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An accident, Gu Lei died, and Feng Xiaoqin's dream of becoming a Shanghainese was completely shattered!
Originally it was not a big deal, Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei quarreled during the day, packed up the box, took the little tiger to run away from home, and then the whole family went to the door to pull her;
The grandmother is distressed about the grandson, the father-in-law is worried about the son, Gu Lei is afraid of his wife running, such a chicken flying dog jumps every time the big sister has to come to extinguish the fire, the interests of the Gu family are linked one link at a time, Feng Xiaoqin thinks that she is in place;
On the surface, she is bitter and vengeful, but in fact, she is very proud inside, this trick is obviously not the first time she has used it, and every time it is very smart!
In the middle of the night, Feng Xiaoqin comforted her sister Feng Xixi, who did not have a job: When I buy a house, and then take my mother and Da Nian, we will become real Shanghainese!
Unfortunately, a very small thing also broke a string of Gu Qingyu!
As a gold medal investor, Gu Qingyu is also very tired, the work is very busy, the house he likes can't be bought, Qingmei Zhuma also deleted WeChat, that day she still had a cold, took her father's call home to fight the fire, the result was as she expected, the husband and wife reconciled;
Gu Qingyu emphasized three points with Gu Lei:
1, Gu Lei has to consider the future, now she and her father can still help extinguish the fire, in the future, if only Gu Lei, it is completely bullied by his sister-in-law;
2, buy a house, must write Gu Lei's name, the family's money should also be optimistic;
3. Feng Xiaoqin's sister is now in the Gu family, and she will bring her brother in the future, how should she live this day in the future?
I have to say that these three problems are Feng Xiaoqin's scars, which cannot be touched, but they are all heard by her, the knife is fatal, with her nature, can she bear it?
The way she expressed her anger was not to push open the door and make a big fight, but also to run away from home, and then to pull the chicken and dog jump, and accidentally threw Gu Lei down the stairs, and the person who the best gu family could hold died unexpectedly;
Regardless of how Feng Xiaoqin should live in the future, whose responsibility should be Gu Lei's death?
First, the original characteristics of Feng Xiaoqin
Feng Xiaoqin is a very contradictory complex body, and there are many confusing places in her;
On the one hand, she has a very deep heart, and she is angry with her little daughter-in-law on the surface, but she is not harmless to people and animals, from the very beginning to marry Gu Lei is a calculation, you can't imagine that she has not been able to establish a foothold in Shanghai, what has she done?
In the original work, Feng Xiaoqin is much younger than Gu Lei, and there is a 7-year-old sister Feng Xixi in the family, and a son Feng Danian, who was born when she was 15 years old, but pretends to be raised as a brother;
On the other hand, as a beautiful woman, she is very sharp-eyed and knows how to observe words and colors, but after coming to Shanghai for more than ten years, she has not learned Gu Qingyu's taste and vision;
The scarf knitted, originally handmade is very good, but she had to paste a fake card, the bag bought for her son should also be pasted with a fake card, Feng thought that Gu such a consumption level of people is just vain love a brand and logo, but Gu knows that his consumption and enjoyment is quality and service;
On the surface, this is the gap between her and Gu Qingyu, but in fact, it is the gap between Feng Xiaoqin and the Gu family for three generations;
This estrangement is not only reflected in the vision, but also in the cultural level, Feng Xiaoqin has a strong heart, he graduated from high school, but he urges his husband to take the accounting exam all day, urges his sister to take the fourth level, and urges his son, but he never thinks about learning himself;
But Feng Xiaoqin also has her own shining point, she and Gu Lei are noisy during the day, when the night is quiet, she does not sleep and makes up a rose for him as a birthday gift, just as Gu Shihong commented on her, Feng Xiaoqin really loves this family, and almost gave everything she has!
This is also the Gu family's calculation of Feng Xiaoqin, saying that the good point is to take what you need, and the ugly point is to say that it is a free nanny.
Second, in the marriage that each takes what is needed, Feng Xixi is the fuse
The most fatal reason for Gu Lei's tragedy is that the Gu family is almost all Sven people, and the way to solve the problem is always to have a small meeting, never open the skylight with Feng Xiaoqin and say bright words!
This flaw can be seen from Su Wangdi's visit to their house for dinner;
As a concubine, Su Wangdi's son wants to buy a house and get married, the house is expensive and big, although their family has paid 7 million yuan, Su Wangdi feels that the face is very bright, worth showing off, the first thing to do when entering the Gu family is to find Gu Shihong to ask Feng Xiqian to be a nanny;
Which tendon is wrong, will think of this, what does this mean? It shows that Feng Xixi should not live in her sister's house for a long time, outsiders know the crux of the problem, and they also know how to deal with it, but the Gu family just does not know how to solve it;
The Gu family's laissez-faire of not breaking the window paper made Feng Xiaoqin feel that the Gu family was sorry for themselves, because Gu Lei's legs were lame and had no job defects, because the Gu family had two generations of elderly people to take care of, and because Feng Xiaoqin was angry, she gave birth to a son little tiger for the Gu family.
From her hollow heart to buy a house, the Gu family can also see the problems existing in this family step by step, and the dust has been accumulated for a long time;
Feng Xiaoqin said that borrowing money to buy a house, the opening is 1 million, in fact, it is obvious that it is money!!
I don't have any points, what do I get back? Gu Qingyu did not borrow, she made trouble, let Gu Shihong give money, which means that people are still dividing up the family property;
Gu Shihong did not want the two of them to quarrel, gave her 500,000, finally stopped for two days, but the money was not enough, continue to borrow with Gu Qingyu, and even opened his mouth with Zhan Xiang, so the eating appearance was really ugly;
Sister has no job and no object, but also let Gu Qingyu solve, Gu Ming knows that this is not her own business, but she has never directly refused, her every concession makes Feng feel that this is what the Gu family should do, this is what the Gu family owes her, and even let her cry twice and hang herself!
Moreover, Feng Xixi is in the Gu family, and also allows Feng Xiaoqin to have her own people-like dependence, because it is a distant marriage, the seven aunts and eight aunts of the Gu family always make Feng Xiaoqin feel isolated and helpless, and she relies on the hug of her sister for warmth;
However, every time a problem occurs, the existence of Feng Xiqian does not solve the problem, but allows Feng Xiaoqin to separate herself from the Gu family, thinking that her mother's family is home, which makes Gu Qingyu feel that she is an outsider and should be guarded against;
Feng Xiaoqin, really poor people must have something to hate!
Third, Feng Xiaoqin's heart
Feng Xiaoqin's insecurity lies not in the house, but in the heart;
In the play, the two heroines of Haiqing TongYao are a contrast group, different living classes, a high salary, a full-time mother; different regions, a local, a foreign daughter-in-law; the two look polite, in fact, they don't like each other, as long as a fuse, enough to detonate;
The delicate relationship between them, if there is no death of Gu Lei, may be like many families, just like this fake smile for decades;
But life is not a TV series after all, even if there is so much anxiety, there will not be so much dog blood, this drama from the material level of the house, to the atrium of urban small people, to the point to tell the audience, living is not easy, the heart is more difficult;
In the face of difficulties in life, how to choose, Feng Xiaoqin will definitely take us to find the answer and find her heart.