After the opening of the second child, Ms. Wang's in-laws and husband advised her to have a second child, on the grounds that there were too few children in the family, and it was lively to have another one. But when the child is born as a daughter, they are very disappointed, and even have the idea of having three children, saying that if they do not have a son, they will be afraid that they will regret it when they are old.
After the opening of the second child, many families began to have a second child, and even dabao went to junior high school and high school. And in these families, there are actually many parts to have a boy. These people generally believe that although the daughter is also very good, but others have a son themselves, the future of the old can not have children are likely to regret, so in reality, in order to have a son to fight for the second child or even fight for the third child is still very popular, the main reason is that there are these points, both realistic and ridiculous.
No son would be laughed at
In some relatively backward areas, this kind of thinking does still exist. A couple can only straighten their waists if they have a son, and if they don't have a son, they will be looked down upon by others, and the most important thing is that they will feel unable to lift their heads. No son will be laughed at, this reason is really both realistic and ridiculous, reality is because it does exist, ridiculous because there is no son how to lose people?
The daughter must be married, and having a son is considered to be a queen
Although there are many people who hurt their daughters and spoil their daughters today, and there are many people who keep traditions, these people still think that "the daughter who marries out spills water", the daughter is someone else's family when she gets married, only the son is the person of his own family, and the child of the daughter is also with the father's surname, and with the son himself, he can be regarded as the real queen, and the grandson is also his heir. It is said that men and women are equal, but this situation is also real.
The daughter has no brothers and will be bullied if she marries in the future
Some people want to have a son, saying that it is for the daughter, because they think that women are originally the weak party, if the daughter marries in the future and she is old, the son-in-law's in-laws may bully the daughter when she sees that the daughter's family is no one, if the mother's family has a brother at this time, she can also give the daughter angry and protect the daughter from being bullied. Some people say that it is difficult to understand this, because whether the daughter will be bullied is mainly to see if she herself expects others to be unreliable, and some people think it is ridiculous, if the parents give more love to the daughter, the daughter is more confident, naturally will not be bullied, and does not need the protection of the younger brother.
In fact, for parents, whether they have a second child or not is their own business, and whether they want a son or a daughter is not a big deal. But if you have a son and a daughter in your family, it is best to give equal love to your son and daughter, so that it is more beneficial to your daughter and the growth of your son, and it is also conducive to the establishment of intimate relationships between their brothers and sisters. Parental eccentricity is the root cause of family conflicts, which should be borne in mind.