Author | Zhang Shuxi
Anchor | Fan Deng Reading · Yang Gun Gun
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Good evening to all book lovers, welcome to the reading column "Encounter" produced by Fan Deng Reading.
Today, I will interpret the original novel of the domestic divine drama "Heavenly Dao" - "Distant Savior".
This is a novel that can be proudly respected, and it is also a perfect masterpiece that can not be sought.
The TV series based on this book has a Douban score of 9.2 points, which has set off a great response across the country when it was released.
Hopefully, this book will help you take your mind to the next level.
There is such a plot in "Heavenly Dao", Ding Yuanying went to the morning stall to eat wontons, and when he ordered food, he had already paid for it.
But when he finished eating the ravioli and left, the lady boss hurriedly stopped and said:
You haven't given the money yet!
Ding Yuanying was stunned at first, the two looked at each other for 2 seconds, without saying a word, they took out money from their pockets, and after payment, yangyang sprinkled and went back wearing slippers, without a word of defense.
Later, the film policeman who had a meal with Ding Yuanying said:
When I first came, I saw that people had already given money, so why did you still ask for money?
The hostess smiled awkwardly and said she forgot.
Many people ask: Why didn't Ding Yuanying justify that he had obviously given money?
That's the question we're exploring today: why the higher the level of people, the less likely they are to argue.
Disdain to argue because it's not worth it
From Ding Yuanying stunned to see the boss lady for 2 seconds, it has been explained that he remembered to give wonton money earlier, and if he gave it again, he would have given it twice.
The reason why he would rather pay twice for ravioli than argue is because he doesn't bother to argue with small traders.
How Ding Yuanying's ex-wife commented on him:
He will never quarrel with you, and every pore of his is permeated with condescending tolerance for secular culture, so tolerant that he disdains to reason with you.
To put it bluntly, he is disdainful of arguing, and if you see him arguing with you, it means that he looks up to you and treats you as a person of the same level of thought.
For example, Ding Yuanying opened up to Han Chufeng about traditional culture, and talked endlessly with zen masters about killing the rich and helping the poor, because he felt that these people were worth debating his own ideas.
He didn't bother to argue with the petty traders because he felt it was a waste of his time.
He would rather spend an extra bowl of wonton money and make time to listen to music cleanly than waste time arguing with small traders for a bowl of wonton money.
For high-level people, time and ear root purity are the most important.
High-level people are more likely to see the essence, and summer worms do not speak ice
The poverty alleviation in Wangmiao Village was organized by Feng Shijie, Ye Xiaoming and Liu Bing, who wanted Ding Yuanying, a senior person, to help alleviate poverty.
When the three people entered the shares to open the company and entered the road to entrepreneurship and prosperity, in the face of the lawsuit between Gramsea and Lesheng, the three quickly withdrew their shares and threw the mess to Ouyang Xue.
Feng Shijie apologized and greeted Ding Yuanying, and Ye Xiaoming angrily said that he had no insight.
Liu Bing did not come forward at all, it was they who demanded to get rid of poverty, and it was they who escaped from the battle to shirk their responsibilities, and others had already jumped like thunder.
But Ding Yuanying did not have any argument with them, let alone showed anger.
Why?
Because before he planned this matter, he had already seen the essence of poverty alleviation.
The essence of poverty alleviation lies in the awakening of cognition and the idea of "waiting for help".
"Waiting to rely on" is the concept of survival of the weak, that is, relying on others for everything, and not taking the initiative to fight for it.
Ding Yuanying had already seen the nature of poverty, but the three of them couldn't see it clearly.
I use an analogy, a person who stands at the top of a mountain and sees the nature of things, and tells a person at the foot of the mountain what I saw, do they believe it?
Certainly not believe it.
In the same way, if Ding Yuanying explains the argument to them, he says: It is your "waiting for the need" mentality that makes you poor.
Will Feng Shijie, Ye Xiaoming, and Liu Bing believe it? Certainly not believe it.
