It is common for some children around us to bite their nails, because some parents do not take it seriously, and some parents are very anxious, feeling that there are too many bacteria in the nails, and children may produce diseases when they eat them, and they need to be corrected in time.
In fact, in my memory, my cousin had this bad habit, because the parents at that time did not care much about the children, and the grandparents at home also spoiled the children, thinking that this was a stage that the children had to go through, so they did not interfere with the children's behavior. But fortunately, my brother corrected this habit in the army because he wanted to become a soldier.
In fact, children love to bite their nails, it is really not a particularly ordinary thing, and the reasons behind it may be related to the following reasons.
1. Imitation behavior
Every child has a strong curiosity, because they are curious about everything, so they are also willing to learn more new knowledge through imitation. Especially when the child enters the three or four-year-old stage, this feature is more vividly displayed.
Once the child learns, he will form a habit. If we also correct these behaviors of our children through some wrong methods, it will lead to the child's continuous strengthening of the nail behavior.
2. There may be certain psychological problems
Some children are annoyed by their parents' care and the company of other children from an early age, so he is likely to have a series of psychological problems, such as insecurity. Then this kind of child will get rid of his own heart, or the fear of unfamiliar environment and loneliness through the inertia of biting his nails.
Therefore, when parents find that their children frequently bite their nails and have psychological development abnormalities such as introversion or extreme personality, then parents should pay attention.
3. Children's language development ability is slow
There is also a situation that the child's language development is relatively slow, so the child can not vent his emotions in time, when the child has tension or other needs, because it will not be expressed in language, it can only use body language to convey their inner needs to parents.
For example, rolling on the ground, such as crying, and then such as nail gnawing. As we all know, there are actually many disadvantages to children nibbling on their nails.
First of all, parents can take into account the issue of hygiene. After all, the child's small hands touch everywhere, and the nail polish can just hide dirt and dirt. Let's not talk about bacteria, germs, parasites just think about parents feel too dirty.
Secondly, it may also affect the child's personality problems. Isn't it nice that children are cheerful and innocent? But those children who often bite their nails, they may more or less form a certain emotional factor, and this factor is bad, for a long time, the child's memory of personality will lead to changes.
Finally, it affects the beauty of the nails. If a child often looks at his nails, then his nails must be not good-looking, they are bitten unevenly, and when they are severe, they may expose the nail bed, suffer from paronychia and so on.
But the child has suffered from the problem of nail care, ah, how to change it in the end? We do not recommend that parents use sarcasm or violence to manage their children's misplaced behavior.
The correct way should be for parents to accompany their children more, so that children's hearts can get full satisfaction and security, and fundamentally solve the child's bad habit of nail-nibbling.
In addition, parents can also cultivate their children's interests and hobbies. Cultivate children's interests and hobbies. Correct your child's bad habit of biting your nails by diverting your child's attention.
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