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In March 2005, Han Fuping, who was poor and kind, finally fulfilled his wish for many years and married his daughter-in-law.
It should have been a happy thing, but except for the parents of both sides, Han Fuping and his wife did not receive the blessings of the villagers.
Instead, it was exchanged for finger-pointing and gossip behind it.
"Brother marries younger siblings? And this kind of thing? What about his brother? ”
"Oops, died by accident. Who knows that after death, the wife married her brother. ”
"Oh, there's a boy in the house with a brain problem."
Yes, the daughter-in-law that Han Fuping married was none other than his younger sister Luo Hui.
Together, there are three children of the younger brother and younger sibling.
One of the children was seriously ill.
This bizarre and tortuous story begins in 1967.
Although life is bitter, brotherhood is deep
Han Fuping was born on September 18, 1967, in a remote mountain village in Yiliang County, Zhaotong City, Yunnan Province.
In 1970, his younger brother Han Fu'an was born.
Families that were already poor became more difficult because of the arrival of two children.
The family lacked food and drink, the mother did not have enough milk, and the brothers could only drink thin rice soup and grow up.
When the children reached the age of being able to eat, because their parents had to go out to earn money and could not take care of them, his brother Han Fuping took his younger brother to the mountains to dig wild vegetables to fill their hunger.
As children, they never knew what it was like to be "full."
When there is no clothes to wear, he picks up the torn clothes that cannot be asked for by relatives and friends.
After the stitches were mended, the older brother wore the younger brother's clothes, and the younger one continued to wear it for two years.
The older the children grow up and eat more, the wild vegetables simply can't be fed.
The mother had no choice but to take her children around to borrow grain.
But at that time, the conditions of every family were tight, and few households had surplus grain.
Sometimes it's good luck to meet well-meaning people who can borrow a little grain to last a while.
Sometimes in exchange, there is only a blank stare and disgust.
Fortunately, although the days were hard, the family stumbled and finally survived.
Han Fuping and Han Fu'an, just like their names, both grew up safely.
By the time they were sixteen or seventeen years old, they had begun to work outside the home and support themselves.
Neither brother had any culture, so they had to do some hard work and earn some hard money.
Neither of the two people was too bitter or tired, and they both thought of suffering more and making their brothers suffer less.
In the days of poverty, the brothers' feelings are as sweet as honey.
Seeing the brothers intimately helping each other to live a life, the parents' hearts are very happy.
Seeing that the children have grown into big and small guys, the parents began to lay out another life event for the two brothers.
In the village, if the boys start to earn money to support their families, they should get married and have children and live independently.
In the early 1990s, living conditions in many rural areas were much better than before, but they were only enough to feed themselves.
To say that all at once let the brothers marry their daughters-in-law, don't say that at that time, even if it is put now, it is also a great burden for ordinary people's families.
The palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are all meat, and the parents think about going and discussing left and right.
In the end, it was decided that he should let his brother Han Fuping marry first.
My brother is still young and can drag on for a few more years.
However, Han Fuping, who loved his brother more than himself, rejected his parents' decision.
It doesn't matter when he gets married, he hopes that his brother can get married first and have a happy family.
Unable to resist the brotherly love of the eldest son to the younger son, the parents had to rely on Han Fuping.
So, in 1991, the 21-year-old Han Fu'an met his wife Luo Hui through matchmaker matchmaking.
Soon, with the strength of the whole family, the two people got married.
Subsequently, Han Fu'an and Luo will give birth to a son and a daughter.
Sons and daughters are complete, put together into a "good" word.
Not only Han Fu'an and his wife, but also their parents and brother were happy to blossom.
The family's life is lively and lively, and it is still one step away from being called complete.
(Han Fuping and Han Fu'an, Luo Hui and their nephews and nieces)
That step was Han Fuping's marriage event.
Han Fuping is getting older, but his income is not improving.
None of the girls introduced by the matchmaker could see him.
Compared with the anxiety of his family, Han Fuping was unexpectedly surprised:
"Nephews and nieces, like my children, have no regrets even if they don't get married for the rest of their lives."
I was ready for a lifetime of loneliness. ”
Han Fuping pulled out all these words, and no matter how distressed and anxious his parents were, there was no other way.
I thought that the family's life could go on so plainly and happily.
But fate had given them a catastrophe that caught them off guard.
Han Fu'an's son fell from the roof, and all the beautiful visions of the family were shattered...
Fate is not good, and the creation of people
In October 2002, Han Fu'an's four-year-old son, Han Youbao, accidentally fell while playing on the roof, and the back of his head landed first.
After being sent to the hospital, because there was not enough to pay for the operation, Han Fu'an could only make a simple bandage for the child and bring it home.
Brain damage, where can I heal myself at home?
The child's state at home is getting worse and worse every day, and it looks like a miserable appearance that still exists.
The whole family cried and sighed, and a word "poor" became a deep ditch that the family could not pass.
In order to treat the child's illness, the Han family asked for everyone they could ask for, borrowed all the money they could borrow, and put together it was just a drop in the bucket.