Therefore, the reason why he does not argue, does not argue, is because he knows that low-level people cannot see the essence of things, and even if you tell them the essence of things, you are playing the piano to the cow.
This is a quote from the Tao Te Ching:
The sergeant hears the Tao and acts diligently; the sergeant hears the Tao, if he survives; the Corporal hears the Tao, laughs, and it is not enough to hear the Tao without laughing.
High-level people, ordinary people in the realm of life cannot understand
Rui Xiaodan's death has made many people resent Ding Yuanying, especially Rui Xiaodan's parents.
They felt that Ding Yuanying did not stop Rui Xiaodan from carrying out a dangerous mission, which was the biggest sin, and even less worthy of being Rui Xiaodan's partner.
To this end, Rui Xiaodan's father did not let anyone tell Ding Yuanying the address of Rui Xiaodan's cemetery.
Why did Ding Yuanying not argue from beginning to end?
Because Ding Yuanying knew that apart from himself, there was no second person who knew Rui Xiaodan.
But anyone who knew Rui Xiaodan, they wouldn't ask Why Ding Yuanying didn't stop it.
We mentioned a key point, does Ding Yuanying really not care about Rui Xiaodan?
After hearing the news of Rui Xiaodan's sacrifice, Ding Yuanying directly vomited blood.
A person's greatest sorrow is not to cry and weep, but to cry without tears, and a sad feeling is as heavy as a boulder, so that he can spew a mouthful of blood from his chest.
During a mission, Rui Xiaodan pointed a gun at her head, because it was a rotten egg, which saved her from death.
Since that time, Ding Yuanying has begun to persuade Rui Xiaodan to give up the profession of police.
Ding Yuanying used all his strength to analyze it with reason and evidence:
As long as you are a police officer, you have no right to take shelter.
The country does not lack a female criminal police officer who will be eliminated sooner or later, and society should have one more talent with extraordinary achievements.
He subtly inspired Rui Xiaodan to go to the literary world, let her do more meaningful things, and give up the profession of police.
Ding Yuanying did so many things behind his back that made Rui Xiaodan give up his dangerous profession, but no one knew.
Different people, different realms of life
He would rather bear the infamy and help Wang Miao Village to alleviate poverty.
Not because of how high ding Yuanying's consciousness was, but because of his love for Rui Xiaodan.
It was Rui Xiaodan who wanted a myth, so Ding Yuanying wrote a myth in WangMiao Village.
In Ding Yuanying's eyes, his love for Rui Xiaodan did not need to be explained to anyone, did not need to be proved.
Just to prove it from a secular perspective tarnishes the love between them.
Then again, why didn't he stop Rui Xiaodan?
Ding Yuanying had already argued with her several times before because he asked Rui Xiaodan to give up the profession of police, but he still could not change Rui Xiaodan's thinking.
Because Rui Xiaodan loves the profession of police, she can find her own life value in this profession.
On the last call, Rui Xiaodan just said goodbye.
Her police status made Ding Yuanying unable to stop it anymore, not that he did not want to stop it.
Some people in this world rely on fame and fortune to reflect their own value;
Some rely on power to reflect their own value;
Some people rely on the payment for the family to reflect their own value;
Some people reflect their value by making contributions to society.
Different people, different realms of life.
The so-called high-level person is not a person with a high status of fame and fortune, but an enlightenment and realm of life.
And Rui Xiaodan is the embodiment of a kind of great love, she wants to eliminate harm for the people, she wants to help the poor for Wangmiao Village, and everywhere reflects her spirit of great love.
This state of life can only be understood as ineffable.
This is the third reason why Ding Yuanying does not want to argue and explain.
Feng Lun once said such a sentence: "Why can't you argue about a shrew forever?" Because the Shrew has no bottom line. ”
When you slowly become unwilling to explain one day, do not want to argue everywhere, congratulations, it means that your level is getting higher and higher!
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Author | Tides
Column Director | Come slowly
Typography | Zheng to the north
Image | The pictures in this article come from the stills of "Heavenly Dao", which was invaded and deleted
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