Author: Pig Xiaoqian
01
Colleagues said that Boss Liu has taken a fancy to you and wants to invite you to dinner.
Fang Yuqing smiled back at her, not a road person, don't waste time.
That's the truth.
She met him at the dinner table. He is bald- and wears a T-shirt with denim shorts and sandals, and eats with Erlang's legs crossed. At first glance, it is mixed society.
His full name is Liu Shaohai, but everyone likes to call him Lao Liu, or Boss Liu.
Fang Yuqing is a math teacher, and she likes polite men.
Of course, after experiencing Zhong Liang, she has been disappointed in this kind of man. But even if you are disappointed, you don't feel that you will like Liu Shaohai.
But Fang Yuqing did not expect that Liu Shaohai was very persistent.
Over and over again, he asked colleagues to send her invitations to dinner.
Of course, it is a happy thing to be pursued, but Fang Yuqing's heart is very resistant.
Resisting, not only because of the lack of feeling for Liu Shaohai, but also because zhong Liang gave a little bit of damage.
02
Zhong Liang is Fang Yuqing's first love.
It was 2001, Fang Yuqing was 22 years old, graduated from college, and was fortunate to enjoy the last batch of allocation indicators. She returned to Jiaozuo and became a math teacher.
The life model of small town girls is mostly after a stable job, busy getting married and having children.
Fang Yuqing is a blind date to Zhong Liang.
Before this, Fang Yuqing had never been in love.
Her parents were strict with her, so even if she was confessed when she went to school, she met a boy she liked, but she always spent her mind on studying.
For Zhong Liang, Fang Yuqing was almost in love at first sight.
He was tall, handsome, Sven, and attentive. Work in a public institution. Parents on both sides were satisfied.
Of course, the most important thing is that Fang Yuqing is very satisfied.
Seeing him, her heart beats faster, this is love.
But unfortunately, Zhong Liang was a little lukewarm to her. Once, I didn't take the initiative to contact Fang Yuqing for a week. Fang Yuqing was worried in his heart, but he couldn't bear to give up.
A week later, Zhong Liang seemed to be back to normal.
So at the urging of both parents, they got married. At that time, they had only known each other for 11 months.
03
Fang Yuqing's eyes looked at Zhong Liang's eyes were hot and appreciative.
She hoped he would too.
But in reality, he looked at her coldly and pickily.
At the urging of her mother-in-law, Fang Yuqing quickly gave birth to a son. Every day when Zhong Liang came back from work, he would hug his son and make him laugh, but he never took the initiative to hug Fang Yuqing.
She complained to him, and he would laugh at her and say, "What a favor to fight with the child."
The disappointment in Fang Yuqing's heart was piled up little by little.
Zhong Liang would blame Fang Yuqing for running out of toilets, whether the lid was opened or closed, and how much dish soap should be used.
Once, just because she accidentally sprinkled mineral water on him, he rebuked her in front of so many people, especially impatiently. Fang Yuqing was groundless in his scolding.
She is anxious and Zhong Liang has a slow temper. Quarrels are commonplace. After the quarrel, the cold war, no matter whose fault it is, the last person to take the initiative to apologize is Fang Yuqing.
Later, she didn't bother to apologize, so she continued the cold war. Later, they didn't argue anymore, and they lived so coldly and plainly.
Fang Yuqing thought that this life was like this, but her mother-in-law's words made her completely desperate.
On that day, the toilet at home was blocked, and the mother-in-law pointed out that Sang scolded Huaifei and said that It was Fang Yuqing who made it.
Fang Yuqing fought with her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law was angry and said without saying a word, what are you talking about, if it weren't for me, my son wouldn't want you. He didn't look at you at all, and if I hadn't forced him, you two wouldn't have been able to do it.
Fang Yuqing directly collapsed.
These words, like a thorn, directly poked at the point.
She has always been reluctant to admit that Zhong Liang does not love her, but in fact he just does not love her, so he is always lukewarm and picky about her. So all along, it was she who shaved her head and picked a hot head.
04
Fang Yuqing went to ask Zhong Liang.
Zhong Liang told the truth. The mother-in-law is very strong, and Zhong Liang has always been afraid of her. Before going on a blind date with Fang Yuqing, Zhong Liang had an ex-girlfriend with good feelings.
But the mother-in-law did not like people and forced them to break up.
The week when Zhong Liang disappeared, it was also because he couldn't let go of his ex-girlfriend.
But in the end, he still failed to resist successfully, and Zhong Liang compromised with his mother-in-law and accepted the matter of marrying Fang Yuqing.
He didn't love her. Because I don't love, I am lukewarm and sneer at her.
The fact was a bit cruel, Fang Yuqing spent a long time and still couldn't let go. She had always thought that only two people who loved each other would get married, and since Zhong Liang didn't love, why should she marry her.
No one could give her the answer. Fang Yuqing even became inferior and felt that she was not worthy of being loved.
