to improve themselves.