Fire-fighting parents are terrible
Such parents are so terrible, I call him a fire-fighting parent. The child urges him to get up when he doesn't get up, and he stops him without tidying up the room. He didn't study seriously, just stared at him and studied. If you keep following your child's mistakes, like a firefighter, wherever there is a situation, you go straight to wherever you go. look up. You will find that you are getting more and more tired with children, and the problems of children are increasing. So instead of following your child's ass and correcting his mistakes, do these three things.
The first is to learn to show weakness. For example, if you want your child to get up early, you can tell his mother that she has been particularly tired lately and I am worried that I will not be able to leave on time tomorrow. Can you wake up your mom at half past six? This way you can raise a very autonomous child, because he will feel that he is needed, and he will be more active and happier to do things.
The second is to learn to review with the child, try to be a bystander, and observe where the child is doing well and where it is not doing well. Find time to talk to him, praise your child first, and then point out what he is not doing well enough. Finally, another compliment, such a child will be more willing to accept and correct the mistake.
The third and most important thing is to be good at finding your child's shining points. Our eyes should not only see the child's mistakes, but also see the child's progress, even if there is a little progress, it is worth your praise. If you think there are no good things in your child, then you must be not careful enough. So start today with a magnifying glass and look for it to see your child's shining points. Today we will start to praise your children, be wise parents, and cultivate excellent children.