In desperation, Han Fu'an went around looking for a higher-paying job.
Hearing that the miners in Xi'an had a lot of income, he rushed to Xi'an without stopping.
This time, I never came back.
On March 22, 2003, the coal mine where Han Fu'an worked collapsed, burying him under the mine.
In a mining accident, Han Fuping was killed, and the family life was even worse.
His wife Luo Hui even fainted from crying several times:
"A ten-year-old daughter, a dying eldest son, and a three-year-old young son, illiterate self, how can they support this family?"
Walking on thin ice, Luo Hui could not accept the departure of her husband, was depressed all the time, and even thought of committing suicide with her three children.
At this time, his brother Han Fuping, who was also sad, brought Luo hope to live.
When his brother left, he dried his tears and picked up his brother's burden and took care of the family for him.
Han Fuping used his own salary to renew his nephew's life-saving medicine and pay the tuition fees for his eldest niece.
He comforted Luo Hui:
"You don't have to worry about money, and me, you just have to worry about living with your children."
Luo would cry, she did not expect that after her husband left, there would be someone who could hold up a piece of the sky for her.
After Luo Hui's mother's family heard about Han Fuping's approach, they thought about it several times and made a decision.
They want Luo Hui to remarry Han Fuping.
Han Fuping is kind and capable, and they are already a family, and they will never treat these three children badly.
After listening to this decision, Han Fuping hesitated:
"I can take care of the four of them for a lifetime."
But the criticism of the villagers, can Luo Hui and the children bear it?
Does the younger brother under the Nine Springs agree to do this himself? ”
Han Fuping looked at his brother's posthumous photos and thought about it all night, his heart turning over the river and the sea, weighing and weighing.
The next day, Han Fuping still decided to marry his younger sister Luo Hui.
In addition to being able to take care of them myself, who else can accept these four mothers and sons?
This is the only way for Luo Hui and the children to live well.
The day before he and Luo Hui received the certificate, Han Fuping came to his brother's grave and talked to his brother for a long time with tears...
"Brother, I'm sorry.
Brother doesn't know if you're going to blame me, but it's a last resort to take this step: ......
I will definitely shoulder all the responsibilities and take good care of the children and my younger siblings. ”
After speaking, he spilled a glass of white wine on his brother's grave and drank all the wine in the glass himself.
He wanted to continue to complete his brother's unfinished tasks in this life, and he wanted to let his younger brother under the Nine Springs walk with peace of mind.
In March 2005, Han Fuping and Luo Hui officially married.
Han Fuping is more desperate to earn money outside, and Luo Hui is at ease taking care of his three children at home.
As long as the salary was paid, Han Fuping handed the money to Luo Hui and asked her to take Han Youbao to the hospital for examination and medicine.
Gradually, the child's condition improved, and the days seemed to be back on track.
What was even more surprising was that Luo Hui was pregnant with Han Fuping's child.
In January 2008, the daughter of the two, Han Youxiang, was born.
However, the hemp rope is specially picked and broken, and the bad luck is specially picked by the bitter people.
The arrival of her daughter has once again brought a huge blow to this already difficult family.
The nephew is seriously ill and the daughter is disabled
Han Yuxiang, who was just born, had feet that were not much different from normal children.
Upon examination, Han Yuxiang was diagnosed with congenital clubfoot.
(Han Fuping checks his daughter's x-film)
The couple who heard the result were dumbfounded, can this be cured?
Yes!
As long as you have money to go to a big hospital for surgery, you can be cured.
However, the eldest nephew Han Youbao has not yet scraped together enough for the operation, where is the extra money to treat his daughter?
Han Fuping endured the severe pain in his heart and returned home with his daughter.
On the way home, Han Fuping cried.
This is not the warm road home in the past, this is a road that sends the daughter to the disabled.
This road is too difficult to walk.
But no matter how difficult it was to go, he had to continue walking without hesitation.
In order to treat the two children, as long as it is the money that can be earned, Han Fuping will earn it.
Moving, unloading, loading, cleaning sewers, mixing cement, paving asphalt roads...
Dozens of pounds of furniture on the back, two hemp ropes tied, a person bent over the stairs to move;
In the summer, the heat is almost 40 degrees, and the road is paved with asphalt;
Endure the stench to clean up the sewers...
He is like a high-speed machine, unable to stop working all day long, nor dare to stop work.
He knew that life wouldn't allow him to stop.
However, as Han Fuping grew older, his body could no longer support him to work so hard.
It didn't take long for Han Fuping's waist to straighten out due to severe pain.
His back injury wasn't a day or two.
But even so, he couldn't even buy a few dollars of painkiller plaster.
Han Fuping said: "If I spend a few more yuan, the child's life-saving money will be a little less." ”
Such a hard day's work is still not enough to save even one child's surgery.
However, the bad fortunes of life continue.
In 2018, Han Youbao's condition suddenly changed, developed into schizophrenia, and urgently needed hospitalization.
