Wen 丨 love words at 10:30
I'm here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
With the development of the Internet, more and more people are beginning to understand what kind of love they want.
Some people may wonder, what does this have to do with the development of the network?
You know, in that era of underdeveloped networks, most of the communication between people was face-to-face.
Face-to-face communication, whether the other party is sincere or false, you can truly feel the bits and pieces of this person.
On the contrary, in the era of developed networks, communication between people has become more convenient, but the phenomenon of self-deception has also occurred frequently.
Especially in today's society, people's attitude towards feelings has become perfunctory, and they always feel that the next relationship will be better than the previous one.
As everyone knows, in this life, there are not many people who can truly meet people who love you, and once they miss it, it is difficult to meet such people again.
Therefore, in order to avoid such a situation, you should know that the opposite sex who frequently chats with you is sincere or playful, and there are numbers in mind to see these 3 points:
Because he knows that you are his future. Now that you are already his future, it is necessary for him to consider you in his future plans.
By talking to you about the future and plans, I can deeply understand what kind of person you are, and at the same time, I can also explain what kind of attitude he has towards you.
We often say that loving someone says something far from being done, and what is more important.
If a man can plan you for his future, it means that he has already thought about being with you before you start the relationship. Such a determination and love deeply shows his love for you.
On the other hand, those who want to play with you are full of foul language in the process of chatting with you. To him, the chat between you is only a temporary pleasure, and it does not matter what the future development is.
A sincere person, when you need him the most, he can always be with you
Although each of us, every day, has a lot of work waiting for us to do, we don't have much free time.
However, a person who likes you, he will take his free time and take it out to chat with you to relieve boredom.
In the process of your chat and relaxation, you will understand each other's working state and life state during this period of time.
Indeed, the guy who really likes you, he pays a lot of attention to your life and work status.
If during this time, your work state is sluggish and your life state is a mess, then he will become a close friend and enlighten you by your side to solve problems.
Know that before a relationship is not determined, the person who really likes you expresses his love in a way that restrains himself; the person who just plays is more of a flirtatious person.
Therefore, in the relationship, in the face of such a different way of expressing love, you should stay sober and not be deceived by the other party's three words.
Especially the kind that comes to you when you are lonely, and ignores you when you are not lonely. Such a person is close to you, and the purpose of chatting with you is too strong, and the love for you is not simple enough.
Sincere people will share the little things in life
Love is such a thing, no matter how crazy it is, it needs to be integrated into life. I often say that love is just an abstract concept and no one can accurately describe love.
For example, whether a person loves you or not, you can only judge by how you get along with him. In the process of your relationship, he is very gentle, tolerant of you, giving love, this is love.
So, the sincere person, in the process of chatting with you in the ordinary, talks about the small things in his life the most.
Those trivial things, you may think he is boring, even very boring. But in fact, such a kind of sharing is more to show the true thoughts in your heart.
Correspondingly, those who are just playing, he chats with you frequently, and he is very purposeful. If you can't accurately grasp the rhythm of his chat during the process of your chat, then he will find some excuse to interrupt the chat.
In fact, whether it is sincere or playful, people who are in the feelings can feel it with their hearts. A love affair that is crazy is not as good as a substantive thing.
It's just that most of the time, people like to listen to the crazy love words, rather than watching each other do solid things, and eventually fall into such a love trap.
Love Words:
The people who chat with you frequently, whether they are sincere or playful, I believe that through the above three points of view, you already have a scale in your heart.
As I said above, there are too many people who like to listen to love instead of watching the other person do something substantial.
So, in order to avoid falling into the emotional trap, sometimes don't listen to what the other person has done, but go to see what he has done.
From childhood to adulthood, parents are teaching us to see is to be true, ears to hear is virtual, only through their own eyes to see the heart to feel, you can understand, this is really true or play.
Of course, in the face of those who are just playing, you don't have to pay too much attention to them, treat them as clowns, and generally treat them.
Time is precious, life is limited, don't waste too much of your energy on people who don't have to.
Is it not good to choose someone who truly loves himself and to face the future of life with himself?