And the most cruel thing is that one day, Zhong Liang filed for divorce. The reason for the divorce was that he still couldn't forget his ex-girlfriend.
Such infatuation sounds good, but Fang Yuqing is the most direct victim. In Fang Yuqing's family concept, he never thought that he would divorce in this life.
The child is still too young to live without a father.
So she dragged on and refused to leave, dragging on for two years.
Zhong Liang was still hiding at first, and then simply moved out to live with his ex-girlfriend. Later, he brazenly took his son to dinner with the woman and went shopping.
Zhong Liang had been obedient to his mother-in-law for so many years, and he finally used the most extreme way to resist.
Fang Yuqing had insomnia all night long.
She had thought about going over to his unit and making him lose his reputation. But when he knelt down and begged her to set him free, she died.
In 2010, Fang Yuqing took her 6-year-old son and divorced.
05
After the divorce, some people successively introduced fang Yuqing to the object.
She also picked up her broken heart and allowed herself to believe in love again.
Unfortunately, the man who let down his guard and accepted it was not only twilight, but also a deeply hidden liar, who cheated her of ten thousand pieces.
This made Fang Yuqing very upset, feeling that he had failed in life.
But such a heartache, no one can tell, can only swallow the bitter water into the stomach, and then a lot of insomnia.
She was even ready to be alone for the rest of her life.
Someone introduced Fang Yuqing to the object, she always repeatedly refused, so she was single for three or four years, until she met Liu Shaohai.
Bald Liu Shaohai, many people actually do not know his name, some people call him Boss Liu, some people call him Old Liu.
Old Liu is 39 years old, has a 10-year-old son, runs a property company, and has been divorced for many years.
As for the reason for the divorce, there is no cheating, no tearing, just a simple personality disharmony, good to get together and disperse.
This year, Fang Yuqing was 33 years old and her son was 8 years old.
Colleagues said, the old Liu people are really good, you give a face to go to an appointment.
After talking too many times, Fang Yuqing was embarrassed to refuse again. She thought about simply meeting once and making it clear what she should say.
So there was their first solo meeting.
06
Fang Yuqing did not expect that Lao Liu, who looked a bit like the big brother of society, would be so shy when he met in private.
He scratched his bald head and said, "You're finally willing to see me."
He took her to dinner in the mountains. Just because of that previous dinner, he remembered what she liked to eat.
He ordered a wild fish.
Fang Yuqing symbolically took a bite, but he didn't expect it to be particularly appetizing, so the chopsticks couldn't stop.
She thought in her heart, anyway, she didn't plan to have any intersection with this person again, so she would eat openly regardless of the image.
Then she ate a plate of fish alone.
She thought that in this way, she would scare away Lao Liu. But Old Liu looked at her dotingly, and the tenderness in his eyes frightened her a little.
After that meal, Lao Liu became Fang Yuqing's full-time driver.
He showed up at the door ten minutes early every day and prepared a hot breakfast for her.
Appeared at the school gate on time at noon to accompany her to lunch. Pick her up on time in the afternoon and take her home.
One day it was raining heavily, and she thought he wasn't coming. But as soon as the door was opened, the bald old Liu was playing with an umbrella to her.
At that moment, Fang Yuqing's heart was melted and healed.
People who are obviously almost 40 years old, but their feelings are as strong as teenagers.
Old Liu called Fang Yuqing every night, sometimes chatting and chatting, and Fang Yuqing fell asleep.
He cured her of insomnia.
And every time Fang Yuqing goes on a business trip to a foreign country, Lao Liu will drive from Jiaozuo to Zhengzhou Station or airport to pick him up.
When she was upset, he would patiently coax her and reason with her when she was happy.
In him, she felt the thousands of tender feelings that were cherished.
07
Fang Yuqing didn't know where Lao Liu learned that she had been cheated of ten thousand yuan by the scumbag.
She didn't know what method he used, anyway, he asked for the money back, and the scumbag never dared to look for Fang Yuqing again.
He said, if the man still dares to harass you, I will break his leg.
Then he added, rest assured, I will not do anything illegal. I mean to say that I will protect you in the future.
At that moment, the bald man in front of him seemed to be set with a golden edge, and Fang Yuqing's heart was moved.
Although he and she do not look like the same person, because of love, it seems to cross thousands of mountains and rivers in the heart.
She accepted him from the bottom of her heart.
Maybe it was really because of love, it didn't take long, Fang Yuqing, her 8-year-old son, accepted that she had a new father.
And Old Liu's 10-year-old son accepted that he had a new mother.
It was 2013, and two mutilated homes were recombined into a new home.
In this family, there is a father, a mother, and an older son and a younger son.
When proposing, Old Liu held back for half a day and could not say anything.
Finally, I just said, from now on, I will not leave you homeless. Where you are, I am.
Fang Yuqing didn't hold back and cried out at once.
