Some parents often ask me, "How can I make my child fall in love with reading?" ”
We might as well ask, what does our children like?
Maybe some parents will say, "My kids don't have anything they like!" ”
This can only show that you have not calmed down to accompany him well.
Some children like cars, and when they see fire trucks, postal trucks, and large trucks, their eyes light up.
And some children like building blocks, and building blocks can be built all day.
Other children like to graffiti, scribble on the wall, and enjoy it.
Every child has their own interests and hobbies, and there is no good or bad distinction.
We can't control our children's interests, but we can channel their interests.
If parents are attentive and careful enough in their daily company, they will definitely be able to find their children's interests.
Capture your child's interest points, and the next step is much easier.
It should be emphasized that if you want to cultivate the habit of reading in your child, it is easiest to start from the point of interest.
The most important thing about reading is interest, first of all, you must be interested, you will "read", otherwise you will never look at it more.
For example, when we were in school, the books we memorized to cope with the exams were basically not in my mind now.
However, the novels we secretly read in class will not be forgotten even years later.
Even some plots, some content, some words, we can always remember.
This is the magic of "interest", first have interest, will like, will love.
When I was a child, I especially liked to read comic strips, and my cousin's family had a comic strip, "Five Thousand Years of China".
At first, I was only attracted to pictures, but later I looked at it more, and I gradually became interested in history.
Since then, he has been out of control, often running to the "Xinhua Bookstore" to rub books, and specially picking history.
In middle and high school, I didn't listen much to history class, because I had already memorized the contents in my mind.
To tell everyone this is to tell everyone that parents should follow their children's wishes when choosing books for their children.
In the process of recommending books to others, the question my parents ask me the most is, "What is the use of the book you recommend?" ”
Don't think about those anymore, what's the use? How can it help? What are the benefits?
It's not that complicated, it's a very simple one: "The child likes it." ”
Now parents buy their children a bunch of books, what world famous books, new curriculum standards must read, expert recommendations, poetry and songs, and so on.
As a result, the child does not like it, and may gradually lose interest in reading.
Therefore, when parents choose books, the "utilitarianism" cannot be too heavy, and they must start from the child's interest.
I have met many parents who say that they develop their children's brains and buy a lot of books that are called to improve intelligence.
As a result, the child's brain has not yet developed, and the child's interest in reading has been erased first.
In fact, this and eating is a truth, you always give your child big fish and meat, how can the child's stomach bear it?
Sometimes, coarse tea and light rice, grains and grains are more suitable for children.
In fact, as long as the book is good, no matter what category or subject, it will always inspire the child's brain.
As the old saying goes: "Intentionally planting flowers and flowers do not hair, and unintentionally planting willows and willows." ”
Reading is also like this, the more parents want their children to read books, often the more children do not like.
On the contrary, let children choose books freely and read their favorite books, and children can often naturally form the habit of reading.
Therefore, when it comes to buying books for their children, parents should not interfere too much.
Perhaps, those seemingly useless picture books, comic strips, can help children to have an interest in reading.
You know, the child's aesthetic, temperament, heritage, soul... These things are invisible and untouchable.
But often these things can help children go further.
Each person's body is similar and structurally similar, but the connotation is often far behind.
We raise children not only to nurture their bodies, but more importantly to focus on their inner growth.
The books that children have read will be like seeds, buried in the depths of the child's heart and gradually grow, sprouting, flowering, and bearing fruit.
It allows children to stick to their principles in this tempting society.
It allows children to retain their sanity and goodness in a materialistic world.
A blank piece of paper is the best to plan and typeset, so when the child is still a blank piece of paper, plan the child's growth curve well.
Don't let your child's spotless mind be covered with dust because of your vulgar purposes, worldly vision and worthless decency.
When your child begins to explore the world, you must put the book in front of him.
The first time a child sees this beautiful, beautiful little square box, he doesn't know what it is, he may smell it, he will bite it, he will tear it.
Don't rush to scold him, but tell the child: "This is a book, the most precious thing in the world." ”
Books are also very interesting, such as: cave books, sound books, cloth books, pop-up books and so on.
Buy more of these fun books, let the child play with the book as a toy, and soon make the child interested in the book.
When the child begins to become a "hundred thousand whys", the book will become his best friend, his doubts can be solved by the book, and his dependence on the book will be more.
Children's curiosity is heavy, and they are eager to know what they don't know.
For example: Why don't ostriches fly? Why do eagles hover? Why don't carrier pigeons get lost? Why aren't penguins afraid of freezing?
Today's parents, in order to save their minds and not let their children cry, let their children watch cartoons and play mobile games without restriction. This is not advisable.
I'm not saying that children can't watch or play at all, but they should do it in moderation. Don't let electronic products become the only toy for children, books have such magic, but we need to guide.
Many parents eavesdrop on their children's addiction to online games, and that's because their children's interests run to online games.
Let's use the adult world as a comparison.
People who like to play games are still addicted to games when they become adults.
People who like to play cards, even if they get married and have children, are still regular visitors to the chess and card room.
The so-called "three-year-old looks big, seven-year-old look old" is probably like this.
Therefore, to cultivate children's interest in reading, we must be early.
In addition, I call on every parent to take extra time to spend with their children.
The power of example is terrible, and parents are the best role models for children.
Even if you are busy, you must accompany your child to read. If a family is full of reading atmosphere, then children will naturally fall in love with reading.
Please believe that children who love to read will not be too bad.
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