But the family's money is so much that it can only provide for the treatment of one child.
Sent, sorry daughter, no send, sorry nephew.
The palms of the hands are all meat.
Her father's anxiety was all seen by Han Yuxiang, and she said:
"Dad, you should treat your brother first, my brother is more serious than me, and my feet can still walk, it doesn't matter."
Looking at his daughter who was so sensible, Han Fuping hugged her tightly and burst into tears.
Eventually, Han Youbao was sent to a local spiritual center for treatment.
(Local Mental Health Center)
Disabled, daughter triumphant
Although unfortunate things followed, what made Han Fuping and Luo Hui feel relieved was that although their daughter was physically disabled, she had a strong and upward heart.
In 2020, 12-year-old Han Youxiang was selected for the Shaanxi Provincial Kayaking Team for the Disabled.
Because of the special family situation, Han Yuxiang put in more effort than the average child.
She wants to achieve a little through her own efforts and alleviate the mental pressure of her parents.
Fortunately, God did not live up to this good girl.
On October 10, 2021, in the kayaking event at the National Para Games, Han Youxiang won the bronze medal in the 500-meter single rowing boat.
Compared with the good results achieved in the competition, the doctor's words made Han Fuping and his wife even happier.
After examination by a professional team doctor, the doctor said:
"Now with surgery, Han Youxiang's legs can still fully return to normal."
Having wronged her daughter for 13 years, she must not be allowed to endure the pain of physical disability again!
Han Fuping poured everything he had, borrowed from east to west, and finally made up enough money for his daughter's surgery.
The family was filled with relief and anticipation.
But the day did not go so far, and after the operation, the cold reality shattered their expectations for the future.
The doctor said: "This is just a basic surgery, and it will take 2-3 surgeries to fully recover later." ”
At this time, Han Fuping, who was 54 years old, owed a foreign debt.
After thinking about it for a long time, he smiled and said to his daughter:
"It doesn't matter, since we had an operation, we did it a second or third time until we were cured!"
(Han Fuping accompanied his daughter after the operation)
Half a month later, due to the cost problem, Han Fuping took Han Youxiang and Han Youbao back home.
After the daughter's surgery, the deformity of her foot has improved.
However, Han Youbao, who was freed from hospital treatment, became more and more seriously ill.
When he was sick, he would beat people wildly at home, and the number of times was increasing, and Luo would not be able to resist at all.
Therefore, the husband and wife discussed and let Han Fuping take care of Han Youbao, who was often ill, at home, and Luo Hui went out to work.
However, Luo Hui, who had no culture and could not do hard work like Han Fuping, could not earn any money at all.
In this way, the money for the treatment of the two children is even more distant.
"When I first married my sister-in-law, I wanted to give my brother an explanation.
But I was useless, and my family was still destitute. ”
Han Fuping watched his wife and children suffer so much with him, and he couldn't tell what it was like in his heart.
In the days to come, how to live...
(Helpless Han Fuping)
The family is there, and the hope is there
At this time, Han Fuping, who had suffered the pain of fate, received a piece of love from all walks of life.
Many people heard his story and thought about doing something for him.
They organized a public welfare donation activity for Han Fuping's daughter Han Youxiang.
Through this activity, Han Youxiang's surgery expenses increased little by little.
Han Youbao was also sent to a local hospital for treatment by a public welfare organization.
Now, Han Fuping and Luo Hui are both working in the factory, and their incomes have increased greatly compared with before.
Making more money means that the children's treatment has been settled.
Their long-cherished wish of a lifetime has finally had the opportunity to be fulfilled.
Bi Shumin said: "Even if there are a thousand houses, there is no bed at night; even if there are 10,000 acres of good land, only three meals a day are needed." ”
For Han Fuping and his wife, the family can eat three meals and live safely and healthily, which is their greatest wish.
Today, Han Fu'an has been dead for 19 years.
It was the elder brother Han Fuping who used his entire life to shoulder the responsibilities of his younger brother.
The responsibility was so heavy that it bent over his waist and crushed his back, but it did not overwhelm his will.
Along the way, the family has gone through hardships, but no one has given up.
Han Fuping and Luo Hui are both working hard to live for their children, their disabled daughters are trying to bloom on the field, and Han Youbao, who is seriously ill, is trying to cooperate with treatment...
Trying to live is the best resistance to an unfortunate fate.
"As long as the family is together, there is hope to change the fate."
This is the biggest belief in the life of Han Fuping and his wife.
There is a passage that says:
"Being human like grass is good and open-minded."
Although small, open-minded; weak, strong in heart;
If you can't blossom, you still don't give up your life; if you can't bear fruit, you will still try to live. ”
Hope never dies, life goes on.
In this world, there are many people like Han Fuping who are suffering.
They all have hope in their hearts, hand in hand with their families, and fight against the fate of gray.
May they finally break through the difficulties, survive all the sufferings in life, and embrace the passion of a happy and beautiful life.
Author: Zhu Xiaolu & Yihui'er
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