Not long ago, a news of "mixed-race son driving British father crazy" was quite popular on the Internet.
In the video, the father helplessly cried about his mixed-race son, his English was unexpectedly failed, and the scene of crying while tutoring really made people cry and laugh after seeing it.
Is such a scene inexplicably familiar? I believe that parents have more or less experienced it in their lives, and it is not an easy task to tutor their children's learning. Because for children, learning is a matter of restraint and closed thoughts, which leads to children's dislike of learning, so that grades cannot be improved.
In the face of this situation, many parents will be anxious to catch fire, and even the British father in the video is helpless in the face of a mixed-race son who fails English.
So, is there really no way to tutor children to learn?
In fact, there is a way to follow this situation, everyone can start to change from daily life, and must not rush for a while. There is a way is "if you want to be fast, you can't reach it", and good results cannot appear in a moment and a half, if you use the wrong method, then isn't it a wave of seedlings? Therefore, the right education is the shortcut to success.
In order to cope with the difficult problem of tutoring children, these 3 practical and good methods are worth learning from parents!
First, let interest become a teacher
The famous scholar Bloom once said: "The biggest motivation for learning is to be interested in learning materials." I believe that everyone agrees with this point, but many people have complained: the textbook is so boring, how can you be interested? In fact, this question is very good, but when we ask this question, we often ignore a very critical point - curiosity!
As we all know, human beings are born with a desire to learn, and then children are no exception. When a child shows curiosity about something, parents should guide them correctly. After all, life is full of learning, simple addition and subtraction when going out to buy vegetables, the working principle of the range hood when cooking, the instructions when buying drugs... These may have become commonplace in the eyes of parents, but what about children? It can be seen that tutoring children is not the whole of education, and in the long run, the trivial things in daily life can also achieve the purpose of education.
Educationalists have studied that from the age of 5, children's initial curiosity has emerged. So when the child is curious about a thing, the correct guidance will make the child more interested in a certain field, and it is not easy to do it with interest? Interest will introduce children to the temple of knowledge and take the initiative to explore the "golden house" in it.
If you have missed this stage, parents do not need to worry, because curiosity runs through the child's life. As long as parents correctly guide their children's curiosity, then the results will surely develop in a good direction.
Second, create a good learning atmosphere
From ancient times to the present, "education and learning" has been a topic of great concern, and many historical stories have been reported, such as "Mengmu Three Migrations" and so on. From the incident of "Mengmu Three Migrations", we can see the impact of the environment on a person, in today's terms, the impact of the learning atmosphere on a person.
The atmosphere is invisible, but its impact is enormous. A good learning atmosphere can expose children to more beneficial things to learn, so as a parent, you should lead by example, make an example for your children to learn, take more time to accompany your children to learn, or do some puzzle games, not only can increase the child's happiness index, but also allow children to play in the game, why not?
Of course, creating a good atmosphere is not an easy task, so it must start from daily life. For example, people in an extremely anxious environment is no way to concentrate, at this time parents will feel very difficult when tutoring children, so the establishment of a good atmosphere is not overnight, appropriate gentleness to children, is not a good way.
Then, it is obvious that when tutoring children, parents should give their children a little more time, and when the child's learning status is not very good, it should be stopped in time; on the contrary, it is very likely to cause children's boredom, and I hope that parents can pay more attention.
Third, good study habits
Ye Shengtao, a famous Chinese educator, once said: "What is education? Unilaterally, it only takes one sentence to develop good study habits. ”
Parents, if your child is in a state of confusion and playfulness every day, then please tell them this passage.
Someone once said that habit is a very terrible thing, is this really the case? Think about it: if habits are used in the wrong place, what are the consequences? This shows that there are two sides to everything, which requires parents to help their children grow.
In everyone's mind, it is not easy to develop good study habits, but we ignore the plasticity and potential of children. At the beginning, parents can chat with their children more, and practice with their children in poetry recitation, tongue twisters, character stories, etc., and fix a time every day, which not only plants the seeds of reading in the child's subconscious, but also cultivates the child's reading habits.
Of course, Zhou Shao here suggests that when you first start to cultivate your children's learning habits, you should not rush to achieve results, and you should increase the difficulty and intensity little by little. At the beginning, parents must accompany their children more, and after the children have developed habits, they do not need parents to worry about it.
All over the world, education is an eternal hot topic, so there are many ways to deal with education, and the famous ancient educator Confucius put forward the educational concept of "teaching according to aptitude". It can be seen that everyone's personality is different, so the way of education will be different, but the three suggestions in the text are useful for most children.
May parents be able to actively treat their children's education problems, guide their children correctly, and create a good learning atmosphere, so that children can fall in love with learning and understand the joy of learning.
What are your good ways to tutor children to write essays, welcome to explore together!