Wen | Mingxin's mother
Hello everyone, I am Mingxin mother, today some netizens asked me: fifth grade children do not like to write homework, only like to play, only like to play football, what should parents do?
It's good that children are interested in hobbies, and it's good that children have hobbies of sports. Children like to play football, parents should encourage children, sports can not only strengthen the child's physical fitness, but also have benefits for the formation of children's confident and sunny personality.
Parents must not discourage their children's interests and hobbies, and force their children to do what they think is important but the child does not like.
The reason why children are interested in something is because children can fully experience a sense of accomplishment, a sense of joy, in this event!
Why don't children like to write homework? Parents must know why their children do not like to write homework. In this way, the right medicine can be prescribed and the child's interest in writing homework can be guided.
Children do not like to write homework, perhaps the child in the homework writing matter, he has often been criticized by parents. So that children have a psychological confusion in writing homework, can not mention the interest in writing homework and even resist the psychology.
The root cause of children's dislike of writing homework is that children do not experience the full sense of accomplishment and joy that comes with writing homework!
What you have to do as a parent is to let your child feel the sense of accomplishment and joy brought to him by writing homework. The child has established this sense of accomplishment in his heart, and he will naturally be interested in writing homework!
How do you get a sense of accomplishment and joy when writing homework?
Carefully find the child's small shining point in writing homework, even if it is only a little, parents should magnify the child's advantages, willing to praise the child in time!
For example: children usually write more sloppily, once you found that the child has a word written neatly, this time do not ignore the child's change, must praise the child in time, praise the child, let the child experience that writing homework can be affirmatively praised, writing homework is a beautiful and happy thing.
Another example: children usually can not complete homework independently, once finally took the initiative to complete the homework, no matter how procrastinating the child's homework is this time, parents must promptly affirm that the child's progress can independently complete the progress of homework.
For example, when a child is writing math homework, you find that there is a problem that the child has done wrong, you should not say: How can you be so careless, and do it wrong, really stupid! You should say this: although you are doing it wrong, as long as you are careful to do this problem, I believe in your potential!
In short, in the matter of children writing homework, parents must pay attention to building a sense of achievement and pleasure in writing homework. Parents again and again encouragement and will certainly establish the child's sense of achievement, the child's sense of achievement has, the child will rely on this sense of achievement and joy, so that he will consciously get this sense of achievement from writing homework, naturally the child will be interested in writing homework!
I am a clear mother, willing to accompany your children with wisdom and happiness with you who have love ~ Welcome to pay attention to and leave a message! Thank you for your appreciation and support!
Mingxin Mother's Post-80s Powerful Writer Ming ming and heart-warming talented female mother Parent-child education culture master Representative works collection "How We Love Children", "Be Wise Parents And Raise Excellent Children", "The Taste of Happiness", "One Leaf and One Bodhi" and so on. Life motto: Grow with the attitude of mature rice, and benefit all directions with an elegant and warm light.