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In terms of production methods, caesarean section is much simpler and faster than the long-term torture of normal delivery. After a dozen anesthetics, the doctor takes out the baby and sutures it, and the whole process may take 20 minutes.
It seems that caesarean section is indeed much more convenient and comfortable than a normal birth, but now more and more women are reluctant to choose caesarean section when they have a second child.
Why are most mothers reluctant to give birth to a second child by caesarean section?
In life, although caesarean sections bear less pain than vaginal openings, most mothers say that if their physical conditions permit, they are not willing to choose caesarean section when they give birth for the second time.
When the cousin of the tuanzi mother gave birth to the baby for the first time 3 years ago, she was originally planning to give birth smoothly, but at that time, the uterine mouth was open to 10 fingers, and the baby was still reluctant to come out. As the contractions become more and more serious, the stomach is also more and more painful, and the cousin can only be "shun-turn section".
Now the cousin is still two months away from having a second child, this time she said that she did not want to have another caesarean section, but some people around her ridiculed: how good it is to have a caesarean section, and if you sleep, you will give birth to the baby. The cousin did not respond, because as long as she recalled the sin of "pressing the stomach" after a caesarean section, the cousin was terrified.
In life, many mothers do not want to experience another caesarean section, and the postpartum "pressure on the stomach" has a lot to do, everyone is not willing to experience another "pressure on the stomach", and even some mothers have a psychological shadow on the "pressure on the stomach".
What is the "stomach pressure" that makes the mothers smell and change?
Pressing the stomach, as the name suggests, is to press the stomach with your hand, ordinary people will have obvious pain, not to mention that just after the operation, the wound is still recovering, the nurse will directly press hard next to the wound with his hand.
On one side is the pain of the wound, on the other side is the pain of pressing the wound, the two kinds of pain are mixed together, and the feeling that just thinking about it will make you feel "goosebumps".
Since pressing the stomach can be so painful, why can't most pregnant women escape? In fact, this is related to the two functions of stomach pressure:
Pressing the stomach promotes the contraction of the uterus
During vaginal delivery, the contraction of the uterus will promote the delivery of the baby, and the mother of the caesarean section is difficult to restore the uterus from the previous enlarged state to its original state because the mother of the caesarean section has omitted this process, and the nurse comes to press the stomach to help the uterus contract to recover faster.
Pressing the stomach helps the woman to excrete lochia
After the caesarean section, there will be a variety of residual substances in the uterus, such as blood, lochia, etc., which need to be excreted as soon as possible, in order to promote the discharge of lochia, the nurse will come to press the stomach.
Of course, not all caesarean section mothers will have the experience of "pressing the stomach", and those who recover well after childbirth and have a good uterus can avoid the pain of "pressing the stomach".
When the first child is delivered by caesarean section, it is not painful, but the second child is in pain "to kill"
Not only the stomach pressure, but also the mother who came over also reflected that the second child caesarean section was much more painful than the first child. There are roughly the following reasons:
The focus is different between productions
During the first birth, the mother may only pay attention to the situation of the fetus because of nervousness and ignore the pain, while when the second child is familiar with the road, she begins to pay attention to herself, and naturally feels more pain than the first time.
The degree of contractions is stronger after the second caesarean section
Compared with the first childbirth, the uterus is enlarged again, and if you want to return to its original state, you need stronger contractions to achieve it, and naturally there will be more obvious pain.
However, if it can be a smooth delivery, there is no such problem, so the mother of the first child must insist on a smooth delivery if she can give birth.
Push reading: the second child or choose caesarean section, the knife edge is still in the old place?
Those mothers who are preparing for the latter to have a second child can't help but have such doubts: "The first child is born by caesarean section, can the second child still choose to have a smooth birth"? Some pregnant mothers will ask: "The second child is still choosing caesarean section, will the new knife edge still be in the old place"?
Tuanzi's mother herself has not given birth to a second child, but asked those colleagues and friends who had just given birth to a second child, they reflected that the knife edge of the second child's caesarean section was still in the original place. In fact, if you think about it carefully, you really haven't seen anyone around me in your life, and there are two caesarean section scars on your lower abdomen.
A scar has already made the mothers hate that they can't "get rid of it quickly", if there are two, isn't it more uncomfortable?
Doing a second caesarean section in the "old place" still has a lot of benefits
Fix the previous wound: Many mothers do not close carefully enough during a caesarean section, or the mother does not take serious care of the wound, then it will leave a scar that is not very beautiful. The second surgery in the same position will naturally be equivalent to the repair of the last wound.
Avoid the danger of three births: If a wound is opened elsewhere again, the chance of danger is undoubtedly doubled when the mother is pregnant with the third child.
Tuanzi Mama wants to say:
Whether the second child is born smoothly or by caesarean section, it is ultimately decided according to the actual situation, in addition to the personal wishes of the pregnant woman, it is more necessary to follow the doctor's advice.