If the parents of each family can manage their own mouths, then the future of the child will be very beautiful, in fact, every child's birth is a blank piece of paper, why is the difference between children so big when they grow up? In fact, the difference between children is the difference between parents, especially the mouth of parents.
The mouth of a parent has a great influence on the child
My home is a very obvious example. My parents can not be completely "illiterate", after all, they still know some words, in the early seventies, the people who knew words in the village at that time, that is, "intellectuals", can help those pure illiterates to read letters, write a reply and the like, even if they are "cultural people".
But in my childhood memories, they never felt that their children were excellent. Share two short stories with you, and I believe you will understand. When I was in the second grade of elementary school, once I took the first place in the class in the midterm exam, 98 points, I was very excited, when I came home and saw my mother, I showed her the exam paper.
She looked at it and said directly: "Why is it so bad, only 98 points, xxx people are in the 4th grade, the Chinese language test is 100 points, what are you happy about?" "After saying that, I put the exam paper in the stove and burned it, and I burst into tears at that time."
Sad child
Another time, I put the lambs back in the afternoon, because the pig grass was a little less cut, and the mother was a little dissatisfied, so she said: "You see xxx, people are not as big as you, there are more lambs than you, people have cut a lot of pig grass, why are you so little today?" You eat less in the evening! ”。
I was a little upset, so I got angry and replied: "You always say that other people's children are good, how can you not be other people's mothers?" ”。 This sentence was a good exit, not only in exchange for a severe beating, not even let me eat dinner, when I slept, secretly cried in the bed for a long time, and did not dare to make a sound.
In fact, for the child, the parent's mouth can be a warm spring breeze or a cold wind. The daily words of parents determine the future of their children. The child is the "replica" of the parents, and what the parents instill in the child, the child accepts, especially in the child's early childhood.
According to psychological surveys, people with many psychological disorders have been stimulated by language at an early age, and the harm of language is precisely the closest person who --- brought to them by the mouth of his parents. So bad words are like a sharp knife, although the wound cannot be seen, in fact, the damage to the child's heart is huge.
Bad language is like a knife
Well, about the parents' mouth, the child's road problem, today I will share here, I hope your mouth can be kind to the family and the people around you, very grateful for your reading, your attention, likes, forwards, comments and tips, is the greatest support for me, thank you!