There are no parents in the world who do not want their children to be smart, and they all do their best to provide the best learning environment and learning opportunities for their children. May children work hard to achieve a future beyond class. What can give parents a headache is that some children learn with much more flexible brains, turn fast, and seem to be easy and effortless to learn.
But some children are not so lucky. Even though parents give their children too many opportunities, they still regard learning as a burden, and learning makes them feel miserable. So, is a child's ability to learn, that is, smart or not, really related to heredity?
Isn't it also effective through acquired cultivation?
As early as 2018, the international team of the University of Edinburgh in the United Kingdom published a report. They found in 538 genetic experimenters associated with intelligence that a person can inherit many aspects from their parents, and intelligence level is one of them, but the effects in this regard are not absolute. More influences are closely related to the impact of children's acquired days and their living environment.
Parents who read the report will disagree: "If the child's intelligence has little to do with its parents, then why are the children born by smart parents also smart?" ”
It does have an impact, but not absolutely. In fact, for children's intellectual development, the living environment is actually the biggest influencing factor of whether children are smart. The mengmu three migrations emphasized by Chinese are the best interpretation of this problem. This is also the main reason why there are many highly intelligent parents around us, and the children they have raised are not talented.
And some parents are small people, even small traders, but their children are very well-trained.
So parents no longer have to worry about whether my brain is enough? This statement mainly depends on what kind of educational environment and educational concepts our children can give to their children when they are young, including educational concepts, including children, minutes play a very important role.
First, a good family atmosphere
If your child is very fortunate to be able to live in a family with a good atmosphere, then our children are first of all emotionally stable and psychologically healthy. If parents at home can give their children a good example, then our children will certainly learn some good behavior habits and learning habits from their parents.
But if as parents of children, we know to play mahjong, eat, drink and socialize with others all day, then it is estimated that our children will only learn these things.
Second, prenatal education
When it comes to parents to be role models for their children, we must also emphasize the importance of prenatal education. When we think of him, we also think of music for children and picture books for children. But in fact, the real prenatal education is that the pregnant mother has a good mood. And give elegance or good living habits, these are the best prenatal education for children.
We have seen the mother again, when she was pregnant, she would often listen to Mozart, listen to some elegant music, go to the painting gallery to see the exhibition, but when the child was born, she became grumpy, often let the child live in chaos. Then this kind of prenatal education is unrelated to real life, and of course it is not successful. In addition, better eating habits and rich and balanced nutrition are also part of prenatal education.
Tell your child that you love him
This is also very important, but it is ignored by many parents, especially our countrymen who are particularly shy and ashamed to express that I love you. But in fact, our child really needs spiritual and spiritual encouragement, and he needs someone behind him to be his strongest supporter.
It is true that we parents can not be smart, but if we love our children as always, I believe that this love is the greatest confidence of our children, and it will also give our children the motivation to move forward.
On the road to parenting, we are all novices, how to take better care of children, you can pay attention to me, and discuss with me those things on the road to parenting.