She felt that was the best love story.
08
What kind of language are you going to use to describe the new life of this new family?
From 2013 to 2020. Let's talk about a few shots.
The younger son is naughty, does not like to learn, and likes to talk back. When Fang Yuqing was in a hurry, he hated not being able to shake him away.
Old Liu severely criticized Fang Yuqing on this matter. He said that the child is wrong, it is okay to beat and scold, but it is not possible to drive the child away, which will hurt the child's heart.
After chatting with her, Lao Liu went to talk to his younger son again.
I don't remember when my younger son's academic performance improved a lot. He was still naughty, but he no longer talked back to Fang Yuqing.
In the third year of junior high school, Lao Liu sent his young son out at 6:30 every morning and returned at 8:30 p.m. All year round, without interruption.
The younger son's former classmates saw Lao Liu and asked who Lao Liu was, and the younger son said that it was my father.
His classmate said, I've seen your dad, he's not like that.
The younger son dragged Lao Liu's clothes and said very seriously, then please remember, this is my father.
When Old Liu came back and talked to Fang Yuqing, he was about to cry.
09
Love is mutual.
Old Liu regarded his younger son as his own, and Fang Yuqing did the same to his eldest son.
The eldest son likes to eat rice, and Fang Yuqing changes his tricks every day to make delicious dishes for him.
Once, when his classmates came to dinner at home, he proudly pointed to the dishes on the table and said, "My mother is great, right?" Anything will be cooked.
In the second year of the eldest son's junior high school, early love affected his studies, and his grades became worse and worse. Old Liu said two words, and did not expect the eldest son to run away from home.
Fortunately, he was found from his classmates, and Old Liu was so angry that he wanted to beat him.
Fang Yuqing knew that there was no shame in early love, but if you want girls to like you all the time, you must become more excellent.
The eldest son shed tears after listening to it, and obediently returned home with Fang Yuqing.
When I first married Lao Liu, the eldest son was one meter and five meters, Fang Yuqing put his arm around his shoulder, he asked her, Mother, when can I put my arm around your shoulder?
As a result, within a few years, the eldest son was already one meter eighty-four, and he easily put his arm around her shoulder.
When she went out, there were 3 men guarding her.
10
Two children together, of course, there are times of conflict.
The first time there was a fight, the younger son ran to complain to Fang Yuqing, saying that his brother had beaten him.
Fang Yuqing called the two together, and the older brother said that the younger brother also beat them.
Fang Yuqing said, since you have both fought, what is the complaint?
The younger brother said that the older brother would do it first.
Fang Yuqing said that the brother apologized first, and then the younger brother apologized.
The two thought about it, felt right, and apologized to each other.
Fang Yuqing said that in the future, you two will solve the matter by yourself, who has a mistake, who apologizes. If they are all wrong, apologize together. You don't have to come to me, you don't have to look for your dad.
Since then, the two have never fought again, but have joined forces against Fang Yuqing.
Once, 3 men accompanied Fang Yuqing shopping.
Fang Yuqing tried on a pair of shoes and asked them if they looked good. The two children were busy playing games, glanced at them, and said they looked good.
Fang Yuqing was beautiful in his heart, only to hear the eldest son say, why don't you buy shoes again.
Fang Yuqing replied, why, my husband doesn't say me, you manage so much.
The younger son took over and said, your husband doesn't want to take care of you.
Old Liu came back after buying a drink, heard it, and came a sentence, who said I didn't want to take care of my wife anymore!
The waiter next to him heard it and said, I really envy your family.
Yes, when a family of four goes out, others will not think that this is a remarried and reorganized family.
11
This marriage, in a blink of an eye, is 7 years.
In fact, seriously speaking, Fang Yuqing and Lao Liu have so many differences.
Different hobbies, different levels of education, and the friends they usually contact are different.
But what is remarkable is that he and she both respect and accept everything about each other.
Fang Yuqing is still as acute as ever, and she will still lose her temper, but Lao Liu can always calm her down quickly.
Many friends have said that in recent years, Fang Yuqing has changed as a person. Not covered in thorns like before, she became gentle, open-minded, and happy.
All this thanks to Lao Liu.
When Fang Yuqing and her mother died, from cremation to burial, it was all carried out by Old Liu.
When the mother-in-law left, Fang Yuqing had been waiting around, and it was also the clothes she wore for her mother-in-law.
He was good to her, good to her son, and she returned the favor with her heart to give him as much as his son.
There is no calculation, only warmth.
In fact, at the beginning, many people were not optimistic about this restructured family.
How many reorganized families, each pregnant with a ghost fetus, single-mindedly dedicated to their own children.
But Fang Yuqing wanted to proudly tell everyone the story of her and Lao Liu, and reorganizing the family could also bubble up happily.
Just like her name, no matter how much wind and rain there have been in the past, please believe that it will rain and shine.
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