At the parents' meeting a few days ago, Guoguo's teacher praised Guoguo, and the teacher said that Guoguo's grades were very good, his concentration was very strong, and he rarely wandered during class, and guoguo's results would definitely be better and better in the future.
This made my old mother extremely satisfied, and Guo Guo was in the third grade this year, and I should know that when she was in kindergarten, her concentration was particularly poor, and it hurt me at one time.
When Guo Guo went to kindergarten, the kindergarten teacher said that Guo Guo's concentration was particularly poor, every time other children concentrated on listening to the story, Guo Guo was looking everywhere with his eyes, glancing out from time to time to go out to play, when other children were napping at noon, Guo Guo couldn't sleep and would touch here and look there, and the teacher said that Guo Guo would definitely lag behind other children in the first grade.
Hearing the teacher's words, I felt very uncomfortable, after all, no parents want their children to be bad, back home at night, I took Guo Guo to read, Guo Guo would eat fruit for a while, eat sugar for a while, and go to the toilet again, looking at her like this, I was very anxious.
I also had my student days and knew how important concentration is to a child, and it is no exaggeration to say that concentration is more important than being smart, I am not a very smart person, but I am better than my concentration, so I was admitted to a good university.
My sister is a pediatrician, I consulted her why Guoguo's concentration is poor, my sister asked me a few words and told me the answer, Guoguo's poor concentration is because of these two reasons:
First, always interrupted
When I go to work, my mother-in-law carries guoguo, and my mother-in-law loves guoguo very much, and she is very attentive to guoguo's early education, although she will take guoguo to read, play games, listen to children's songs, etc., but she will often disturb guoguo.
For example, when the child is writing homework or reading a book, ask her whether she wants to drink water or eat fruit, and then ask her if she is cold, the child's attention is distracted in the continuous interruption, and the distracted attention is difficult to concentrate.
Second, children like to watch TV
Guo Guo especially loves to watch TV, every day after school to watch TV, I can still converge when I am at home, when I go to work, my mother-in-law will let Guo Guo watch TV for a long time, the programs on TV change very quickly, the child's thinking can not keep up at all, the time is long, so it will distract the child's concentration.
My sister's analysis is very reasonable, found the source of the problem, I began to cultivate concentration for guoguo, I told my mother-in-law not to always interrupt guoguo, let her do it first when the child does homework, and then look at right and wrong after doing it, don't stand by and guide all the time.
Guo Guo likes to watch TV, play tablets, I directly confiscated the tablet computer at home, Guo Guo's TV time is also limited, can only watch twenty minutes a day, the rest of the time let Guo Guo play some game books to cultivate concentration, there are many games can help children train concentration, such as Shult square, maze, find different and so on.
At first, Guoguo could only insist on playing for three or four minutes, so I set a reward and punishment plan for her, if she could sit there and play for five minutes, I would allow her to eat one-third of the chocolate, if she could play for ten minutes, she could eat half of it, and slowly Guoguo could sit still, sometimes sitting there and playing for 20 minutes.
Only by concentrating and concentrating on learning can we do more with less.
Concentration is very important for children, in the child's learning, concentration can even play a decisive role, parents should correctly treat the child's concentration, for the child to cultivate a good concentration.